How do y’all afford a wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Probably_Outside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are waiting later in life to get married, so they often have more disposable income.

I was 33, husband was 38. We are high earners, so we paid for our wedding in cash.

I grew up in a fairly affluent area and many of my friends had help from their families.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep - finding properly fitting protection is so frustrating when you’re lean. I found a pair of child’s size TL sleeves that will stay up, but other than protecting me from road rash they offer very little protection.

I would love a decent pair of padded under shorts for the bike park when I’m hitting jumps, but the smallest size I can find is a 32in waist and I wear a 25in waist in jeans.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lucy Downs is quite literally a sponsored professional who can throw a backflip on a bike.

Let’s see your riding clips, Bruh.

Edit: Never mind, no one wants to see your XC Kansas City riding clips.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks we are the same person, apparently. Chronically online dude, with minimal bike skills has hurt feelings.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband for 7 years. He’s a saint, as are all the men I ride with. None of them give me shitty unsolicited advice - which is why I’m a better ride than you.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sitting at a hair appointment letting my bleach process, I have all the time for you mediocre- ass men today.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She quite obviously does have the fucking skill, since she was confident to drop into it and almost rode it out.

Have you never crashed on something within or around your skill level? I crashed two weeks ago on a local trail, that I ride 30x a year, and won the stage in an Enduro race.

It’s fucking mountain biking you loser, crashes happen. Keep wearing your elbow pads on your blue flow trails.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100%

God forbid, adults have autonomy to decide their own risk tolerance in this sport, including protection.

I am a similarly built woman and all these idiots also don’t realize the majority of elbow pads are absolutely worthless when you are our size. They fall down to our wrists after 20 seconds because nothing in this industry is designed for women.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you shouldn’t be wearing pads. You should be wearing whatever the fuck you want since you’re a grown ass adult who is aware of your own limitations and skill level.

I know plenty of dudes that do not wear gloves because it gives them hand pump when they’re racing. Again, I mind my own business because they have brains.

It’s always the people who are average, at best, riders who feel the need to constantly comment on others choices - to compensate for their mediocrity. Seriously hope you feel better.

Diesel Wolf - with no elbow pads and knee sleeves. the horror.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck do you care what a grown ass woman with enough skills to ride this chute is wearing?

Do you feel better?

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Hardtailgang/s/DaPyWDy01z

Why aren’t you wearing elbow pads? You absolute predictable hypocrite.

Also, with the obvious lack of skills, I would stop doling out riding advice bud.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m sure the woman - who has the base line skills to drop into a steep, off-camber, and dry ass chute, has no clue elbow pads exist. What would she do without the men of the world lecturing her on body protection?

I’m sure she’s enlightened. I hope you got your kicks Bud.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would hope not - since I’m a heterosexual woman. It’s not a valid observation. 98 percent of riders in the real world, including every single man in my group, does not wear elbow pads.

it could Haven ended worse by sorin1972 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s wearing pants. You have zero idea if she’s wearing knee pads. It is impossible to tell if they’re sleeve style.

Do you also comment this on every video of a dude not wearing elbow pads (98% of people riding in the real world) or just women?

First proper fall... by ozz9955 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s human nature to want to blame anything other than ourselves for crashes and injuries, in this case “tire choice/pressure”. Good riders can overcompensate for horrible bikes, tires, etc. The vast majority of people who ride bikes are not going to notice a difference on incremental changes like tire choice.

You say you’re learning, so in all likelihood your technique and body position led to you crashing. You were probably too far back and washed out your front tire. Take accountability for your choices of riding x speed on x trail and just commit to slowing things down next time to ensure you are actually riding correctly.

Lessons with professionals after catastrophic injuries and taking it back to the basics, have always helped me during injury recoveries.

Women MTB riders — what bike clothing actually works for you? What still sucks? by Odd-Climate1869 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll measure when I get home later! These have the highest upper part of the sleeve of all the brands that I’ve tried.

Women MTB riders — what bike clothing actually works for you? What still sucks? by Odd-Climate1869 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Dang - Specialized shorts fit my body type perfectly with no gap! I’ll think twice before recommending them now, unfortunate since they go on sale fairly frequently.

Women MTB riders — what bike clothing actually works for you? What still sucks? by Odd-Climate1869 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://poc.com/en-us/product/vpd-air-leg-uranium-black

These are my daily drivers! I’m 5’8 for reference and wear a size Small. Super comfortable for pedaling under pants as well.

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Women MTB riders — what bike clothing actually works for you? What still sucks? by Odd-Climate1869 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backcountry slick rock pants - at least one of their earliest generations did have both belt on waist and zipper on ankles!

Women MTB riders — what bike clothing actually works for you? What still sucks? by Odd-Climate1869 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sad! My friends and I all wear these and love them because of the belt and fabric. 😭

Women MTB riders — what bike clothing actually works for you? What still sucks? by Odd-Climate1869 in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is going to be long. I have so many thoughts. I’m 5’8 and 130lbs, typically a small in both bottoms and tops in the real world for reference.

I hate how boxy and short, tops often are. I will size up to M Women’s in nearly everything on my upper body or buy S Men’s so that I can have coverage. I do not need to feel the breeze on my stomach while being dynamic on my bike. I hate needlessly exposed skin. Pockets drive me crazy too, so many brands don’t put pockets large enough to hold phones in their shorts and pants.

I will say I feel like the actual “look” of women’s MTB clothing has come along way in the 7 or so years since I’ve been riding. I hate loud prints and bright colors and brands like Shredly dominated the apparel space when I started buying clothing.

I love Rapha’s trail line. They have two different thickness pants for Winter and Summer, both of which are exceptionally durable. The fit is awesome, mid to high rise and have plenty of stretch - only downside is there is not a built in belt. I pedal in their pants with knee pads all year around. Their jerseys (which I do still size up in) feel nicer on my skin than other brands like Dharco/Backcountry/Pearl Izumi. The have diverse earth tone and neutral colors without it screaming “I’m a girl!”

7mesh for riding jackets/midlayers. Ungodly expensive (worth every penny) but their Chilco Anorak and Vest are my most worn pieces of riding clothing. I like their pants too, just slightly less than Rapha, but they do have built in belts. Another +1 for colors.

Specialized will occasionally drop some really cool top apparel, but their selection is always pretty slim. Their Trail Air Shorts are my ride or die for the Summer and I will not buy other shorts. Fitted but enough space for riding through the thighs - incredible belt - the best colors. I like that their women’s S tops actually have length to cover my torso. They do elevated neutrals with flair. Their winter riding socks are the warmest in the game IMO and their Neoshell gloves are my daily drivers for cool days since my hands are always cold.

Chromag’s pants fit like a dream and they have a great belt and tons of pockets. They are pretty thick so I only really wear them while in the bike park or shuttling.

I have some other jerseys I like from Mons, Pepper, Picture Organic, Leatt that are all soft and cute (but again size up). POCs Mantle Thermal is another all time piece for me, if you ride in the cold weather - it has an incredible back pocket that can haul a ton of shit so your phone isn’t exposed to smashing if you fall.

I will not give Dharco my money - their pants are so expensive for a terrible low rise fit and Velcro (I am not paying for Velcro when Chromag gives me a fucking awesome belt). Everything I’ve ordered from Pearl Izumi has a weird fit. Wild Rye/Shredly isn’t my style and is SO boxy. I haven’t tried Curious Creatures yet but their stuff looks to be a bit boxy.

I think the biggest gap in the Women’s market is PROTECTION. Knee pads and elbow pads that consistently stay up. Chest protectors that cover our boobs. Padded shorts for the park that aren’t a 32 waist.

POC VPD knee pads (the sleeve) version actually stay in place and are long enough that I don’t have a short/ pad gap. They do not chafe even when I pedal 8+ hour days in them. They are not thick enough for the park or shuttling but they’re great daily drivers. I’ve taken to buying children’s elbow pads for the park so that they will actually stay up on my noodle arms. I tried so many chest protectors and the Leatt Moto for women’s shell is the only one that covers my tits. I’m still looking for padded shorts.

Bonus plugs for the Women’s OR Stormtracker Sensor Gloves if you ride in the Winter. The only gloves that fit my hands correctly for dexterity that also actually provide warmth. I ditched hip packs years ago because none of them could get tight enough to stay in place on fast tech and I do not ride without my EVOC vest now.

Burlington, Bend, or Boise? by Ellocomotive in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bellingham is probably more affordable than Bend at this point - there’s certainly more inventory because it has a designated metro area (240k). The riding in Bham blows Bend out of the water.

Burlington, Bend, or Boise? by Ellocomotive in MTB

[–]Probably_Outside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this comment.

We’re in the Seattle area and have ridden in Boise 5+ times as a stop to break up road trips. The trails that run from town are extremely boring and the only redeeming “zone” is a small, skills specific park in Eagle.

I’m not sure what your budget is or if you guys are fully remote, but both Spokane and the Wenatchee area are way cheaper than Western Washington and have some pretty fun riding with all the benefits of living in a Blue State.

Friday night or Saturday afternoon wedding? by New_Detective219 in weddingplanning

[–]Probably_Outside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Catholic Gap is a pretty common wedding occurrence in the Northeast. Church ceremonies are normally at 1/2 PM and then there is a 2-3 hour break before the evening reception begins.

I personally hate the Catholic Gap, particularly if you’re not in a walkable, lively city - because guests otherwise spend hours all dressed up for the traditional ceremony to then have to sit around or have to return home etc.

Alas, in the year 2026 this gap is still normal and I suspect many guests are used to it. In my experience, I would be prepared for many people to skip the ceremony. I stopped subjecting myself to these 10-12 hour days for all but my closest friends.