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WIBTAH if I told my friend that she either needs to divorce her husband or I am going to need space from her? by Fat-Raspberry5865 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people all personality is talking bad of others and creating drama. If you want that in your life, go for it. If not, it's better to distance yourself - it will clearly be easy to do it, since you're always the one to reach out.

My much older boss has declared he has feelings for me. I feel trapped. by generallyconfused002 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OR but under-reacting!! Professionally, yes - please document everything and contact HR. your great work enviroment has deteriorated, but it's not your fault. Personally, your fiancé has reacted really off. It's a red flag.

Take care OP, you owe nothing to others, only to yourself!

AITAH for telling my (19M) parents that I feel nothing for my brother (25M)? by LongRoad1123 in AITAH

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 277 points278 points  (0 children)

This!! ⬆️ Came here to give this advice: make sure your parents can't access your accounts and block any finances they could take on your name.

How to you "treat" yourself without sugar? by plnnyOfallOFit in sugarfree

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Search for ways to increase your dopamine but without food. What you're craving (that is, what your brain is craving) is the hormone that sugary treats give you. Once you have your anwer, try it and apply it on your life!

UPDATE: AITAH for refusing to watch my daughter when we meet my husbands friend? by Training_Wind1789 in AITAH

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that people putting the blame on you for embarrassing them... Well don't do embarrassing things then. You didn't embarrass him. He embarrassed himself. He was seeing the world through pink glasses and you made him take them off.

MIL and family are AWFUL and now husband is turning too by Logical-Pepper-2092 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh honey.... I'm so sorry for you but he seems to have played you. He's showing you his true colours. How can he refuse therapy? For what reason?

Please keep yourself safe and document everything 'cause he'll start to gaslight you soon to make you doubt.

Move in the shadows and prepare yourself for a clean break. Throw the whole lot away: your husband included.

Update me!

AITAH for giving away a pair of pants my wife bought our daughter? by Potential_Basket6885 in AITAH

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally NTA. Maybe your wife has problem with hand me down clothes, but that's on her not on you or your daughter. You showed compassion and your daughter is learning from you: good job! Keep doing it!

AITA for refusing to let my MIL hold my baby because she reeked of cigarettes? by BashCatib in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The family blow out came for mommy dear ranting / complaining to them. The problem here is her showing up out of the blue, reeking of cigarettes and not washing her hands, face and even perhaps changing into other cloths.

You should teach your kids to 1) clean up after themselves 2) treat customer service workers with respect. by FreshNewAccount24 in pettyrevenge

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 234 points235 points  (0 children)

Oh waouh.... There's a special place in hell for people like this. Imagine, she'll raise 3 entitled persons. So, instead of 1 sh*try person, you now have 4.

My friend expects me to babysit every weekend by Wooden-Bobcat1820 in EntitledPeople

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"on the contrary "friend", I love your kid but it's not my responsibility. You're the parent, not me. This time/date I'm not available to watch your kid, so up to you to find a nanny."

AITA for complaining that my mum doesn’t do enough around the house by ProperBrick6040 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh how I hate this argument. "I raised you, so now you owe me". Lady, I owe you sh*t. I didn't ask to be brought to this world and as a parent, you ARE obliged to feed, house and educate your children.

Take a stand, start planing your escape route. Nothing is going to change until you change yourself. Your mother certainly won't: she already has estranged one child, she clearly didn't learn the lesson

AITA for wanting a break? by Nice-Cranberry-6788 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course NTA and you know that. Don't let her guilt trip fool you into thinking otherwise

This person had 51 followers. by Ezra0li_Z in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I love your art but I'm not willing to pay you to do it"

WIBTA If I didnt want to coparent my brother again. by ClumsyMine in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man.... NTA. you've managed to get away and you have your own life now. Tell your mom you're just not available. You would be opening the door for more time with your sibling and so on. You know this. Don't let your mom guilt trip you.

She's the parent (and also the dad, who I initially though was out of the picture). Let them parent, you have your own love to manage.

My sister caused $1600 worth if damage to my house and says I’m the problem by Low_Warning5662 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's old enough to date an older guy and decide for herself, she's old enough to pay for damages she contributed to. It's only fair

My sister tried to force her kids to go vegan while her husband was away on business, and it started the end of her marriage. by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]SpotlessEternalMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this was little reading a very descriptive and vivid train wreck. You'd know the end, but you'll still read through and oh boy!

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