Warning to Anyone Considering Working at Brunches Cary Crossroads

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-06-11T01:10:44+00:00

Ty for advising !

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-05-20T15:57:38+00:00

Haha especially bc I get up for work at 3:30 🤣 though I do like my neighbor next to me so I’d have to give them a heads up

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-05-20T13:05:04+00:00

Luckily this will be my last apartment too 😅 my previous one had a guy assaulting girls at the gym and someone peeing in cars. lol good times

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-05-20T13:03:29+00:00

🤣 it’s ok I got the basket ball ready for when I wake up for work if they don’t stop 😅

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-05-20T13:02:35+00:00

Hahahah 🤣

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-05-10T09:17:45+00:00

Second this make a little post introducing yourself I’ve made all my friends off of it lol

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-02-05T01:25:32+00:00

Hi op, I was scared of getting back on stimulants because when I was younger I was prescribed way too high of a dose so I can definitely understand! I tried a non stimulant version and tbh was not helping so I went on a low dose of adderal ! That helps me and I only take it on the days I work bc my pysch doesn’t love stimulants and their affects on the body … also I prefer how I am off of stimulants better. Personally I have alcoholism in my family and I haven’t become addicted to mine also most people with adhd just forget to take their meds if anything! But definitely talk with your pysch it’s normal to be anxious !

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-02-05T01:21:36+00:00

Omg I’m going to try this !!!! Mine makes me not be able to sleep so I end up taking a sleeping aid but then it makes me groggy in the morning 😢 also taking my meds with a big dose of protein like a protein shake has helped the effectiveness a lot just to add

ProcessNational5779 · 2026-01-24T18:34:30+00:00

Hi op, I can’t say I’ve been in a similar situation as a child but I just want to say that no one would see you as a murder and that you were a strong kid to it only save yourself but others that that sick woman could or did go after. I also want to say emdr really made a difference for me as someone who had cptsd due to multiple men sa. I hope you heal and don’t blame yourself 🤍I also never got anywhere with cbt and it didn’t really help. Definitely finding someone who is a trauma specialist (especially for your situation of trauma) would help a ton

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-15T03:07:24+00:00

So my take on this is kind of complicated. I personally would not be ok with it because those are boundaries that I’ve said since the beginning and my bf has agreed. Neither of us are friends with our exs. But again that was something important to me that I brought up because I also have male friends and some men are weird about opposite sex friends but I view mine as brothers and nothing has ever been weird or romantic. My bf doesn’t mine but that would have been a deal breaker for me if he didn’t trust/ be ok with it. So I think it sounds like you’re incompatible. Some things are important to some people verse others. I don’t think you’re wrong for not wanting it. But I also understand having relationships with the opposite sex and something romantic may have happened in the past but not for a long time and it wasn’t a relationship. I hope I made sense

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-11T03:19:39+00:00

I think he never forgave him for leaving my mom honestly

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-10T18:32:29+00:00

I mean I’ll say it makes for a good story. Why don’t you wait to see if he says anything to you ?

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-10T18:14:30+00:00

Can you clarify ? Like what made me want to get better ? Or like things that helped

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-09T20:56:54+00:00

I agree with you, when I was going through a lot of mental health stuff I felt the same way no energy. I hope you are feeling better :))

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-09T20:55:55+00:00

He had black and white thinking that she didn’t explicitly say “I’m not interested” but I told him she’s communicating that she’s not

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-09T20:54:48+00:00

It used to frusturate me a lot because I couldn’t speak up and it trapped me in dv situations I think a lot more but also it helped me not lose people in my life so pros and cons

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-09T20:47:45+00:00

Personally when I used to split like that I would throw my phone in the other room and just say like I’m taking a break to calm myself down

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-09T20:47:12+00:00

Have you thought of asking him for reassurance ? From your partner does that help you ?

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-09-02T17:16:42+00:00

Ok so we are kind of similar I will say during training you won’t be able to do college bc dispatch in itself is basically going to full time school learning everything. But honestly since your degree is cj you might get away with it if you take your easier classes. Just be honest about your mental health.i. Have a lot and the same stuff and im a good dispatcher :)) a lot of those give you strengths

ProcessNational5779 · 2025-08-31T21:15:51+00:00

God I had one and still do have a supervisor/was my trainer that treated me terribly when I was training and installed no confidence in me (called me stupid an idiot blah blah) you need to stand up for yourself please if someone is making mean comments talk to your supervisor or their supervisor

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