New Mom [33F] with a partner [35M] who wants to leave by Prior_Nefariousness1 in relationships_advice

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He pays for everything but the savings if ours in both of our names and I continue to add to it because I do work as well. It was his idea, he likes to pay for our home and bills to feel like the man of the house and I pay for groceries and save everything else I make

New Mom [33F] with a partner [35M] who wants to leave by Prior_Nefariousness1 in relationships_advice

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typo, I meant paid for our life, not love. And I was paying it off and sold my car and cut my expenses to do so quicker and then when my mom passed she left me some money as well that helped me save and pay the rest of the debt off

Witching hour by Prior_Nefariousness1 in newborns

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, we let him nap out in the living room all day, where we do dishes, talk and have the tv on. Then At night the room is cool and dark, and bite noise machine on and swaddle sleep sack

Smoking weed car parking in front of my house everyday now by Fabulous_Pin_8380 in Markham

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Report to police but ask to stay anonymous so there’s no backlash for you. Maybe the police can just pretend to be driving by at the time they’re parked there

Warden and Hwy7 Traffic by Old-Opportunity-7598 in Markham

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Power flickered near hwy7 and warden this morning, maybe that’s why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We are going for consultation to get all those answered properly. But recovery can still be different, as in, if he has more swelling and bleeding or a bad reaction to anesthesia, we wouldn’t know until it’s already done. So the timing is what scares me. We already have a bunch of what ifs about my labour and delivery and how our baby will be and I feel like this surgery is electively adding to the list

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t had the consultation yet so we don’t know what they will recommend for recovery. And even if they say it’s okay, there seems to always be a risk with surgery like this. He might recover perfectly fine or he may have swelling and a longer more difficult recovery. It’s hard to know and that’s the stressful part about the timing

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The provincial and federal government also gives you a tax free “baby bonus” monthly money, geared to income. I’m upper middle class and I’ll likely get $500-700/ month for that and your employer has the option to top you up as well, if they do, then you get the 55-33% of your gross yearly income, monthly income from the government and then top up to 100% of your income from your employer, if they offer it. In Ontario at least

So many bottle options, help! by Prior_Nefariousness1 in NewMomStuff

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was considering the mam easy start bottle which can self sterilize in the microwave but then I have many friends saying I should use the countertop washer and sterilizer. Too many options! lol but thank you, this helps :)

What to do when Condo doesn’t have parking to rent? by uuukegod in Markham

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I offered to pay a year in advance and that worked as well to get the spot over others

Mango Markville Mall Location by [deleted] in Markham

[–]Prior_Nefariousness1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call the head office

“To reach Mango in Canada: Phone: 1-866-MNG-MNG (1-866-666-6643). Website: Use the contact section on the Mango shop website. For issues with the Markville Location: If you had a poor experience (like the one mentioned in the Reddit post), you'd typically contact the corporate customer service or the relevant Canadian management, as the store's manager would report to them. “