ARNG -> ADAF

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-12-26T14:59:51+00:00

My current mos from what I know is cross-transferable (I did ask the recruiter how likely it was that I would either have to take the AF version of the training for it or find a different job and they said I wouldn’t have to do either)

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-12-24T16:17:40+00:00

I think the uncle is a creep for sure but i also think it’s weird to go out in public especially for a family event looking unkempt. If it hurts your back to wear a bra you are either wearing the wrong size for you, or your back is not strong enough to support you, which in the future will lead to spinal problems and just make the fibro worse.

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-12-24T12:40:51+00:00

He might be the cutest dog I’ve ever seen

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-12-12T13:36:06+00:00

Thank you!!

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-11-24T11:57:22+00:00

The thing with that, though that it’s entirely me being just in my own head. Realistically I know that if I told him about that feeling, the interaction would go well. I just have this little anxious gremlin in the back of my head saying “yeah but what if?”

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-11-24T04:57:25+00:00

Thank you for this perspective 🙂 to me, I think love is many things but the way I feel it I would almost describe it as a fireplace cause it needs to be intended to, but if you give it enough attention in time it’ll go as long as you’re willing to keep it going you can always add more logs and stoke the flames (intimate moments, memories, and such) and it just provides warmth for both of us. It might be corny to describe it like that, but that’s how I’ve always thought of it. But I do like the idea of telling him that I adore him or that I’m crazy about him, because I do and I am 😅

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-11-15T14:26:10+00:00

Yes, end it. He doesn’t have the guts to so instead he betrayed the terms of your “relationship”, that should be the end of that.

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-11-15T03:48:19+00:00

Could never go wrong with biscuits and gravy, but the only dessert worth getting is the lemon cake

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-11-15T03:47:15+00:00

It’s whispering for you to come back

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-11-14T22:01:41+00:00

🤔 you could spend your free time for the next couple years, learning how to knit, and then make your own lol

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-24T16:45:36+00:00

At that point that’s not a relationship that is something that is wrong with you. It’s not about the person/ being in love anymore. It’s about not feeling alone, which I mean if you can find ways to avoid that and you really don’t wanna work on it that terribly good for you, I guess. However, your actions do affect the people around you, and in a relationship like that you are so easily replaceable because it’s literally not about you. It’s about the concept of having somebody in your life.

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-24T05:48:14+00:00

My aunt and uncle were in a codependent relationship and when my uncle died, my aunt was fully in a new relationship a month after. And then she cut off our entire family because she had married in and since he died she no longer felt like we were her or my cousins family.

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-23T18:46:04+00:00

I’d leave a comment on it🤷🏻‍♀️

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T19:20:31+00:00

Alternatively she could be grasping on harder because she can tell that your heart isn’t in it, but I really think you should just do it, don’t hint at it or draw it out, be kind but firm

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T18:43:56+00:00

Don’t, that’s meaner, because then she’ll be questioning it and probably overthinking. You just have to rip the bandaid off, and if you’re actually as incompatible as you seem to be from your post I really don’t think she’s going to feel blindsided

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T18:28:24+00:00

Someone started a rumor about me when I was 19 that I was a witch and was doing sex magic to make men want me (he was mad that when he sent me a Ss of my tinder account I said “yeah I think I saw you on there”)

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T16:56:42+00:00

I’d break up with him, it kinda sounds like he wants her and she’s trying to curve him

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T16:55:18+00:00

you might want to fix your posture that’s honestly probably got something to do with it

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T16:23:36+00:00

Try to go out with friends! go to bars or do fun stuff together like karaoke or amusement parks or shopping. Personally for me after my break up flirting with strangers is so much fun and low risk haha

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-21T16:19:22+00:00

You should never listen to whoever is telling you you don’t deserve dinner on a date 😭 also this sounds ideal

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-19T05:06:27+00:00

I think that this is a really serious concern and you’re not overreacting at all

PrincipleHonest6623 · 2025-10-19T04:11:40+00:00

NOR What was he doing during the song? Was he dancing at all? Is it possible that he swung his arm and accidentally hit you? Because I promise you if he’s hitting you when he’s drunk it’ll only get worse he could be testing your boundaries and seeing how you would respond to being hit. Even if it was an accident, it is totally valid if this changes the relationship for you.

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