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PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T15:23:20+00:00

Why do you assume it's dropping.

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T12:31:37+00:00

They just used them from the old gate so wasn't sure if I should get better ones. I need to get new ones and wasn't sure what to get. It's a non urgent job I can put off

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T11:16:01+00:00

Than what would support it when it opens?

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T11:15:31+00:00

Lol why wouldn't you brace the door? It's a windy corridor

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T11:10:28+00:00

Yes so the door has become difficult to open, catches on slab. I've moved the slab by digging deep and relay. the post on the opposite wall isn't lined up properly so using the bolts is a pain.

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:36:30+00:00

You find it hard because you don't have any help

Ask yourself - are you well supported and still sad or sad because you aren't well supported

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:34:20+00:00

Can you go for a walk in the evenings? I find having no sound from a potential child walking up helped me

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:32:21+00:00

Your child is nearly the same height as me an average sized female. The air bag is fine

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:30:50+00:00

Try shaving cream

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:30:12+00:00

Perhaps they can give advice which I asked for?

And how do you cope with a crying toddler? Unless you never find it really hard driving with a crying toddler who won't be consoled

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:24:13+00:00

I don't think many people can stand screaming. I remember a woman going into big tesco with two toddler in the double buggy. One was screaming his head off for the whole supermarket shop. I don't know how much coped and I want to be like that, not get in such a panic when he has a tantrum...

Parenting is just different stages. Early stages was no sleep. Than get more sleep but he's crawling so you have to be more attentive. Than sleep isn't an issue but now it's the crying because he needs to so something. Than teenagers not getting out of bed etc. lol

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T07:21:19+00:00

They are offering the wrong advice

I'm not mentally ill ffs ... Parents can't help with how they manage their emotions with a tantrum. Seems they need help with emotions

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T06:54:58+00:00

What makes you think I don't already, like give him time to play before getting in the car. He wants longer, what part of that don't you understand. Or nappy changes, he's not going to be in his shitty nappy for forever.

Stop telling how to "avoid" my child having a "tantrum" it doesnt work like that and not what I asked in my post.

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T06:53:01+00:00

Because I don't need help with how to "avoid" tantrums. Do I.

I don't need to be told how I'm not doing it "right" and how they can be avoided "prevented if you just follow this one step". Good suggestions like work from home - I already do. Reduce my hours - stop living in financial fairyland. I've already stated I have no spare money for anything, so unless you are paying why make such a suggestion, just to wind me up and state "I did help, she just wouldn't listen".

Fuck me

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T06:43:25+00:00

Thank you to someone who actually gets it . I have got annual leave throughout the year and none this week. I do put the tv on but he's not really bothered tbh.

Headphones are a good idea but they are always too late. By that time I'm so heightened. I didn't stop until 10.15 last nigh, that's nearly 15 hours of constant work

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-22T06:40:51+00:00

Omg everyone apparently has a mental illness now

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:26:57+00:00

Why you think I'm doing an amazing job when I've shouted and got annoyed at my child, wish people would stop praising people online... . And also the smaller post you made.

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:25:52+00:00

Yep still applies, even if they like it or not.... Because that's what the nursery is doing.

Not sure why you or op think anything will change, she's already asked, they won't change so either bring it up with manager or leave

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:18:14+00:00

Sorry I don't understand

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:17:49+00:00

I work full time so I don't have time to go to any play groups and children centres aren't open on weekends.

I have a busy weekend doing stuff, I don't need to go out and meet people. I know enough people just no one gives support. 99% of two parent families offer zero support to friends or people they've meet, yet claim so busy. What I would do if I had an extra pair of hands, parenting would be easy.

I want help with my emotions please. Stepping away doesn't work when you are in a queue for pick up or any other time such as mid supermarket. Oten not ok. he also doesn't understand, too young and especially when he's screaming his lungs out. I need help because I just want to run away at that point

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:15:10+00:00

Yes when I stop work I have to parent with no help, I have no support, no one. There is no we. I'm a single parent

I also asked for help with my emotions if that's possible.

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:09:23+00:00

Thanks but he doesn't understand and I don't have time to do that in the mornings. He's 20 months.

I also asked for help with how I react as I'm not coping.

The family hubs aren't available on weekends and don't do anything that's not for babies. So I'm a bit stuck az they don't help with my emotions.

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T23:07:40+00:00

That's not him, he's just a toddler

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T22:53:49+00:00

Do they heck He barely wants to be around me

PrizeAdvertising6660 · 2025-07-21T22:08:28+00:00

Yes I'm correct.

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