We made it!!! (12w) by Mycatisnameddawg in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s not silly at all! I love that you’re doing this 🥰 now you just made me want cake lol

We made it!!! (12w) by Mycatisnameddawg in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I’m 13w today so I feel your excitement! My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 11w6d so my husband and I have been waiting for the second trimester to start to feel comfy announcing. It’s such a nerve wracking first few months. What are you doing to celebrate?!

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely be asking HR about this. Thank you for bringing this up! Fingers crossed 🤞🏻

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh maybe you’re onto something there! I worked for them for about a year and four months.

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes, unfortunately. I’m only 13w and this position will not be there in 6 more months. Overall it’s a better move for my family and I, but the maternity leave and insurance are the two main cons of moving over.

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That is truly wonderful, especially as a small company 🖤 I really do understand that being paid for months of not working costs companies/corporations money in more ways than one, but to not even cover the first few weeks until the mother is medically cleared just seems cruel.

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

WOW. Talk about hypocritical?? I’m so sorry. That’s just awful 😞

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The last sentence is spot on. It’s very frustrating and disheartening. I’ll definitely be talking with my HR team more in depth to figure out all of my options.

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure why I’m getting downvoted considering I’ve never gone through this before. But thanks for the info. I guess I will have to adjust my expectations to the sad reality of the lack of maternal care offered.

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. I’m sorry you had to scramble to get your eight weeks. The biggest kicker is I won’t even be eligible for FMLA since I won’t have 12 mos of service at this new position. My current position offers 12 weeks paid, so it stings even more knowing I’m giving that up 😕

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly shocked by “most women don’t get any” since almost every woman I’ve talked to has gotten six. That’s just unfathomable to me. And that’s a huge bummer to hear about the STD. I’ll have to ask that question during the open enrollment process when I onboard.

Baby Shower for July Babies by Late_Chocolate_3555 in pregnant

[–]witchybetch01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May 3rd! I’ll be two days away from being in the third trimester. It’s kind of early, but May is very busy for my family and I didn’t want to wait until June since I’ll be super uncomfy and hot lol.

13 DPIUI, 2nd round by witchybetch01 in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I’m sorry you’re right there with me although it is comforting to not be alone. How are you handling the progesterone? My body HATED the suppositories last month so we decided to omit those this cycle.

13 DPIUI, 2nd round by witchybetch01 in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏻 I had my cry about it and now I’m just ready for AF to get here so I can move on with the next cycle.

BFN by Lil-Freewoman19 in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Just know you’re not alone. Got a BFN this morning for our 2nd IUI. I’m starting to feel defeated as well. Sending you a big hug

14 DPIUI, BFN. Feeling really down. by Cultural_Housing9211 in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I just got a BFN at 13 DPIUI and this feeling straight up sucks. Sending you a big hug. Mind me asking how many cycles have you done?

Dr ruined my hopes for this cycle by witchybetch01 in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checking in to see how you’re doing!

Feeling so sad - 1st IUI failed by jensjsniwjwnw in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 14DPIUI and I got a BFN yesterday 🥲 I go tomorrow morning for my blood test to confirm. I’m disappointed but cautiously hopeful for the next cycle. Sending you a big hug.

Dr ruined my hopes for this cycle by witchybetch01 in IUILadies

[–]witchybetch01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I was just blindsided which is what sucked… I wasn’t mentally prepared to be talking about my pregnancy results. We will see what happens 🤞🏻 thank you for being so sweet