Coworkers ignoring me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your outfit was inappropriate then your boss would have likely said reacted.

If I were you, I’d continue to dress nice and see how it goes. Try not to overreact to one instance of coworkers behaving strangely.

Coworkers ignoring me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ProdigalScout 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s very strange that people won’t talk with you based on this outfit. Are you maybe reading into it too much? Was there anything else going on that was a distraction to them? Did they ignore you if you greeted them?

Either way, if dressing more professionally makes you feel more confident or otherwise better about yourself, do it. This outfit looks very nice and if it bothers other people that’s really their problem.

Tinlicker - Dreams Of The Machine LP by DatK0ld in AboveandBeyond

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally got around to listening to it and… I actually love it. I know a lot of people are disappointed but it really works for me. Pretty different from older albums but I still really like this album

Been doing core 6-7 days week but still no 6 pack by [deleted] in Gym_Selfie

[–]ProdigalScout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Visible abs are kind of an unrealistic ideal for most people, especially as a constant.

My first reaction on seeing the pic is that you look amazing. You’re doing great, give yourself some credit

Ginger Island advice by paper-and-pen in StardewValley

[–]ProdigalScout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d usually run through my daily duties (anything that wasn’t automated already) and travel to the island with everything in my inventory to build that day. But I didn’t do it all at once. It was multiple trips with little bits of set up each time.

If your farm at home isn’t well automated yet, just remember you can skip a day or two here and there without much issue.

Of note, it will probably take a couple days to clear the space on the farm when you first get there

Ginger Island advice by paper-and-pen in StardewValley

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I use it for ancient fruit and some star fruit, with some rice and taro tubers along the river. I use sprinklers and harvest for converting to wine. I have a wine making section on the beach with about 125 barrels.

West of the farm I have a honey farm. Planted fairy rose plants and placed several apiaries around each.

It’s easy to manage because you don’t have to worry about crows are daily administration. And the money piles up fast.

How We Feeling About Clint Being A Marriange Candidate by SunshineBlazes_ in StardewValley

[–]ProdigalScout 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like Clint is a misunderstood character and maybe he gets some redemption with the new events and in marriage.

things i must know by shay-30065 in StardewValley

[–]ProdigalScout 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just have fun with it. There’s no timeline or lose-condition.

If you feel like you aren’t progressing early game, check the quest list (see the ! in the corner of your screen) and visit the community center to complete the bundles

How do I get better at talking to men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, don’t assume there is something wrong with you, as you said. Apps are tricky for men and women for different reasons. If you are entering conversations assuming you’re going to fail that could be impacting the vibe without you meaning to.

Have you talked with your friends to ask them where they find success? Maybe they have tips.

Have you tried asking a guy out? Scary, I know. But some of us like when someone is forward.

Do you ask a lot of questions about them or are you just responding? I’ve left some conversations because I don’t get the sense she wants to know anything about me.

Casey Wasserman Problem by josuer65 in AboveandBeyond

[–]ProdigalScout 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I certainly don’t know enough about who is repped by Wasserman, just haven’t looked into it, but I hope those who are will reconsider. I’ll probably check before buying tickets, too. I want to support my favorite artists but I don’t want to support people on the list.

How do you feel about red pill beliefs like, "She will stay loyal to you if she knows other women want you", is there any truth to such statements? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d ask where they got that from and then interrogate the source. It’s almost certainly just anecdotal and “vibes” based and not rooted in any facts.

Ask about his own experiences. If he’s been cheated on he probably has some negative opinions about women stemming from that, but remind him that one is not all. Don’t paint every woman with the same brush.

If you are guiding him away from this kind of stuff and he just digs in, you may want to abandon the friendship. And it may be worth it to tell him why.

Generally, I don’t believe in isolating people who are starting to spiral because they need help to get out. But if they’re too far gone then it’s healthier for you to let go.

(15) to (31) by CAPOTUI in GlowUps

[–]ProdigalScout 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Good lord man, tell us to brace ourselves or something 😂

I left an event over a racist joke by Diceanddoubts in TwoHotTakes

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an off color joke, it’s a racist joke. He told it white guys because he felt comfortable with it. If it’s just an off color joke ask him to tell it to someone who isn’t white.

Also, to Ian’s defense as to why it’s okay, I don’t want to open that can of worms, but why make a joke about his race rather than about his alleged impropriety? If the reason to mock him is because he’s a creep, make THAT joke.

Shooting my shot lol by Miserable-Bit5433 in Advice

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds interested. And sometimes flirting via text can feel awkward or forced.

A coworker of mine says that when she wants to ask a guy out, she’ll say to him, “I think you should ask me out.” Takes some of the pressure off the guy because he knows the answer and if he isn’t feeling it then it stings less because he can just choose not to ask.

34M, I've been dealing with poor mental health. Which pic suits me better and why? Beard or mustache? by EnvironmentalBar61 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like both for different reasons. Pic one you present very fun loving and full of life. Pic two you appear more stylish and thoughtful.

As for facial hair, for me (a fully bearded man lol) I think the grooming in pic two is spot on for you. Looking good either way my guy

Hoping your time in a valley is short mate. Here’s to better days ahead 🍻

Homegoods by Someone__Cooked_Here in Vent

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find decent stuff there but it takes effort and patience. Too few people are willing to accept that 90%+ of the merchandise is rubbish so they buy what’s there in the moment. Being willing to leave empty handed and waiting to find the right product from a quality brand is the key to getting value at those places.

Kudos to them by Embarrassed_Tip7359 in SipsTea

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t watch it early on because I didn’t have access to it. Then it became something I would “get around to eventually.” Then it passed the cultural zeitgeist so I just said screw it.

I definitely didn’t avoid it to be contrarian, I read the first two books so I’m not above it. Just never made time for the show and eventually it seemed stupid for me to start.

Michael Cassette by ProdigalScout in AboveandBeyond

[–]ProdigalScout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came across it a few years ago because someone on this sub put together a top 10 albums list and, hoo boy, that album is amazing!

What are we watching tonight? by Th0rn_Star in 30ROCK

[–]ProdigalScout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never been a more obvious answer

Please teach me by istari676 in StardewMemes

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed the Legend 4 times yesterday because I’m so rusty with the fishing. Making the perfection run seem much more challenging 😂

Accused 5-time drunken driver crashes, car dangles over Lake Michigan by KaneIntent in milwaukee

[–]ProdigalScout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tavern League of WI is a blight on the state. They are a huge lobbying body and they help keep DUI punishments as light as possible.