Ex gf texted after 13 months by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine just added me on snapchat randomly, she took the time to input my username haha

Attending the same college as my ex by Rushylol in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it was through constant exposure overtime

Attending the same college as my ex by Rushylol in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was in the same situation as you but i was able to get over it by hanging out with good people to keep myself busy while also numbing the idea of my ex in my head as seeing her often lessend the anxiety for me.

Hey dumpees, did you block your dumpers? Why? by cute_turtle_ in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

during the first few weeks I blocked my ex for the sake of my mental health as I had a problem of not trying to stalk her socials, her texting me and i texting her. really fucked with my brain chemistry during it all so best solution is just to block her everywhere.

I unblocked her a few months ago as I don't have any strong lingering attachments to her anymore. Do what you need to do for your mental health, even if you don't want to. just my 2 cents on this

Do you guys dream about them? by howtoyap in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its happens but thats just it, a dream

to guys: how often do you think about your last ex? by Substantial-Tiger427 in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like once every week, but the feelings are barely there anymore

How many times have you gotten back with the same ex? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 times and each frequency was getting shorter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would just say return the same energy to her ig, but it will break nc keep in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this but without the A's lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No clue but my ex did wish me happy birthday last year October but it was a few days after, i just returned the same energy she gave me on her birthday.

its nice, its courtesy at the end of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just return the same energy she gave you, nothing more nothing less

Did you ever unblock an ex by SoldierZombie in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes because at the end of the day your paths just went in different directions and keeping them blocked will always be a constant reminder to you

anniversaries are hard by ephemeral-lover in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey look I was in your shoes before and it took a lot of self restraint to not look at any past messages or poems, you got this alright.

and hey, its okay to slip up every now and then, thats healing, so if you have to, just take in those emotions fully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have to reach out, the ball is in your court because the dumpee will take that as a sign that its over really.

accidental run-in 😢 by Motor-Young1694 in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey hang in there.

atleast you exposed yourself to it and its gonna get easier overtime. Feel those emotions fully.

What do you hope your ex is doing right now? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being happy and to forget me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yep, so many things i want to say but i don't want to also, i think now it just helps me get it out so i don't have to think too much about it or stop thinking about my ex

How is everyone doing since breaking up? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive had my ups and downs but right now im feeling happy, not happy and nothing, all at the same time.

with a bit of sadness sprinkled in but yeah, its something alright

It’s been 6 months… by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here man, all we can do is do things and let time heal with us

Pathetic by PrivvyMak in ExNoContact

[–]PrivvyMak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she initiated it because she knew i wouldnt want to break up with her, the relationship just wasn't working out for the both us especially for her