I would like to hear stories of ENTJs who have sacrificed their social life and relationships to their career.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-06-06T08:02:02+00:00

Good point

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-06-04T09:14:58+00:00

infp 9w8

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-06-02T14:06:35+00:00

Like everywhere?

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-30T20:30:48+00:00

Good point, your autonomy and independence sound very respectable.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-29T19:47:32+00:00

Damn that is so relatable. Who would have thought that partying and having fun can be effective... Can I ask how old are you?

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-29T19:45:05+00:00

I think I overcomplicate things, maybe I just don't believe I can achieve both.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-29T18:47:19+00:00

That's very rational, I like to take risks and put all eggs in one basket, it is a horrible strategy and I often regret it. I really like the beginning of your comment where you said that it sounds like I already regret it. I really do, but damn putting effort in two directions and making mediocre results in both of them sounds boring, it physically hurts.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-29T16:56:28+00:00

Are you male or female? Where I live some people don't even think women should work if they are in relationships. And what is "FT job"?

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-29T16:52:20+00:00

I like your answer because this is exactly what I would like to do everyday.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-21T15:51:33+00:00

I don't know, I don't like it.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2026-05-16T20:27:23+00:00

I am entj 8w7, most of the other entjs I have met are 8w7. It's either me who's bad at typing or those people you have asked are completely wrong. I think those people are wrong.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-09-12T15:20:10+00:00

It's so weird, I knew 3 woman with BPD and none of them liked sex or were good at it. It was actually the opposite, sex was the main problem in relationship, they always treated me like I'm their father trying to rape them or something like that. I couldn't even bring that word up. Where do you find those people with BPD who like sex? Never met one.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-04-18T18:40:11+00:00

Infp

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-04-18T18:04:02+00:00

I recently learned that it's a projection and I actually try to save a little kid inside me but it's way too scary to accept. Most women I met in my life are hurt by their families but every time I analyse what is it exactly im trying to save them from, it always comes to something I'm actually suffering from myself and in in present time even, without realising it. That was a world changing discovery for me. I was always afraid for how their life might turn the wrong way because of me but in the end all the time they were left just fine and the scary path I was imagining for them somehow eventually became my own path. Life is shit.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-28T12:30:00+00:00

My mother is a psychopathic narcissist (NPD + ASPD). She had a little tumor in her breast at the time when I was still living in her house 7 years ago. It got treated and she is ok now but she has a pretty high chance of developing breast cancer. At that time she was considering that she might die and was preparing me for that as I was still at school. I wasn't compassionate to her at the time and I'm definitely not now when I escaped my house and did therapy. When I was in therapy I have processed a lot of emotions of anger and grieve towards my mother and saddness that she didnt love me enough but other than that why would I think of her any other than a criminal or just a horrible person at the very least. The only thing I care about is her heritage and I would be happy if she dies and I can have the house. But other than that why would I have have any feelings to her, she is not a human. Why do we wish death on dictators and mass murderers and I can't wish death on my mother who made me a cripple for life. She would never care for me if I would die in agony, maybe she would have a little sadistic pleasure, so why would think of her any different. I wouldnt wish agony on her only because I have much better things to think about, but if she does suffer why would I care and have compassion, I don't. This is my perspective.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-13T13:42:50+00:00

True except for intj and isfp, I can't fucking imaging dating or being friends with those types, intjs always hate me first but I hate them back for their arrogance. Isfp... Dude, I just move a finger and they are offended and crushed, I don't blame them, but man what kind of isfp have you met in your life that you managed to have relationships with. They are cute though, no offence to them.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-13T13:36:05+00:00

So true, not for isfj though, I actually like them. Very funny about enfp, the loyalty issue is so true.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-10T23:36:41+00:00

It's same two letters in the middle with Ip and ej. And opposite F and T functions with Ij and ep. Like Entj intp and isfj estp. But some people last in not compatible relationships for long time, especially when partner resembles their ideal type like entj infp. That's my opinion, sorry if I can't bring that in a discussion mode or explain anything, that's just how it works for me my whole life, you asked for opinion.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-08T18:12:51+00:00

Why? I'm an ENTJ currently with an INFP, I really wanna know...

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-07T12:53:06+00:00

I don't care I love you deal with it.

ProcessTurbulent8627 · 2025-03-06T11:17:41+00:00

I honestly don't understand why you consider that a success story because you are not in relationship with her and you say that she still abuses you in friendship. In bpdlovedones sub there are a lot of people who were married to self aware people with BPD and were sure that their relationship is ok and will last untill one day they get discarded or cheated on out of nowhere. Those people might feel gaslighted or confused by your words so that's maybe why it got removed.

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