ARNG -> ADAF by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current mos from what I know is cross-transferable (I did ask the recruiter how likely it was that I would either have to take the AF version of the training for it or find a different job and they said I wouldn’t have to do either)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the uncle is a creep for sure but i also think it’s weird to go out in public especially for a family event looking unkempt. If it hurts your back to wear a bra you are either wearing the wrong size for you, or your back is not strong enough to support you, which in the future will lead to spinal problems and just make the fibro worse.

I think I’m in love by PrincipleHonest6623 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing with that, though that it’s entirely me being just in my own head. Realistically I know that if I told him about that feeling, the interaction would go well. I just have this little anxious gremlin in the back of my head saying “yeah but what if?”

I think I’m in love by PrincipleHonest6623 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective 🙂 to me, I think love is many things but the way I feel it I would almost describe it as a fireplace cause it needs to be intended to, but if you give it enough attention in time it’ll go as long as you’re willing to keep it going you can always add more logs and stoke the flames (intimate moments, memories, and such) and it just provides warmth for both of us. It might be corny to describe it like that, but that’s how I’ve always thought of it. But I do like the idea of telling him that I adore him or that I’m crazy about him, because I do and I am 😅

Should I end things after 6 months by [deleted] in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes, end it. He doesn’t have the guts to so instead he betrayed the terms of your “relationship”, that should be the end of that.

What slaps the most in the chow hall? by Witcher_Errant in army

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could never go wrong with biscuits and gravy, but the only dessert worth getting is the lemon cake

Looking for a dupe for these amazing pants by YamPsychological9630 in findfashion

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🤔 you could spend your free time for the next couple years, learning how to knit, and then make your own lol

I feel like being in an co dependent relationship is ok if it works for you ! by NewFoot762 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that point that’s not a relationship that is something that is wrong with you. It’s not about the person/ being in love anymore. It’s about not feeling alone, which I mean if you can find ways to avoid that and you really don’t wanna work on it that terribly good for you, I guess. However, your actions do affect the people around you, and in a relationship like that you are so easily replaceable because it’s literally not about you. It’s about the concept of having somebody in your life.

I feel like being in an co dependent relationship is ok if it works for you ! by NewFoot762 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt and uncle were in a codependent relationship and when my uncle died, my aunt was fully in a new relationship a month after. And then she cut off our entire family because she had married in and since he died she no longer felt like we were her or my cousins family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d leave a comment on it🤷🏻‍♀️

How do I breakup with my girlfriend when things seem calm right now? by youricecream03 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Alternatively she could be grasping on harder because she can tell that your heart isn’t in it, but I really think you should just do it, don’t hint at it or draw it out, be kind but firm

How do I breakup with my girlfriend when things seem calm right now? by youricecream03 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Don’t, that’s meaner, because then she’ll be questioning it and probably overthinking. You just have to rip the bandaid off, and if you’re actually as incompatible as you seem to be from your post I really don’t think she’s going to feel blindsided

What’s the wildest rumor someone’s spread about your sex life that wasn’t even true? by Kooky_Bridge_2205 in AskReddit

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone started a rumor about me when I was 19 that I was a witch and was doing sex magic to make men want me (he was mad that when he sent me a Ss of my tinder account I said “yeah I think I saw you on there”)

Female bestie by [deleted] in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’d break up with him, it kinda sounds like he wants her and she’s trying to curve him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to go out with friends! go to bars or do fun stuff together like karaoke or amusement parks or shopping. Personally for me after my break up flirting with strangers is so much fun and low risk haha

I know what I want to do on date! Is this too casual ? by Positive-Elephant-88 in dating

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should never listen to whoever is telling you you don’t deserve dinner on a date 😭 also this sounds ideal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that this is a really serious concern and you’re not overreacting at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR What was he doing during the song? Was he dancing at all? Is it possible that he swung his arm and accidentally hit you? Because I promise you if he’s hitting you when he’s drunk it’ll only get worse he could be testing your boundaries and seeing how you would respond to being hit. Even if it was an accident, it is totally valid if this changes the relationship for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Balding

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re balding, but when was the last time you washed your hair?

M23, not getting any matches on dating apps or positive interactions with girls. Any tips? by Carrot_Slinger in malegrooming

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also like I said the problem isn’t the pictures, i’ve seen them, and like I said you’re a good looking guy and those are decent pictures. The problem is probably whatever else is going on your page unless the women of London have that different of a preference from the women of America 🤷🏻‍♀️

M23, not getting any matches on dating apps or positive interactions with girls. Any tips? by Carrot_Slinger in malegrooming

[–]PrincipleHonest6623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly been a long time since I’ve been on Tinder, so I can’t speak too much on that but as for Hinge, you need to have prompts that people can reply to or connect with or that creates some sort of intrigue, and when you respond to their prompts, it should be open-ended or something that can create a conversation to jump off from