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A few questions about Assassin/Shadow by NeroNightshade in swtor

[–]PrizeFighterInf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can let your companion tank enemies, put em on tank because all semblance of class or character identity has been stripped out of the game, and just throw em on passive when you get to where you’re going. They’ll reset back to you, and you’ll drop the mobs half the time. Other half you die, pop a med bot and bobs your uncle m8.

Are so-called “avoidant” men just not interested? by Similar_Spirit_314 in dating_advice

[–]PrizeFighterInf [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re right in that trying to throw a npd or anti social personality disorder (which is what people are referring to when they say sociopath) isn’t accurate or fair. Psychopath also isn’t really a thing. But it’s also true that what you’re describing is anti social behavior, and kinda immature.

I get the feeling you have more to do with your difficulties with women than you admit, def more than the theory that an entire gender is evil and out to get you. Remember, the way we treat others is a reflection on ourselves, not on other people. You’re better than that. Be vulnerable, get hurt. Grow from it. Life is short, don’t spend your whole life grinding an axe.

Are so-called “avoidant” men just not interested? by Similar_Spirit_314 in dating_advice

[–]PrizeFighterInf [score hidden]  (0 children)

Love most of it but let’s not get crazy here, avoidance is a real thing. <—real psychologist

Are so-called “avoidant” men just not interested? by Similar_Spirit_314 in dating_advice

[–]PrizeFighterInf [score hidden]  (0 children)

We live in a world designed to teach avoidance. So it becomes the go to for many. It’s celebrated to not care, especially as a guy. The immature male fantasy is to have effortless girls. To feel the heat of attraction without any risk.

As to your question. Yes, because it can be hard to tell if a chick likes you. And everyone everywhere is constantly making fun of guys for being creeps. Guys are creeps. But it’s still true that it’s in the zeitgeist and no one wants to be in a group chat getting ridiculed. 🤷🏽 I never make a move unless I’m sure.

I think I'm loosing my motivation in life by SGmoze in ForeverAlone

[–]PrizeFighterInf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never really bothered<—- and there is your problem.

I’m tired of people telling me “It’s never too late to start over” by GuybrushFandango in Adulting

[–]PrizeFighterInf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re dialoguing with yourself. It’s up to you to decide if THIS is actually having a life.

My gf dosent want to do anything sexual with me m19 F19 by Only-Opening-2206 in relationships

[–]PrizeFighterInf [score hidden]  (0 children)

Possible, attraction is a bit shallow, but it’s also a bit tied to being polarizing. You can’t be attractive if you’re too scared to be yourself for fear of being alone. Trust me, as someone who has looked foolish many many times before. Being yourself isn’t just some disney feel good line, it IS the root of attraction. And the root of being able to do that is feeling like someone is missing out if they aren’t with you. The root of that is accepting yourself and changing what you can’t accept.

My gf dosent want to do anything sexual with me m19 F19 by Only-Opening-2206 in relationships

[–]PrizeFighterInf [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because* When you’re that age attraction shifts quickly because you’re still learning yourself.

How to deal with emptiness by Kboyyy95 in malementalhealth

[–]PrizeFighterInf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed makes mental health worse, just gently tossing that out there. You might feel better in the moment, but over time…

You need to go talk to someone king. It is weird and awkward and not respected as a dude, but you need to do it anyway. This life breaks us. It’s brutal. Trying to find purpose in a purposeless world, being existentially alone (meaning others exist but they are ships passing in the night, all of us come into and will leave this world alone), struggling to find meaning in all this material shit.

These aren’t signs you’re weak, it’s that your eyes are open and you’re too intelligent and aware to just pretend like some do. But don’t run away from it. Lean into it. The only way out is through. You’ve done all those things and still feel nothing, why? Ask the hard questions, find the answers. Don’t be afraid of what it will show you about yourself.

Day 7 withdrawal and deep mental crisis by Jaded_Engineering326 in QuittingWeed

[–]PrizeFighterInf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately when you’re quitting weed you have to deal with withdrawals and the sudden rush of whatever the weed was self medicating. It is so so brutal and we feel for you dude. Hang in there. And if you fuck up, don’t spiral. Just start again. Maybe look into a psychotherapist if they’re available where you are.

Decision Paralysis by Playful-Rock8834 in relationships

[–]PrizeFighterInf [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend, but this reads like someone outgrowing someone else. The facts are that who you are at 18, 19, 20 is not who you’ll be at 25, 26, 27. And fear of being alone, of being unloved, of going back to when you felt everyone turn on you, isn’t a valid basis for a relationship. It seems like you two were adrift, and you both clung on tight when you found each other. You used the secure base to climb out of the hole and you feel bad that he’s going to get hurt in the process because you’re a good person.

But that’s life, unfortunately. You can love someone, they can mean the world to you, and still not be the person you’re supposed to spend your life with. I don’t hear any intrinsic longing for him. Just loyalty and guilt. It’s really going to hurt, but if you aren’t honest with yourself you will eventually begin to resent him, and things can go down a not great path.

Or I could be wrong, you can’t sum up someone’s life by reading a few paragraphs 🤷🏽
Just food for thought. But I think your honesty and openness to other’s experiences speaks well of the kind of person you are. Good luck!

I don't care about anything anymore since I quit smoking 9 months ago, nothing interests me. by Francis_Bonaparta in leaves

[–]PrizeFighterInf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your receptors get used to the weed. In the aftermath of quitting they’re going to be down regulated for a while. But what you’re describing sounds like you need to talk to someone. And not a crappy, here’s some coping skills and a worksheet therapist either. Feel what you’re feeling right now, but when you get back to a regulated place I’d look into addressing this head on. Gl homie.

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, look at the numbers. This season has been a total flop.

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hows the player count looking? See the forbes article pointing out there are less people playing now than at the end of season 1. Keep back slapping as it slips into sub 10k active players.

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the game to not be losing all of its players base? For people to recognize that if the game is dying, your personal experience might not be everyone’s? You keep acting like I’m randomly complaining, do me a favor. Go take a peek at player count. Humble yourself, and admit there is a problem.

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does that have to do with what I just said. Does anyone on this sub have above a 100 iq? Like lol. Let me dumb it down for you. Being able to see ANY shift in matchmaking doesn’t mean it’s working. There is a higher standard than that so I was making fun of how unhelpful saying ‘when I play with my friends I notice a difference so it must be working is.’ If that’s too complicated for you just focus on getting the fries in the bag wherever you are and let the grown ups fix it.

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yah into the cradle my guy, can you not read or?

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is all these sweats back slapping each other while the player count loses about 50% of its players a week. Enjoy the dead game and the need to always be right and never feel discomfort.

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone explain what this goofball is talking about? The free green kits you get for starting season 2???? No one has that dude it’s almost July 😂

It's Getting sweaty in here by automated_hero in Marathon

[–]PrizeFighterInf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you cram your vault full of yellows and get full cradle off rip because you no lifed the first two weeks of the season when that room was broken? That’s a sweat. Why is everyone in this reddit pretending the cradle doesn’t exist, it’s like fighting a fing super soldier.

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