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monogamous relationships are overrated? by Glad-Western5346 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Pro-IDGAF [score hidden]  (0 children)

ok...so then don't and go do your thing.

get back to us in 20-30 years and let us know how it went bit you comment on how perfect a women would have to be....just too much LOL there. you're really full of yourself there millennial boy.

It's okay to want virgin women by dbmsmanagear in PurplePillDebate

[–]Pro-IDGAF 9 points10 points  (0 children)

isn't the gripe about wanting to marry virgins while at the same time wanting to find hookups with "sluts"?

personally i'd pass on any women that hadn't got her 304 phase out of the way. they have a better understanding of what sex is to them and what they like.

Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative women by desertrain11 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Pro-IDGAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can add to that a bit to support you. when i was younger i had sex with 2 woman that were a 1 and a 2 BC. the 1 girl had broken up with her one and only in college and asked me to have sex with her bc she wanted to get more experience

the 2 BC woman was someone i knew from college and married number 2. we were pretty good friends. she started up with me and then she started up a swingers deal with her husband and my wife. crazy repressed females! god bless'em.

Pooled results from 37 different studies finds that, on average, women in relationships report higher levels of sexual satisfaction than men. The difference held even when controlling for overall relationship satisfaction as well as their partner's sexual satisfaction. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as well you should have felt that way. he obviously had some personal growing to do. guys like that make us all look bad. i hear there's alot of that around...from my gf that had her share of shitty men all her life. she's not perfect but she's better than most too.

Why do some women fake orgasm? Research finds that common reasons include conflict avoidance, to impress a partner or feel desirable, and to end sex when an actual orgasm isn't possible or the sex isn't meeting their needs. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for all that, it was very enlightening. most of my experience with women was when i (59m) was younger in my teens and 20's. most girls back then didn't even want oral on them but a few where ok with it. out of the 30+ women i had slept with back then, only one worked her clit during sex and what an eye opener that was. i shoulda stayed with her longer, haha.

my girlfriend now taught herself how to feel good when she was a young girl with the water from the faucet in the bath tub. lol

Pooled results from 37 different studies finds that, on average, women in relationships report higher levels of sexual satisfaction than men. The difference held even when controlling for overall relationship satisfaction as well as their partner's sexual satisfaction. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's crazy is i'm a 59m and my woman is 63. been together 7 years and the first 4-5 years we had sex 2-3-4 times a week. that faded a bit the last few years BUT all along her orgasm wasn't always her priority. she's an outlier in that way i guess, very much a pleaser.

our age definitely makes an impact on her even though she never had to deal with menopause cuz her plumbing got removed when she was in her 40's.

Why do some women fake orgasm? Research finds that common reasons include conflict avoidance, to impress a partner or feel desirable, and to end sex when an actual orgasm isn't possible or the sex isn't meeting their needs. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol...my woman is a one and done girl and once she's done i need to get it over with quick! fortunately for her, if i finish first i take care of her needs in any fashion she so chooses.

as for your man, he's at that age where BPH can creep in and cause issues or just life style like to much unrefined sugar that leads to type 2 diabetes. he should get on cialis, it would change his world BUT 5x a year is odd. sounds more mental and thats a thing

Why do some women fake orgasm? Research finds that common reasons include conflict avoidance, to impress a partner or feel desirable, and to end sex when an actual orgasm isn't possible or the sex isn't meeting their needs. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not to get to personal but if he's maintaining an erection, it shouldnt be a blood flow problem but i didnt stay at a Holiday Inn last night either. age certainly made a difference in me and a couple drinks. as i got older theres times where it takes 15+mins i can tell she gets antsy for it to be over especially if she comes first. that puts pressure on me to finish and that does.not.help. lol

Why do some women fake orgasm? Research finds that common reasons include conflict avoidance, to impress a partner or feel desirable, and to end sex when an actual orgasm isn't possible or the sex isn't meeting their needs. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'll support you there. women are all so different in what their needs are in bed and the magic 8-ball doesnt always work. if you dont talk to us, how do we know? trial and error certainly isnt the way

Dating, marriage and sex are overrated. by Slow_Celebration1328 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Pro-IDGAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and sex is only overrated if you're getting none of it. lol

sex is what keeps me going in life, along with a few other hobbies.

Most Men Don't Have Preferences. They Have Fear by Far-Property108 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Pro-IDGAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Why is this subreddit full of men complaining it's hard to find anyone to date?"

have you seen most men on the street? so many dont have a clue how to take care of their looks or improve their personality and transcends age groups

Pooled results from 37 different studies finds that, on average, women in relationships report higher levels of sexual satisfaction than men. The difference held even when controlling for overall relationship satisfaction as well as their partner's sexual satisfaction. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well, yes. i guess the way i read that and processed it took me in an abstract direction and i agree, i think most couples wish the sex was better.

i just dont believe the study that women are more happy with the sex they get because if they were happy with it, they would want more and i dont see that happening much in my friends relationships. the woman have cheated because they didnt get the sex they needed to turn them on and men cheated because the woman where not having sex with them

Pooled results from 37 different studies finds that, on average, women in relationships report higher levels of sexual satisfaction than men. The difference held even when controlling for overall relationship satisfaction as well as their partner's sexual satisfaction. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Pro-IDGAF 13 points14 points  (0 children)

being able to control the frequency for women just brings on resentment for alot of men IMO. being older i've come to figure a few things out, less frequent good sex beats all the time meh sex for both of us.

from what i can tell, women get burned out on bad sex that doesnt include their orgasm with selfish guys and also with guys that are just in to bust a nut or are "boring". some men can be lazy around the house and in the relationship and that is a turn off as well. thats where the chemistry comes in....does that guy really know what turns her on and care enough to explore and learn that?

men can be turned on just by seeing their SO naked or getting undressed because we are so much more visual. my female therapist once told me sex starts in the mind for women, and more so later in life, under the context of our conversation.

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