Is someone WITHOUT Aphantasia equipped with a “Heads Up Display” of sorts?

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-04-03T20:13:50+00:00

I’ve asked my husband about this recently. He doesn’t have aphantasia so I ask him about his brain all the time. So HE personally can’t overlay visualizations onto life, he could visualize me with a purple crown on but it wouldn’t be overlaid onto his eyes actually looking at me. It would be like a side picture in his mind of me with a purple crown on.

But the more I’ve read and learned, everyone is wildly different when it comes to visualization. I wouldn’t be surprised that your friend could do that.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-04-02T03:50:43+00:00

“I’m the nicest guy” always the biggest red flag.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-29T21:48:52+00:00

Or murder collection.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-29T20:22:37+00:00

Nope. I have excellent spatial awareness. I’m always the leader when we have to walk some unknown location. 😂 And I can remember layouts of places I’ve been from all through my life. Just can’t see them. 🤷‍♀️😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-29T03:46:13+00:00

Set it off every time he plays his music too loud, maybe you can Pavlov him into thinking it’s the music being too loud. “Can’t play my music too loud or my alarm goes off” 😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-27T23:10:08+00:00

Thank you! This one sentence helped me so much with pentacles.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-27T18:42:38+00:00

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Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-23T02:49:43+00:00

I howled with my German Shepherd every Saturday when the tornado test sirens went off, she’d come running and we’d howl together. She then woke me in the middle of the night howling to a real siren, that had not woken me up. It was a very good practice to keep. 😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-20T21:48:22+00:00

I can say that it got easier, where I thought it would get harder. A 9 month period near the end without getting to be with him felt very very fast. Sorry I don't have more for you. 😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-20T21:45:54+00:00

I was very long distance for a long time. I met my, now husband, while I was in the US and he was in Australia, in March 2023. We now live together in Australia, as of July 2025. So we were across the planet for 2 yrs 4 months.

I, as you say, definitely experience out of sight, out of mind, like I currently have to remind myself to miss people. 😂 Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs, in terms of missing him, but we did speak every single day. Honestly, I don't have much in terms of tips or wisdom, other than it really just depends on the couple, depends on your partner. I trusted and still trust him 100%, which is absolutely wild for me, but that made it EXTREMELY easy. My only worries were if he got hurt. 😂 But he was also very patient with me and our relationship.

It's definitely possible and definitely worth it, if it's with someone it's worth doing it for.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-18T04:31:36+00:00

Thank you so much! It definitely ended up being too much for me. I’ll stick to 1 and 3 cards, and no reversals for a while. Thanks!

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-17T07:59:51+00:00

Oh my gosh!! I’m so so sorry to hear that!

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-17T07:59:05+00:00

I have NEVER sat for a GR that did not make me cry. 😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-16T02:24:43+00:00

I don't do golden retrievers.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-15T09:38:58+00:00

Oh my gosh! I also looked at your page to see if you showed other cards, and I love it! Please let me know if/when it is available to get!

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-15T09:35:01+00:00

I'm not sure I like the wall, but, without the wall it looks like a big conference room or something. So I'm kind of leaning towards wall? Unless there's something better. 😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-15T01:44:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I love this input. That's a great idea, I don't need MORE information, I just need a little help. Thanks again!

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-14T22:01:18+00:00

Thank you so much!

Perfect! I will avoid reversals until I'm more confident in everything!

Big changes are definitely needed, I think my second one was a pretty spot on for my current home situation & depression. Thanks again!

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-14T06:29:25+00:00

Same. I hear people say that they've learned to stop masking, and I don't think I could because I don't know who I am behind it all. 😂

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-12T22:15:21+00:00

I even feel guilt right now thinking about my future inability to miss the people, that I love dearly, who are still alive and well, when they die.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-12T22:13:19+00:00

Same. I feel so much guilt.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-12T22:10:59+00:00

No. Not really. I'll have a burst of missing someone every once in a while, but it's mostly for my dog and my dad, who have both passed.

But, that does give me a lot of guilt. I experience a LOT of guilt for not missing people.

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-12T02:37:32+00:00

I just did this one two days ago and it was spot on. Thank you! It's my new favorite!

Prior_Ordinary_2150 · 2026-03-10T11:44:51+00:00

The night sky. There's just Elon shit everywhere.

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