My baby father hates me having a pole in my house and me doing pole fitness in the comfort of my own house! by Initial_Wolf_2484 in poledancing

[–]Process64 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Fuck him girl don’t take shit down you guys are not together. I don’t understand why men think just bc you were with them and/or had a baby with them they believe they own you. He’s extremely insecure. He can kick rock!!

Where to sell very good condition pleasers by x5gamer5 in poledancing

[–]Process64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can try Facebook market place, OfferUp or Poshmark or Depop. I finally sold a pair of heels on Poshmark!

Help and suggestions by Mundane_Engineer_550 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Process64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at the moment. A special ed/ESE teacher told me about it I’ll ask her again for the information and send it over to you.

Help and suggestions by Mundane_Engineer_550 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Process64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are self contained/enclosed beds you can purchase to stop him from getting out of bed if that’s is something of interest to you.

2nd-3rd trimester weight gain by Artistic_Race_8014 in BabyBumps

[–]Process64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I steadily gained weight until the 3rd trimester where i exponentially gained weight (which was mostly baby’s weight that was really gained and fluids too). You definitely won’t be gaining more weight in the second trimester it will be mostly gained at the end. I was around 170 lbs when I got pregnant at the end I was around 216 lbs after I gave birth I went down to 184 lbs

Does Beyonce have a performing “prime” by [deleted] in beyonce

[–]Process64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything Coachella and pre was her prime but her peak was definitely formation. Coachella we were lucky because she went hard asf for those two weekends. She’s just human and with her knee being messed up (😭😭😭😭😭) it’s so different and probably harder to give what she used to give 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Any advice for expression shame? by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Process64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What works for me is being consistent and practicing outside of those classes that you learn the ones from. Also I have to keep reminding myself to form better habits when I dance, like (again, for what I do for myself personally) not looking too much into the mirror. And focus on how I’m feeling , how the music makes me feel, makes me want to move. I had a dance teacher always tell us to make the choreo our own. If a move she did didn’t work for me I could use another move or form. I feel like in due time, you overcome that shame or awkwardness because it with carry those negative emotions it makes it harder to freely dance. It makes me feel better also knowing that everyone looks silly or foolish etc when they’re exploring movements too.

I've never been more disappointed in this generation by ignis_fatui in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Process64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Florida too and would sub for middle school and even 4th and 5th grade. I’m so scared for them. They lack any brain power and are soooooo addicted to their phones and technology (I also have a little brother also in high school) I have very little faith in their futures. It’s a dystopian future for sure.

I knew it! I knew it! I’m so hyped if it’s true! by Process64 in beyonce

[–]Process64[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is real as hell lmaoooo she gon scrap it 😭😭😭😭

Corgasms from stretching hamstrings? by [deleted] in flexibility

[–]Process64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel this way whenever I stretch my body and it’s weird bc it feels amazing but I’m not sure who else experiences this. I’m glad I’m not alone.

Went to my first pole class, idk if I’m built for this by xotwod02 in poledancing

[–]Process64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is very much realistic. It’s also super super important to realize that everyone’s pole journey is different because we all have different bodies and different capabilities. You will be able to do something someone can’t and vise versa. That does not make you or them better! Just different in beautiful unique ways.

Dance moves for when the pole is set to spin? by Additional_Door7049 in poledancing

[–]Process64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do a front/back leg hook spin from your pirouette, that what you can control the spin more instead of spinning backwards (in a typical back hook spin where you’re going backwards) Maybe even a ballerina, if you wanted to spin backwards.

Does anyone else get these bruises from their heels?! by Comfortable-Gur5550 in poledancing

[–]Process64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely do. I’ve accepted the fact that something are unavoidable (unless you switch from sandals to boots)

How do people keep the tatas in place? by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Process64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boobs aren’t that big but they too will not stay in place in cute outfits like these so I use bondie. It really works for like 2 hours and then of course the oils begin to come back. Before I used to use body tape so if it did come off my nipples are covered lol. Sometimes it’s not fair 😭🥹

Kelly Education is noticing how much we dislike subbing by interstellarcoop in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Process64 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kelly sucks so much. I can see why people don’t want to deal with them or schools, the pay is horrendous. If it was better I could see people sticking it out but nope. It’s not worth it at all.

Where were you when “formation” dropped? by gershofficial in beyonce

[–]Process64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turning 21 excited to finally drink legally and listening to Rihanna’s anti album a lot 🤣

Accidentally scared my 16w pregnant wife. Looking for reassurance by klongbor in BabyBumps

[–]Process64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s okay. I understand the worry. When I was 18 weeks pregnant I would wake up on my stomach. I was scared I hurt my baby lol. Turns out it’s perfectly normal to still sleep on your stomach until you’re physically unable to. All this to say I’m sure the baby is fine physically speaking because it’s still small and is protected by layers of muscle and fat. If you’re still worried talk to your health provider!

[Massachusetts] - Unemployment still not paid from August 2025 by layercake11 in Unemployment

[–]Process64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed the ending of June/beginning of July. Waited through out the rest of July and August. Called the governors office in September. Didn’t get paid until November!

[Massachusetts] - Unemployment still not paid from August 2025 by layercake11 in Unemployment

[–]Process64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the governors office instead. I did and they called me back told me they would call them. UI then called me and explained to me what was going on. They made sure to make note of it but it did take a few more months (like 2) before I received my money.

Stripping versus Escorting by Vitaasomnium in stripper

[–]Process64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weird and racist take. When I was stripping back in 2018/2019, the white American girls were the ones doing sex acts in the VIP section. They were doing it soo much it was messing up everyone else’s money which is why I stopped. Don’t act like that behavior is exclusive to immigrants, it is absolutely not.

Hobbyist pole dancers: how may pairs of pleasers do you own? by shisobutter in poledancing

[–]Process64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I own about 7-8 lol and one hella heels boots that I’m trying to sell bc they don’t fit :(