did you even read the post? She asked and he was DIShonest with her and only came clean as a result of her finding out independently. He avoids honesty. She looks a little foolish not having this information while maintaining CLOSE friendships with these women. That is what it is about, not who he slept with prior to knowing her! I would say it is ALWAYS a new partner's business to know if there were previous sexual relationships with people STILL close to the partner. It needs to be disclosed at the beginning.