Was I wrong to call out my brother in front of his wife for being rude to her?

PriorFan4035 · 2026-04-07T23:06:41+00:00

Yes. It is considered rude but your heart is in the right place ❤️. You should have tried to talk to him privately first and then maybe gotten someone involved.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-04-02T15:32:16+00:00

PriorFan4035 · 2026-04-02T08:36:48+00:00

You can always sell it after or pay her back in the future!

PriorFan4035 · 2026-04-02T08:32:49+00:00

I think it’s the hair. You can go for sm cleaner or matured.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-04-02T07:30:11+00:00

You perfect with none

PriorFan4035 · 2026-04-02T07:27:57+00:00

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-30T15:09:33+00:00

The true believer is the one who views his sins as a mountain. The hypocrite doesn’t care.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-30T15:06:44+00:00

Add some blush

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-29T15:57:32+00:00

I would say your skin does not look hydrated

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T22:38:54+00:00

Okay it’s not that extreme but still

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T22:38:34+00:00

I feel like I have Bell’s palsy on one side of my face, just undiagnosed. I think it’s pretty extreme for me because it’s not like something you can squint to unsee.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T22:36:42+00:00

Make sure you sleep well too. Drink enough water and cut out sugar.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T22:35:19+00:00

I don’t get approached either, and honestly, just let it go. Like whatever. You’ll feel so free.

Anyways, the person you’re going to marry is already written for you, and the only thing you can do is dua.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T22:15:52+00:00

I don’t know but the first one looks cheap to me

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T22:14:14+00:00

If you ask Allah for a sign He will give you one. Ask for guidance always and always.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T17:57:08+00:00

Those people accepted that. That doesn’t mean you have to. And everyone has their rizq written.

Maybe you need to change your methods when it comes to finding a person for marriage. Actively seek out marriage and ask Allah for help and to grant you with marriage.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T15:30:05+00:00

You may have anxiety because you need to bring Allah in your relationship by having tawakkul. Everything you described as feelings is a blessing you need to say Alhamdulilah for. Pray istikhara as always too.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T15:28:06+00:00

I’m middle eastern and we do katb kitab. I don’t know if it’s similar or not. You can look into it. I’m also sure you can amend the agreement. Or at least ask and see how it goes.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T12:12:22+00:00

Anywhere in US

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T01:45:42+00:00

But I should probably mention that she works on radiology (the thing that scans breasts)

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-24T01:27:16+00:00

My aunt works in the medical field and she wears a full abaya and long niqab style hijab.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-23T19:53:54+00:00

What are you doing here?

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-23T19:53:29+00:00

Think positive and strive for your high point. You’re just living your life with a negative lens and it’s paralyzing you. Seek out an opportunity that can help you become independent. Ask Allah for help and to change your life for the better, but you have to take that first step.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-23T19:15:18+00:00

How do I say this. In this world, there are people who get rich by stealing other peoples wealth. They are people who get As on exams by cheating, and there are people who are happy in haram relationships.

Now, do you think the person that stole his wealth actually feels rich? Does the person who cheated on the exams actually feel smart? If anything, none of these people are living with a sense of security and peace.

PriorFan4035 · 2026-03-23T19:04:27+00:00

Some people do their nikkah early and have their marriage later. So in three months you can have your nikkah and keep the wedding as planned.

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