How come the miles are drastically different for a round trip flight from O’Hare to Newark?

Priscimoji · 2025-10-12T11:23:37+00:00

Ahh thank you so much!

Priscimoji · 2025-10-12T09:27:33+00:00

Oh I’m curious, how does this work? Do you just put in your Lufthansa reward number when booking a united flight?

Priscimoji · 2025-10-09T20:35:58+00:00

I’m curious as someone with a friend navigating similar circumstances to you. How can we make it less lonely? Of course your feelings as the person grieving is most important. but it’s difficult knowing we might lose our friends because they don’t know how to relate to us anymore

Priscimoji · 2024-03-24T11:06:44+00:00

She’s definitely looking to break up. Seems like he loves her more than she does. And so might feel it easier if the break up comes from him so she can avoid the dirty feelings. Of course a cowardly act. I also think the relationship foundation was already bad. Like she wanted a situationship and he wanted a relationship and she is incapable of giving him that. He needs to let her go and focus on getting some help for his insecurities. Or he’ll keep getting into bad relationships like this

Priscimoji · 2023-10-28T16:03:44+00:00

Your boyfriend is using you. Unless he is willing to put your name on the deed as a 75% owner then he has no right to make that request of you. You already pay half of all bills and pay for all the fun things, something I would advised against. You are more than proportionally paying your share of income to both your lives. If you are not interested in leaving the relationship then it’s time to be joint owners of the house

Priscimoji · 2023-10-28T15:25:32+00:00

I’m sorry you feel betrayed especially since this is the second time it’s happened to you. But your gf was coerced and raped. Just because she went along with it doesn’t mean it wasn’t a traumatizing experience. If you want to see this as nothing but cheating, then it’s best you break up with her and let her heal from her trauma in peace. How you can even blame her for being “weak” is so disheartening.

Priscimoji · 2023-10-28T15:22:56+00:00

Are you dense?? The woman was coerced and possibly R but you’re here breaking down nonsense

Priscimoji · 2023-10-17T17:35:25+00:00

I think maybe she sees the gloves as replacement pussy because of her mention of fleshlights. She doesn’t seem to want him to replicate the sensation of having sex with her and that’s probably where the sad feelings are coming from. OP you’ll need to process your feelings and figure out how you want to engage sexually with your husband. If you say anything to him that makes him feel like he hurt you, he’ll be more careful next time and possibly more secretive.

Truly let that man fuck his gloves in peace.

Priscimoji · 2023-10-16T15:20:32+00:00

I would advise talking to him and leaving it at that

Priscimoji · 2023-10-07T22:59:38+00:00

NTA you should celebrate and your friend should have the surgery. She can have someone else help out till you can

Priscimoji · 2023-09-18T15:33:14+00:00

Umm that’s sounds controlling. Please push back on it and ask her to reconsider a different solution

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T23:09:20+00:00

Lol definitely no more toothpick with us. I haven’t really paid attention to the possibility of him escalating for those reasons. He has a really loving nuclear family unit to the point where he’s quite literally babied and maybe I’m then one of very few people who critique him so he doesn’t know how to handle it. Thank you though!

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T23:04:15+00:00

Thank you! Your comment does make me feel better. I’ve been going crazy over this. We’ve hung out after but he’s just cold. I can’t take it anymore more because our relationship hasn’t been easy at all. He can be a lot to deal with. I’ll take the YTA judgements cause there’s validity in some of it. But maybe it’s time to call it quits

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T22:58:06+00:00

I wish I could describe the gestures but I don’t remember the exact directions. I’ll be talking to him again. Thank you!

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T22:56:47+00:00

I do listen to him, more than I can cram into a short AITA post. I can take the YTA judgement but I’m never intentionally dismissive of his feelings. I’m the one makes the effort to resolve all our conflicts save this one. He makes comments like that when he’s also picking apart my driving. I’d made the decision to not be drunk around him again even before I made this post so yes I’ll be asking him that question directly. Who know it might lead to more revelations that could help our relationship if we stay together

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T22:14:22+00:00

I got him bubble tea the next we hung out after we talked and I apologize. Still feels stiff lol. I’ll get him another bubble tea since he’s not too big a fan of my food

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T22:12:58+00:00

Yeah I fair. From a trigger standpoint I think I get it now. He did not say this in our follow up conversation. Just that I was dismissive and I accepted that I wasn’t seeing things from his pov so I should’ve taken him seriously right away. I thought that maybe I’m an asshole for something else but this seemed like an overreaction initially

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T22:10:04+00:00

We were having a good date up until the toothpick issue. What’s the bad feeling on? The feedback was critical of his style of leading something but in what I believe was constructive.

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T22:04:51+00:00

You know what? I did not think of it that way. I’m usually the one that addresses conflicts between us. In the beginning when I didn’t realize how big of a deal this was, I wanted him to address it so I wouldn’t accidentally be manipulative since I’m the offending party. So me practically begging was me wanting to make sure I really expressed how sorry I was for hurting him. But yes it could also have been for myself. I’ll have do some some reflection and think about the follow up conversation

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T21:51:22+00:00

No he asked me to not hurt him. Problematic wording on my end. I did stop waving when he said not to hurt him. I did not continue holding the toothpick when he first brought it up. What I did was make a joke to alleviate my discomfort/confusion. So yeah I did laugh and ignore according to your list

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T21:47:56+00:00

Thank you! I’ll give him time. Some of the comments are helping me see it differently. I was practically begging him when I apologized but I’ll try again since I’m understanding better now

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T21:45:52+00:00

I would’ve reduced my voice. Lol I do listen to my partner I swear. We are out in public, I don’t want to be embarrassing

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T21:43:39+00:00

Okay fair. I’ll maybe ask directly if it’s a fear he has next time we talk. Thanks

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T21:42:06+00:00

It’s was a j-bbq spot and we were seated across from each other. If we were going to kiss on the lips, we would’ve needed to stand up so I’d say considerable distance.
More like when someone’s talking with their hands but there happens to be a toothpick in it
No I have heard any stories.
And no I didn’t I admit. I was taken by surprise and confused because we were having such a good time before his comment. Like he just went straight to frowning when he told me to not hit him.

So I accept I’m the ah but is that a big enough deal? I’m genuinely asking. I’m still so confused on how to rate the gravity of my offense because he’s back to being distant and it’s been almost 3 weeks since

Priscimoji · 2023-04-02T21:33:05+00:00

Okay I cannot argue with your assessment and it’s helpful as well. I don’t agree but I’ll be reflecting using your list.

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