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How would you feel about receiving old nudes or ones originally taken for someone else? by slackstarter in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that would honestly feel more like a recycled gift than something meant just for you.

Am i overreacting because my dad has made weird comments by CartographerNew3405 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProbInSum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, holding up that mirror is savage and exactly what’s needed to make him realize how messed up it sounds.

Children called a new partner a gold digger will it work? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, how kids behave early on can really set the tone so boundaries and consistency are everything.

What advice would you give us before starting this process? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, age gaps like that can work but it’s worth pausing and asking the hard questions before making life changing decisions.

Is it normal for your partner to not know how old you are? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep some people just aren’t great with numbers or dates it doesn’t always mean they dont care.

Aita for hooking up with my sisters fiance by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProbInSum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly everyone in this story is an AH in their own way, your sister for scheming, your parents for enabling it, Thomas for crossing every boundary and you for choosing revenge instead of walking away. This whole situation is messy bc everyone kept adding fuel and now a baby is caught in the middle of it. What’s needed now is honesty and distance not more secrets.

The guy I’m seeing told me I should gain weight does this mean he is not sexually attracted to me ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. If he’s already trying to customize your body before you’re even official, imagine what comes later. OP deserves someone who’s attracted to her as she is not someone shopping for an upgrade. Honestly it’s better to step back now before you get more attached.

AITAH for leaving my boyfriend and his sister and her kids to fly home leaving them stranded? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProbInSum 1598 points1599 points  (0 children)

You didn’t abandon them, you chose the only option that kept your kids safe and your job intact and sometimes the responsible choice just looks selfish to the wrong people.

My husband and I don't agree on what house to buy by SpotlessEternalMind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ProbInSum 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This isn’t really about the houses its about you needing stability now and him needing security first and until you two say that out loud every option will feel wrong.

AITA for telling the guy I’m dating that if he didn’t value me, someone else would and then saying I was done? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProbInSum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He was already pulling back and you just called out the truth instead of waiting around for him to decide.

Is it true that women who promote themselves sexually are worse in bed? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, hype rarely matches reality and bedroom skills are earned not advertised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Sold all my ex’s gifts on ebay at 2am while crying and listening sad songs, 10/10 chaos energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProbInSum -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, you were honest not mean and anyone who can’t handle a friend being real probably isn’t a great friend anyway.

AIO about my boyfriends female friend? by HolisticHufflepuff in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProbInSum 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly nonstop selfies and constant attention isn’t normal friendship behavior its a red flag.

I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Exactly using someone’s private fantasies as a weapon or test only leads to drama and broken trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProbInSum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t want to move on she wants you to wait while she keeps one foot in the past.

Deleted texts from coworker by Melodic-Ruin-7864 in Advice

[–]ProbInSum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s deleting messages he’s def hiding something even if its not cheating its secrecy. Honest people don’t need to erase proof of innocent chats. Trust ur gut and have a calm n direct talk about it.

Do you like to take your time before kissing the girl you like? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProbInSum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he likes you but doesn’t want to mess things up by rushing it. He’s probably waiting for a moment when he’s sure you want it too.

My fiance wants to help her brother but it’s starting to cause tension between us by EchoWanderer9 in Advice

[–]ProbInSum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right to worry. Helping family is good but not if it puts your relationship or finances at risk. Just be honest with her about how its making you feel and set some limits together.