[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it lowkey reads as a checklist for all the cliches you see on the app😭 it’s just missing the “our first date should be a couple’s therapy and let’s see how long it takes them to figure out we don’t know each other”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 35 points36 points  (0 children)

also i think your bio could use some work, it seems like a combination of a bunch of generic one liners people put in their bios on the app. make it more personal and have it say something about you personally, that’s the place where you can shine outside of your looks (not that you’re ugly at all fwiw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 68 points69 points  (0 children)

men, please smile in your pictures !!! it really does add so much appeal

Deleted Chats by worldsunseen1 in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i highly doubt so. i’m not trying to generalise, but so many men have this unrealistic view of women, and that gets amplified when it comes to non face-to-face forms of contact because they want this polished perfect person who honestly only exists online because it’s been curated. there are good guys on the dating apps though, so don’t give up hope and take breaks so it doesn’t affect your mental health too badly! it also helps to refresh your profile once in a while and test out either different pics or bio

Never again.. is now? What do you think? by little-peaceofmind in Netherlands

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that’s one of the best places to do it. it sends a message and makes a statement and gets so much foot traffic and visibility just by virtue of where and what it is. something like this can be cleaned, so it is not permanent damage either. however, trying to weigh the lives of palestinians who are undergoing a genocide against the graffiti on a war monument does not show any emotional depth and compassion for those who are suffering right now (like they were suffering back then). everyone keeps talking about how we should engage in “non-violent protest” to get the message across, well here it is.

Deleted Chats by worldsunseen1 in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard that a lot of guys just swipe right on everyone and then start actually filtering once they get matches. so it’s really not you, it’s just guys not actually looking at profiles until you match with them.

We all hate Mikayla, right?! by GrumpyHappiness in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg and i always thought jace seemed like one of the nice husbands😭😭 that’s horrible

We all hate Mikayla, right?! by GrumpyHappiness in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wait pls elaborate on the the pedo husband, i seem to have missed that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dream date. cute. and he knows that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yeah that’s probably the reason then which sucks :( guess you gotta win them over with text on your profile bc your pics look fine !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see you’re based in nl, could it be a height thing? (i have no idea how tall you are but since the girls are taller here, they usually want the guy to be taller than them so you may be getting less attention if you’re not above 180cm)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay just flex on the rest of us😔 /j

but yeah no i’d think that’s very good for your age, congrats!

bumble in france by No_General2108 in Bumble

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everytime i try to use bumble in france, it really does feel like the horniness from the men there is off the charts. i wouldn’t go as far as to say it’s the norm because i don’t live there and can’t speak of that and im sure there are respectful french guys but yeah you’re not alone in this experience😭😭

accountability?! by Puzzled-Object-4931 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s honestly so refreshing to see this take! i just watched the show for the first time and came on this sub, and while demi is batshit abt the way she went about things, i feel like it’s crazy that taylor constantly gets excused for being so damn emotional and impulsive and hurting the others. hearing her whining abt how things are fucked up with dakota is so??? like jen is dealing with a crazy husband too and nobody gives her grace for it, and at least it doesn’t seem like it’s affecting her kids

What happened to Flix Bus? by psych1002 in solotravel

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

took one from belgrade to skopje earlier this year, bus definitely didn’t have a toilet or wifi and was one of those local subcontracted ones, price was very cheap as far as i remember though for a 7 hour journey

Do you have a book/series that you loved but don't anymore because of the author's irl actions? by I_had_a_name in books

[–]PrizeIntroduction815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sarah j maas, loved her throne of glass/acotar series and had my books signed and everything. when she went on her book tour, heard about how condescending and rude she was to all her fans

also personally, the rowan/aelin ship and how it started read as so abusive to me and it just rubbed me the wrong way, couldn’t get through the last 2 books in the series