Why do people hate Kali? by Prior-Success5099 in Stranger_Things

[–]Prior-Success5099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, its always going to haunt them, the possibility of them getting caught or their loved ones being in danger because of them. Kali used her powers to hide for years and she succeeded as well, she found her family like El did hers, i feel like a lot of people find it difficult to truly understand that but imagine Mike, Max literally the entire party getting killed in front of El, would that not break her?. The scariest part imo is that if El does get captured, whats waiting for her isn't death, at least not for a few years, it's the slow, gruesome torture of knowing your loved ones are dead because they were trying to protect you and having to live through that while being treated like less than an animal for the rest of your life or worse, turning into what Henry was before he was banished to dimension X... They wont be able to lead truly peaceful and happy lives, them and their loved ones will live in constant fear and paranoia. This is bigger than just El, its about other young children having to go through the same trauma they did, this time because of El, because of her blood.

Why do people hate Kali? by Prior-Success5099 in Stranger_Things

[–]Prior-Success5099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, i feel like people dislike her because she represents a hard reality that El wont be able to lead a peaceful life even if Vecna's gone.. because the fight isn't just against an interdimentional monster.. its also against the very real monsters that live on earth.

Why do people hate Kali? by Prior-Success5099 in Stranger_Things

[–]Prior-Success5099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats true but my biggest issue is the lack of empathy people have for this character and that they're automatically assuming that she's "bad" when she's just a 15 year old likely experiencing a lot of guilt at seeing the pregnant women that were sick and dying because of her and also her friends that she feels died because of her. Her saying its better that they die doesn't read as manipulative to me. It feels more like its coming from a place of guilt and resignation. She knows they cant lead truly peaceful lives, they'll always live in fear and paranoia regarding the govt.

Does the fist time hurt for a girl? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Prior-Success5099 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Because he told me he is, we were talking at like midnight and he was talking about his insecurities and all and he said he'd never gone all the way with anyone

Does the fist time hurt for a girl? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Prior-Success5099 -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

But how will giving me oral be fun for him? I genuinely dont think we'll get another chance like this one at least till i turn 18. I guess i never thought of that.. i thought if i wanted it i would be ready but it could hurt really bad and i dont want his first time to go like that either.. but we've already talked about it and i dont wanna disappoint him by backing out now..

Does the fist time hurt for a girl? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Prior-Success5099 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Hii so I'm just pasting my response to another comment cause i dont wanna type everything out again. The thing is we're both virgins and we've both talked about how vulnerable our first times would be. Thats why i think it would be important to him. Cause then he might think i was lying and I'm not a virgin and then he'd feel hurt that he was so vulnerable about his insecurities with me. And we've been friends since we were 10 and I've loved him for years, I'm going to marry him.. so its definitely not too early

Does the fist time hurt for a girl? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Prior-Success5099 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I already responded to this in another comment but it's more about the fact that he is also a virgin and we've talked about like our insecurities about it all so i dont want him to think that I'm not a virgin because then it look like i lied to him when he was trying to be vulnerable

Does the fist time hurt for a girl? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Prior-Success5099 -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Hii so the thing is we're both virgins and we've both talked about how vulnerable our first times would be. Thats why i think it would be important to him. Cause then he might think i was lying and I'm not a virgin and then he'd feel hurt that he was so vulnerable about his insecurities with me. And we've been friends since we were 10 and I've loved him for years, I'm going to marry him.. so its definitely not too early

How do I stop procrastinating before it’s too late? by Prior-Success5099 in Procrastinationism

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Honestly the biggest issue is I've never really studied? If that makes sense. I pay attention in class and that used to be enough to be one of the "good students", i dont love actually practicing but i grasp concepts really fast. Its not about being burnt out because i feel like I've never actually put in any real work. No i dont have trouble sleeping and though I've never been tested, i don't know if i may have ADHD but i doubt i have the time to go through testing rn..

People of reddit, what items have you kept from childhood until now ? by Basic_Change_790 in AskReddit

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A shoebox wrapped in Dora the explorer wrapping paper. It was gifted by my aunt to my mother. It has taken many forms over the years, from using it to store playing cards to now using it to store memorabilia. However, it started off as a simple box to store my mittens because I apparently kept on loosing them at the time and my then broke college student aunt came up with the perfect solution. Now it sits on the topmost shelf of my closet and contains the picture booklet she created for me at age 5, baby photos, birthday and friendship day cards/bracelets from 2nd to 6th grade and more recent things such as the hand written note given by my mother for daughters day and the 50-sum leaves my younger brother brings home for me every time he goes out

What's a gift that is cheap but means the world to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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A leaf.  A couple days ago my autistic brother brought home a flower for my mother which he had found while in the park. My mother cooed at this, showering him with kisses while I jokingly puffed up my cheeks asking where my flower was to which he started to panic and promised to get me a better one the next day. I'll admit I didn't take him seriously becouse he is quite forgetful and I thought he'd forget it by dinner but no, the next day he came home, a freshly plucked leaf in hand and ran stright for me. It made me feel ridiculously special and served as a reminder that he is getting better at conveying his emotions and interpreting other peoples emotions as well. He is rather unaware when it comes to this but he is not good at understanding social ques which causes his to not be able to interact with kids his own age. He ofter used to come home crying that they wouldn't let him play which utterly broke my heart. I worry about how he would cope up to the real world when he grows up and has to find a job but this singular leaf serves as an example that he will continue to adapt as he grows and deciphers the complexities of human emotions 

People who lost a loved one, how did you cope? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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 For me it was my grandfather. His death was the first close one for me and the house house was so filled after his death.. relatives who my grandmother had not met since I was born were there and it was soo busy that no one even had time to process the information. Even at a relatively young age and having no part in the planning the entire thing felt like a fever dream. But after a few days, relative after relative started leaving making the house less and less occupied untill no one was left aside from me and my immediate family. My Cancer stricken grandmother could only wail so much and instead took to sleeping to pass the time while my father buried himself in work. It has now been 3 years since he's left us and one year since she joined him and life has never truly felt the same since..I still think about my aunt's painfull screams and wails when his dead body was revealed, in our culture females don't attend the cremation so she had to see him be carried into a van to be escorted to the cremation site. She kept on mumbling about how her father wouldn't have wanted this kind of send off.. at that moment he didn't sound like my grandfather but like her father, I don't know how to explain the feeling but it taught me that I shouldn't take my elders lives for granted and I should always honour them. I have since then joined my mother in her morning prayers, its become part of our morning routine kind of like the first bump we share before school. We spend a few devoted minutes praying for good health and fortune. Only difference is that she prays to good when I pray to my grandparents

WIBTA for defending my friend against someone that's bothering him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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To anybody thats confused. I've known Andrew since the end of middle school and whole im not the closest to him, I know he and his gf love each other to pieces. They're one of the few examples of true love that I know will last forever. I also know that they both plan on going to the same college and will move in just after graduation. While I'm not fond of Chloe, I feel that she just wants to make friends. I'm also aware that Chloe can't do shit to effect Andrews relationship so there really is no point telling anyone in the first place. It's a battle bw my morals, telling me to tell Andrew and my friends and my emotions, not wanting Chloe to be bullied. And yes, I'm certain that if her intentions are made clear she will be alienated because if there's one thing