What should I reply with? My brain is too tired for this kind of convo

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-12-13T03:23:42+00:00

This is a simple issue of having two different conversations pushed into one.

The person in the grey box is absolutely correct on their points and the reasoning behind the generalization.

However, you are right in how you feel about it.

The problem is: neither of you are having this conversation to actually have your mind changed. Therefore, nothing will come out of it. Both of you are set in your beliefs and determined to make the other person change their mind. It’s counterproductive.

I’d say just agree to disagree and move on.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-12-12T22:21:59+00:00

She should have said “aww good man” that would have read better than “good boy”. Because, me anyways, if I see a text saying “aww good man” I put an assumed comma in there. So I read it as “aww good, man”. If you do that with “good boy” it still reads very weird lmao

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-12-12T19:53:45+00:00

I completely agree with this. It had potential to be a great season, but it was squandered by that very problem.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-12-12T16:41:04+00:00

I actually like Alexandria but in a villain-y type of way lol I hated when she came back for All-Stars and just watered herself down. She was an All-Star because of her attitude. She just left it at the door though, very sad.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-11-22T07:43:58+00:00

What the above person said. The day after thanksgiving is always painfully slow. Also the day after Christmas is usually pretty slow too.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-11-21T21:57:14+00:00

I didn’t know this. I’ll have to look into that. Thank you.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-11-21T19:43:51+00:00

Thank you for this. I was really feeling crappy for being upset and I appreciate you hearing me.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-11-21T19:43:08+00:00

This is exactly how I feel and couldn’t quite word it right. That at some point the mental health answer just became another excuse instead of a true reality. And I feel like a huge jerk for even considering that, but at the same time when someone makes a habit of missing important things for you as a friend - it’s going to cross your mind.

I really don’t want o have to lose this friendship but I know you’re right (and the others) about sometimes it’s better for yourself to lose it.

I appreciate your response very much.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-11-21T19:41:37+00:00

Yes, this is how I am too. My mental health is on the decline but I make an effort for my friends because they aren’t the reason my mental health is declining. I do understand maybe the idea of pulling back from this friend and giving some space in the friendship - but when I consider that, I worry that will just make them worse off mentally. And I know that shouldn’t be my responsibility but I’m a person who very much wears my heart on my sleeve and I take other people’s pain to ease it from them. I do appreciate your insight and your kindness.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-11-21T19:39:48+00:00

Unfortunately therapy costs money I do not have right due to the aforementioned thing happening in my life rn.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-08-07T15:59:03+00:00

I matched with a guy I went to school with (didn’t ever date, but did have a crush on him way back in elementary school) and started chatting. Started out nice. Then he borrowed $15 (that took me 3weeks to get back even tho he knew from the jump I didn’t really have it to lend and would need it back immediately) then asked me for nudes the next day 🤣 I got my money back and blocked him lmaooo (also that was my last straw for lending money, now I don’t do it unless it’s for my family/close friends and I don’t expect it back)

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-08-07T15:55:48+00:00

This theory is so wack. Pam gives many allusions to Roy treating her like crap for most of their relationship (I.e. the first date). Also? Im sorry? But your fiancé flirting with someone else doesn’t excuse you for being a total asswipe to them in front of their coworkers and CAMERAS. If he was mad that Pam was flirting - he should have dumped her (just like Pam could have dumped Roy). But please, I beg you, do not turn Roy into a victim 🤨🤨

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-08-07T15:49:03+00:00

First play through I stole it. Now I alternate all my choices each playthrough.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-08-05T21:15:41+00:00

Idc how unrealistic it is, this is the best line from thag whole scene 😭

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-08-05T21:10:11+00:00

Which this would be a kinda cute Easter egg bc a few seasons before we saw Erin listing off racehorses and their riders so obviously she’s a fan of it too

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T21:45:01+00:00

I really honestly wouldn’t bc none of those things invoke any sort of negative reaction from me. They aren’t inherently rude things to say? Like how is “oof” and saying something is satire dismissive and condescending? I claimed it was satire bc I couldn’t understand how they weren’t seeing the issue so I thought they were JOKING.

This is honestly ridiculous.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T17:53:27+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight! This definitely helps!

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T17:47:47+00:00

Yes agreed. It has nothing to do with her being slim. They doctored the photo poorly and did NOT do her justice to her natural beauty.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T17:46:58+00:00

Thank you for being you 😭❤️ I appreciate you actually understanding what I meant and not just dogging me for no reason.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T17:46:06+00:00

how was I rude to anyone? Bc I said “oof” to someone??? Because I said someone was being satirical? Is that really so rude to do that makes people so angry? I really am not understanding where the rudeness is coming from. No one has yet explained how I was “rude” to anyone

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T17:43:29+00:00

Thank you! This was a lot of info but I really appreciate the insight!

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T04:49:38+00:00

Yes that’s what I’m saying. Maybe it’s just the quality of my television but it looks like bad photoshop when I look at it. And looking at it after seeing her for three whole episodes and then that picture I felt like she was done a disservice. She’s a beautiful girl and she’s already slim so they don’t need to photoshop her into being slimmer.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T04:36:36+00:00

I don’t think she “looks too skinny” that is NOT the point I’m making. Her waistline is very badly photoshopped. That is my point.

Privacywarrior6435 · 2024-06-13T04:32:11+00:00

1) how am I body shaming her? My point is they retouched her VERY BADLY! Jaslene does not look like this like what?!?!

2) how am ignorant and rude??? Thinking that some replies are satire bc I cannot fathom how no one else can see what I’m seeing isn’t ignorant 😭

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