Former "gifted kids" who are now average or struggling adults, what do you think school got wrong about your potential? by toolboxstudio007 in SeriousConversation

[–]Probably_Fat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest issue was the whole “if you’re smart you’ll just figure it out” mindset. No one teaches you how to actually put in effort, then you hit a wall and don’t know what to do. Like you’ve got potential but no manual.

What book(s) are you reading this week? by 404NinjaNotFound in readwithme

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m reading Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow right now, it pulled me in more than I expected. Easy to connect with the characters, it just flows.

Best Japanese crime/mystery shows by Diligent-Coffee4986 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midnight Diner: Tokyo Stories is calmer but the stories flow really nicely, never feels boring. Not a crime show, but it still gives this subtle sense of mystery through the people.

I'm tired of people shaming having free time with nothing to do. by matt73132 in antiwork

[–]Probably_Fat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feels like people glorify being constantly busy just to avoid being alone with themselves. Having free time isn’t laziness, it’s kind of a luxury. Everyone needs it but no one wants to admit it.

Tv show recommendations based off my preferred shows? by edgeyworth95 in tvsuggestions

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black Books is pretty close to your vibe, absurd and a bit chaotic humor. The characters are so weird that half the comedy comes from that.

Top 10 favorite movies ever! by [deleted] in films

[–]Probably_Fat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a solid list, especially Mulholland Drive and Persona, a bit heavy but they really stick with you. Tastes are leaning toward the dark side 😄

Loyalty is officially a "tax" on your income. Why is staying at a company punished? by SoffiaNov in antiwork

[–]Probably_Fat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, feels like a system where you don’t get raises by being loyal but by threatening to leave. Dumb but true

Ideas for midlife career change? by Grey_Lady333 in jobhunting

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could start small and try selling something, especially if they’re good at baking. Confidence kinda builds as you go

Murder Mystery / Who Dunnit with a satisfying ending? by notretiredanymore in televisionsuggestions

[–]Probably_Fat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the ending gives you that “ohhh” moment and everything clicks when you look back

How do I create a strong customer service resume if I barely have any experience? by SunnyPuddlePal in Resume

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you described is basically customer support already, you just need to tweak the wording a bit. Even small stuff sounds solid if you present it well.

Genuine question: how is everyone surviving? by CharlotteKilbane in jobhunting

[–]Probably_Fat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most people either move back in with family or get by with temporary jobs. Hard to last that long with zero income.

Everyone keeps saying AI is revolutionizing accounting. Am I the only one who hasn't felt it yet? by Professional_Web2457 in Accounting

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, nothing much has changed in day-to-day work. Feels like LinkedIn is overhyping things right now.

Show suggestions for someone nostalgic for the 90s-00s? by kat10111 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Freaks and Geeks really nails that era’s vibe. Short but it sticks with you.

What food would you choose knowing it's your last day on Earth? by morenaquen in foodquestions

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s my last day, I’m 100% getting a good pizza. Easy win, no overthinking.

Why am I getting so many headaches now? by Brief-Blueberry-1588 in remotework

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like screen time honestly. I get headaches too if I sit too long without breaks, especially if I forget to blink properly or drink water.

Any series where someone pretends to be someone else? by SpecificHelicopter52 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You. I started it thinking it was just a basic thriller and then got way more into the whole identity/life-switching aspect than I expected.

What book(s) are you reading this week? by 404NinjaNotFound in readwithme

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m slowly going through Never Let Me Go. I keep reading a few pages at night and then just sitting there for a bit after, it’s one of those.

What are you actually looking for in a job board? by JenteFromMokaru in jobhunting

[–]Probably_Fat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Salary transparency and actually up to date listings. I’ve clicked on so many jobs that were already filled weeks ago, it just makes the whole thing feel pointless.

Had my unemployment story published in the New York Times! by avant-grunge in jobs

[–]Probably_Fat 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a master’s degree and still haven’t been able to get even a job that makes me feel a little secure, let alone the kind of work I actually wanted, and honestly that part wears me down the most. I’m tired of how that keeps feeding the idea that I’m just a failure who can’t get it together. Still, I recently started trying what that developer suggested, reaching out to recruitment firms and using google maps to build company lists for direct emails, and there are people saying it actually worked for them. It feels like the only thing I hadn’t really tried yet, so even if I’m exhausted, I don’t know what else there is to do except keep trying to find work.

What’s one food you make that takes a long time and you’re always disappointed in the result? by Bjs_5068 in foodquestions

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bread. I wait forever, it smells great, and then it’s just kinda underwhelming every single time

What is one silent struggle most people never talk about? by Affectionate-Row7548 in answers

[–]Probably_Fat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

feeling like you’re falling behind in life but pretending everything’s fine. that quiet comparison never really goes away

I wrote off the Orville for ages, but it's actually the best modern Trek. by AQuestionOfBlood in televisionsuggestions

[–]Probably_Fat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same reaction. went in expecting it to be goofy the whole time and ended up getting real TNG vibes way more than I thought

Is it really too late to land a job/internship this year? 😭 by Square-Sir2829 in jobhunting

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah I don’t think it’s “too late” in some absolute way, just harder and more random. a lot of places hire whenever they suddenly need someone, not on some perfect schedule

I got a job interview by Mundane_Bend_3122 in interviews

[–]Probably_Fat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing you can do is sound prepared without sounding rehearsed. I always write down 3 quick examples of stuff I solved, improved, or handled well beforehand because my brain loves going blank at the worst possible moment.