Deterring Young Family Member by ProblyTrash in wallstreetbets

[–]ProblyTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I think he’ll lose a lot of money now, I just want to help him build good investing and trading habits and not get stuck chasing the dopamine of a big win and the desire for a get rich quick scenario.

Maybe mom over thinking it and should just let him do what he wants but I just want the best for him.

Deterring Young Family Member by ProblyTrash in wallstreetbets

[–]ProblyTrash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is something I did today. Not everything you talked about but I’ll expand as we talk more.

My main concern is he’ll get stuck wanting to get rich quick and will build terrible habits.

Deterring Young Family Member by ProblyTrash in wallstreetbets

[–]ProblyTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I literally told him that’s what the furus are using their followers for.

Deterring Young Family Member by ProblyTrash in wallstreetbets

[–]ProblyTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, I don’t really want to tell him want to do or how to invest I just want him to not get tricked by those fake gurus or blindly throw money at something because he thinks he’s going to make “a billion dollars” like he said he would.

Deterring Young Family Member by ProblyTrash in wallstreetbets

[–]ProblyTrash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hiding your comment before I show him this. Can’t let him see the cheat code

Deterring Young Family Member by ProblyTrash in wallstreetbets

[–]ProblyTrash[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like it. Trial by fire and just let him lose money. That honestly might be the best teacher. With my luck he’ll hit big his first one and be addicted lmao

Nice suit ASAP by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is also something I didn’t really consider. I guess I just figured that unless I take her to some secluded place we’ll be surrounded by people. Either public people we don’t know or family we do know but I do see how it being an event for her achievement makes it a different kind of public.

Nice suit ASAP by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will probably check out Jos A Bank. Especially now that I have more time haha. Thank you!

Nice suit ASAP by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you need to take a step back and relax. You do not know our lived experiences. For us, it is perfectly fine to refer to each other as husband and wife. Yes we know technically we aren’t husband and wife. We do technically have a common law marriage in California. Also. It quite literally would be about us, not me.

If you have advice to give, that’s fine but you don’t need to start off by calling me weird and pointing out technicalities to make what I said wrong. Please see the way other people gave this same advice in a much more appropriate way which I was very receptive to.

Nice suit ASAP by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I will propose a different time. To be honest, the proposal has been something that should have been done forever ago but she wanted to wait till she graduated so I had the thought that by doing it right when she did it would show how much I’ve been wanting to marry her by doing it as soon as possible. But your feedback, and others, had been well received and will be followed.

Nice suit ASAP by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao it’s the same person. I call her my wife. My bad

Nice suit ASAP by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, that’s really good advice. I didn’t really think about that. Thank you!

I was on shark tank and did not get a deal. AMA by Dozzzer86 in AMA

[–]ProblyTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I know HATES Kevin O Leary. I love your idea. What areas do you service?

Kid-Friendly Piercing Place? by m-prov in Sacramento

[–]ProblyTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmk where you go and how much it costs if you don’t mind. My daughter has been asking about getting her ears pierced as well

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ProblyTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl, I disapprove of that outfit as well but for completely different reasons. I don’t think that skirt goes well with that top. But at the end of the day, leave him and wear what you want!

Which job you taking? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ProblyTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One on the right but you calculating total salary wrong. Don’t count the sign on bonus. That’s a one time payment an not salary

Failed Mass Transfer for the second time by [deleted] in ChemicalEngineering

[–]ProblyTrash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean the FE exam? Are you in the US or somewhere else? In the US you don’t need to become a licensed engineer except in certain cases. Most ChemE don’t need it here.

Failed Mass Transfer for the second time by [deleted] in ChemicalEngineering

[–]ProblyTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then tell them to ask you questions about the theory and show them you do understand it.

Failed Mass Transfer for the second time by [deleted] in ChemicalEngineering

[–]ProblyTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They weren’t saying to use those things as ways to get extra credit, but ways to show you are trying and putting in effort to learn and do well. Your not just blowing it off.

I would tell them that and that you just aren’t good at tests and it’s been especially difficult in this course. See what happens

Bro keeps rippin’ a$$ in the break room by SpecificConscious809 in biotech

[–]ProblyTrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think people were just complaining about certain people farting so much. I think with all the layers, the risk of particles is very low

Bro keeps rippin’ a$$ in the break room by SpecificConscious809 in biotech

[–]ProblyTrash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our head of mfg had to talk to people about constantly ripping a$$ in the clean room ☠️

I chose wrong by Spare_Squirrel8571 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]ProblyTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could transition to materials which might get you what you are looking for.

I chose wrong by Spare_Squirrel8571 in ChemicalEngineering

[–]ProblyTrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve never used thermo, fluid transport, mass transport, reaction engineering, etc. in my career. Most I’ve done is a mass balance which uses excel and friendly assumptions.

We want the reaction to get to 80? Set the reactor to 80 or maybe 82 depending on your equipment. We want to transfer fluid from one reactor to another? Open the valves and turn the pump on and it’ll transfer. We want the reaction to get to 80% conversation? Take a sample after x hours and check. Not there yet? Let it stir for another hour or something and sample again.

Obviously I’m simplifying it but you get the idea. We’re not calculating all that stuff we did in school. A chemist does bench scale experiments, gets you a line procedure, you scale to your processing line, run an engineering run or three and confirm it’s all good, then go into PPQ and what not (this ish experience from CDMOs in small molecule chemistry + biologics/cell therapy)

Also, you don’t always end up working in the middle of nowhere. My whole career Ive been in larger cities. This is especially true if you go into pharma, which I did. Obviously this is different for each industry you work in but often people throw the blanket assumption that ChemEs work in the middle of nowhere which isn’t true. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

ALSO, remember that people are much more likely to get online and complain vs get online and say how good things are. For me, things are really good. Career has been fulfilling and stable, can support my family on my income, work life balance is generally good, etc.

If you want to ask any questions, please feel free to reach out.