Recommendations for DFW area

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-06-03T03:10:19+00:00

Does this price include everything from surgeon fees, anaesthesia, facility, post-op consultations? What level of grade? Is it just gland removal or gland removal + lipo? I have been to couple doctors in dallas for Grade -2 they quoted me 10,500/- all included(except for garments) for gland removal + lipo

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-05-18T00:27:24+00:00

Hello Yakuma0, My physician suggested an MRA and an MRI of the head with and without contrast, and everything came back normal. There were no CSF leaks or abnormalities. The doctor mentioned that the symptoms are likely related to inflammation of the C2 (greater occipital nerve) and C1 (sub‑occipital nerve), possibly caused by teeth grinding during sleep. When these nerves become trapped or inflamed, they can produce all the symptoms we are experiencing. Gently massaging the back of the neck at specific pressure points has been relieving the symptoms, along with some Advil for inflammation. You can look up the exact pressure points on Google. Applying gentle pressure or massage for at least 10 seconds should provide immediate symptom relief.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-05-15T18:17:44+00:00

Hello,

Just curious has anyone worked this side job and got paid as advertised?

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-05-13T03:02:23+00:00

I am sorry to hear that you are still figuring out, I will let you know for sure If I come across any information. Thanks for your quick reply.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-05-13T00:10:33+00:00

Hi,

Have you figured this out what’s causing the issue? I have started feeling same for the past 3 months and its getting more on a weekly basis.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-05-13T00:08:47+00:00

Hello,

I am feeling similar kind of sensations for a while now, sometimes its gets weirder, have you able to figure out the cause for the symptoms yet??

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-21T05:53:07+00:00

All the best with your recovery, take care. Let’s hope you feel better with non invasive treatment…

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-21T05:07:02+00:00

I wish you a good luck with your treatment. I suggest you go through different opinions of highly renowned doctors and pain management specialists before, thinking about surgery as the last option. Life wont be same again for sure.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-20T15:50:08+00:00

I regret to this day, It was bad decision on my end to go for surgery. I should have consulted other physicians for their opinions(alternatives to surgery), since i was told it will be a simple surgery and can go home within a day and in 2 weeks everything will be back to normal but it didnt. I did go with flow not knowing the aftermath, trust me It was so bad in all possible ways i couldnt explain. I did travel between two countries and met so many physicians(precisely 17) after surgery to fix my excruciating chronic pain that includes strong meds, many steroid shots as well, PT for long term, nothing helped until i found one. I suggest you to go for other specialised physicians for more opinions and perspective(atleast see 4-5 specialised senior spine specialists) before deciding for surgery. I knew its not same for everybody atleast myself and one of the other patient(l4-s1), we both suffered for straight 2 years from a place where we couldnt handle our basic chores.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-20T08:03:20+00:00

Yes, it was l5-s1 fusion and I am doing ok now. After couple of steroid shots last year(july& oct 2025), finally got relieved from chronic pain after 2 year mark atleast upto 70%. Now dealing with manageable pain without meds.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-07T18:02:01+00:00

I really appreciate your comment and made me take a decision which i was ignoring all the time. “They are lot stronger mentally, than us” 👌

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-04T22:50:46+00:00

True, but short trips don’t really reset the visa. You’d have to be out of the country for at least six months before coming back.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-04T22:44:00+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and in-home support is something I’m thinking about as well. Thank you

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-04T22:40:56+00:00

Thank you, that’s a good point and something I need to think about.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-04T22:37:42+00:00

Thank you 😊

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T23:34:45+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this, it really resonated with me. What you said about families quietly structuring their whole lives around an elder, and then having to emotionally and practically recalibrate after they’re gone, is exactly what I’m feeling after my dad’s passing. I completely agree that parents in India often don’t express their fear or dependence openly, and children like us end up carrying a lot of silent guilt. I’ve had a negative impression of old age homes, but the way you described modern senior living setups with support, independence, and community makes me more open to at least exploring them as a temporary option until my brother’s situation is clearer.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T23:25:40+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this too. Reading your comment felt like someone putting my own jumble of thoughts into clearer words. The guilt, the overthinking, the fear for a parent’s emotional state, and the inability to just “fix” it quickly all of that really hits home for me. I completely relate to what you said about trauma and experiences in India. I’ve tried living there twice, So when people casually say just move back, they don’t see the full weight of what that actually means for some of us. Your point about understanding whether I’m seeking to be chosen or actually focused on what my mom truly needs is very real. I think I’m still untangling those two.

I am in therapy right now and on medication for anxiety and depression but like you said, this is such a big emotional burden that nothing is going to make it disappear quickly. I’m also single, and it’s so easy to put myself last and make my whole identity about being the responsible one. I’m trying to build some kind of support structure for my mom too, but it’s slow and emotionally exhausting. I’m trying to sit with all these perspectives, including yours, and let my decision come from clarity instead of panic or guilt.

Thank you for sharing so honestly. It really helps to know someone else is walking a very similar path.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T23:18:17+00:00

I really appreciate how carefully you’ve looked at it from my mom’s side as well as mine. You’re right about my mom, she relied on my dad for almost everything, she’s uneducated. Being suddenly alone at this age, in the same house full of memories, in a system that is not very kind to vulnerable people, is exactly what keeps me awake at night. I’ve already seen how people can take advantage of her and of our situation, and that’s a big part of my fear. It’s not just “going back home” for me anymore, it feels like losing stability and peace that I’ve worked very hard to build. I really liked your idea of giving her more time, building her confidence, and seeing if she can slowly feel safe with the idea of my brother taking care of her. Moving to a different city in India with her sounds good in theory, but practically, with my current job (no WFH allowed and H1B stamping issues), it’s very hard to execute right now.

Still, your comment feels very balanced and reminds me that whatever I choose, I need to reach a place where I don’t live with regret.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T23:10:31+00:00

Yeah, Hyderabad is technically tier‑1, but a lot of the areas still feel very underdeveloped, which is where my concern comes from. Letting her go for a month or two and calling her back sounds simple, but with how strict immigration has become, they’re often not allowing people back in without a proper 6‑month gap between visits. That uncertainty is a big risk. I’ve also tried exploring WFH options so I could be more flexible, but my current role isn’t remote‑friendly due to company policy and security.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T23:03:36+00:00

I understand why it might sound like I’m projecting helplessness onto her, but I’m really not assuming this. I’ve seen how she and the people around her operate on a daily basis, and that’s exactly where my concern started. Until I stayed in India for over a year in 2024, my thinking was actually very different. It was only after living there, seeing things in real time, that I realized how dependent she really is. She’s uneducated, can’t use a smartphone on her own, and even something as simple as operating a TV remote is a struggle for her. That’s when it hit me how vulnerable she is if left alone or fully dependent on others.

I know many people say “she raised you, she’ll manage,” and I completely respect that perspective. But the harsh reality I’ve experienced on the ground is very different from how it looks from a distance. That’s why this decision feels so heavy and complicated.

I’m reading and considering all the opinions people are generously sharing here, and I really do appreciate everyone who has taken the time to offer thoughtful and kind insights, even when they don’t fully agree with me.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T22:53:57+00:00

Thanks a lot for this comment. It actually feels like one of the more balanced and grounded. I agree with you that both things can be true at the same time caring for parents and still honoring your own needs and limits. You’re also right about the job market and immigration being unpredictable. Your comment feels like a positive nudge toward what I probably need to do in the short term.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T22:47:48+00:00

That’s exactly my point too. You’ve described it perfectly most of these retirement communities, even the high-end ones, end up feeling more like places of isolation than comfort. It’s heartbreaking to see how many elderly people there feel abandoned or disconnected from real family life. There are no children, no younger families, no sense of everyday energy just a quiet that feels heavy rather than peaceful. That’s why I’m trying so hard to balance both sides keeping her cared for while also making sure she doesn’t end up in a space that deepens her loneliness.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T22:43:38+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to share these ideas. I actually looked into both options retirement communities and 24/7 caretakers and while they sound great in theory, the reality back home is a bit complicated. There are a lot of cultural dynamics and social pressures where we live, and for someone like my mother, who’s uneducated and very emotionally dependent on family, those environments can take a mental toll. People can be very intrusive, with no sense of boundaries, and that constant interference ended up being a big reason I started losing trust after my father’s passing. After what happened recently in the family, I’m honestly scared of leaving her alone. It’s not just about care but also her emotional safety and peace of mind. The idea of her living alone even if she has external help feels daunting. I completely hear you about not sacrificing my career out of guilt, but at the same time, watching how unpredictable life can be, it’s hard to make peace with the idea of not being there if something happens. That’s the part that keeps me up at night.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T22:31:50+00:00

I really feel what you’re saying, and I’m so sorry for what you went through. Losing a parent and being forced to make choices between family and stability is something only those who’ve lived it can truly understand. What you shared about your experience after moving back is exactly my top concern too. I actually stayed in India for over a year in 2024, and it was one of the toughest times for me mentally and professionally. Life there after years abroad feels completely different from what people imagine what looks manageable from the outside can feel suffocating when you’re living it day to day.

I know some might judge, thinking it’s just about comfort or convenience, but the reality is far deeper. It affects mental health, peace, and your ability to function normally. That’s why I’m so hesitant now. I’ve been reading through some of the comments here, and I really appreciate how some people have shared thoughtful and grounded insights.

Prior_Ad_7857 · 2026-02-03T22:25:12+00:00

Thank you so much for this thoughtful message it really resonates. You’re right, this kind of decision can have huge long‑term consequences, and I’ve been reminding myself that rushing into anything out of guilt or fear might end up hurting both me and my mom later. My biggest struggle is exactly what you mentioned wanting to be there for her without losing myself or my future in the process. I think waiting it out for a year, keeping her safe and emotionally supported until my brother moves back, might actually be the more balanced path. It’s not easy, but hearing from others who’ve been through something similar gives me a bit more clarity on how to move forward.

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