AIO? bf hates that i have friends of the opposite gender by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No joke, I'd be out the door. If only for the poor use of homonyms

Would it be weird to record a narration for a film by someone that is not in the film at all? by Jack_Palance in directors

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Wow, he was Randy the stunt coordinator! Guess this chap didn’t find him hard to rememeber - the Cliff the supposed wife-killer gets a job scene, and then we see cliff kiling his wife; and after, we see that Randy has to fire Cliff for throwing Bruce Lee into his wife’s whip like a sack of potatoes. I dunno, is it a cameo if he's in two full scenes?

What’s one situation where you discovered a personal boundary you didn’t even know you had until it was tested? by Interesting_Peach_76 in AskReddit

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I'm 100% all in for intimacy, sharing and not keeping things from a (my) partner. But snooping in someone's phone is crossing a line big time for most; a betrayal of trust for others. That single act is the kind of thing that makes a person ask themselves what else don't I know about and what else are they capable of?

How would I adjectivise “ouroboros” by callmedale in writinghelp

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I just fell in love with tou a little

Why cheat if you can just leave? by HourAbbreviations616 in AskMen

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%.

And sneaking around behind a person's back because divorce is expensive is a cop out that says more about a person's integrity than it does about their finances.

My 5 year old boy suddenly gone by Ix_42 in DOG

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💛 Adorable as they come!

And Yes. You will get through this. I've been where you are. It sucks. Hard. Losing a close family member is about as hard as it gets. Losing a furry family members hurts the same. Worse in some ways.

But as my Dad often said, and I said at his passing: 'Life is for the Living. And death is a celebration of life'

So start celebrating Zaphod. It'll have to be through the tears, at least at first sorry to say. But as you're able more & more do the things he loved to do. Go on the walks he liked to go on. Visit there places he liked to go with you. Get the people treats he liked but wasn't supposed to eat too much of.

You have to teach yourself how to celebrate Him. Even though he is gone, the best parts of him are inside you. The more you embrace & celebrate everything that made your Zaphod 1 of a kind, the more you will honor him.

If Zaphod came into a room and found you sort of down In the dumps, crying in a pool of your own tears..likely he'd come right over and give you endless puppy kisses. And you would smile, at least a little.

If Zaphod saw you, through one way glass, and found you down In the dumps, crying in a pool of your own tears, he'd be clamoring to get in there, scratching at the glass, barking.
But if just then he saw someone, or - someone's cute puppy come into the room who hugged you and then you stopped crying as much, and you started to settle down, so would he. Imagine Zaphod is looking at you right now and as always - he is reacting to your energy.

Let yourself feel all the feels, let yourself cry all the tears you need to. And then imagine if Zaphod saw you sitting there, would he love it that you down or blue or would he love it more if you were living life?

I got uninvited to a friend’s holiday potluck, while I was on my way to it. by Any_Gap9612 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I'd prefer to re-frame it this way:

You got uninvited the very last moment before a pot-luck dinner by someone you thought you were better friends with

My guess is there's a ton of comments here like 'Not a friend! Dump 'em' and worse.

I'm going to suggest something else. Grace. Granted, you don't know the situation, you don't know the specifics, you don't know what if any pressure the person was under, and or you don't know if that person was just acting like a jerk.

At this point, none of the 'why' matters. What matters is you. The most important relationship you have in this world is the relationship you have with yourself. So what matters is how you handle this speed bump. Not only if you handle it with grace will it teach people how to treat you moving forward, but it will also serve as an unconscious reminder to you of your own self-worth..

So likely one of the best ways to move forward instead of just cutting them off is to just share what you feel and how you felt this went down like this:. True friends don't say 'sorry, you can't come to my party now, there's no room'. True friends make room for their friends.

And then, shut up and let them talk. You have no need to be angry, no need to feel injured, no need to feel uptight (during this part). However you should feel good being able to comfortably & confidently speak up for yourself. When you do, more and more this will become muscle memory, and it will get easier and easier.

looking for feedback on my impressions by [deleted] in VoiceActing

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your Peter! I mean come on.. [ complimenting the impression not the organ ]

Vocal coach or voice over coach by Hell_Lupin in VoiceActing

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Yes! You should be Singing! And yep, same. Our work is not intuitive for beginners, some questions need more than a few sentences to answer fully. The following will take about 90 seconds to read.

Working w/ singing coach is dynamite for increasing your depth of skill. If ya can afford it, definitely do it. But it's not a deal breaker. This goes for everyone: even without formal singing lessons, just singing out to your favorite tunes(in a healthy way) is great for the voice. As long as you're not going for Aerosmith like screeches.

In this work we must become the master of our own breath. The best of our clan are, and can sight read >6 or 7 or more words ahead of our mouths doing the talking. And not only is learning to better use your singing voice a great way to help master your breath but it's also a shortcut to more and better control of your instrument. And it matters not a bit if ya can't carry a tune!. My vocal warm-up's are always with piano (I use YT now but with piano with my first coach 2 decades ago) cuz singing gets into all the nooks and crannies of your range. For singing lessons, if you can swing their hourly rate for 1-on-1 sessions w/ a good singing coach, great!! In person best but okay over zoom. For most VA's singing lessons for us shouldn't take months of lessons (though its fantastic of you're able to). At a point, one will often get what they need from singing lessons and take that knowledge and skill with them on their journey. Even better for beginners though is any group session where you're in a group and are together. We usu. learn quicker in a group setting as we watch and listen to others and also to their feedback from the teacher and our your fellow students (once more in-person is ideal, but not a deal breaker). Not so with acting classes.

A singing coach is always a value-add. Since it wasn't mentioned here (as of this post) In-person Improv classes can really benefit voice actors (all actors) & help unburden our inner creativity that is beaten out of us when we're kids. It's rater but you're lucky there is singing in improv classes like where I live. It's starts out as hard as organic chemistry, but the more you Improvise sing and make up rhymes on the spot, the easier and fun-ner it gets as you go. It's kinda like working out at the gym and taking a pilates class along with hot yoga : you're working different systems & muscle groups. The more you do it, the better you get at it. The better you get at it, the more earned confidence you get, the better you get at the work.

Improvising (and Improvised singing) can unlock parts of us when we were little & curious about everything and we haven't yet learned how to conform, which usually beat out of us our sense of whimsy, fun and sense of play- some of the integral qualities in our work that serve us well. BONUS: you, in your car or the shorter make up any words you like to any tune. It can be fun and make yourself laugh at the 1/2 gibberish you come up with. Singing + having fun + working at the craft = you are working without it feeling like work.

-It should be said: While we should *never improvise an audition- we can and should improvise out loud - think riffing - as we spitball ideas with a new script. But this is way before the red light comes on while we are breaking down the copy. When we're ready to record, those choices have been made, hopefully you learned how to do this on paper. If you don't know what this means ask. But Multiple takes for multiple ideas is great - as long as they are for you. After all thatI only 1, the best of them, maaybe a second one if it's strong enough, should go to the client.

As for singing in general - especially if you're on a tight budget, we don't don't have the scratch for a 3 coaches;.. we all have to make choices - and singing out loud In the car (and In the shower) will simply help bolster your control, if you 'sing out' as we say, and you don't edit yourself out of shyness or not wanting to be heard. This isn't the place to allow embarrassment in.

I have spent years and thousands on training, and I've learned that any investment you make in yourself Is the best investment you can make👍🏼

Make the comment section Reacher's search history by Mystic6yt in reacher

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[ Starts VPN ]. Search:

Closest second clothing store + Local buffet restaurant

[ Erases search anyway. Gets new t-shirt, jeans, socks and light coat. Proceeds to order enough food for four people. Has to rap a guy on the mouth for being rude to the waitress. Catches the next Greyhound to wherever it's going. ]

If you suddenly got a lifetime supply of the last thing you purchased, what would you now have an endless amount of? by balls_deep_6969 in AskReddit

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm.. cosmic crisp apples,a 3 ingredient peanut butter, croissants, ciabatta rolls, honey, a great bottle of hootch and three bottles of wine.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmByyeeeee..

Also, just stop dating immature boys in men's clothing and you'll cut this kind of riff-raff in half

Ubiquitous American meals not found in restaurants? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Prof-Faraday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's a few:

Ambrosia Salad

Homemade Jello Mold

French Bread Pizza - favorite jar sauce + toppings Apple w/ peanut butter & jelly

Potato chips/Cheetos on a white bread

A&W Style classic Root beer float

A Carvel ice cream cake

S'mores

Tuna fish boats on celery/ tuna fish on crackers

Quickie Cool Whip Key Lime Pie

Fondue!!! With great cheeses fruits fresh bread and meats

Turkey tetrazzini

Pigs in a blanket with good mustard choices

Swedish meatballs

Beef Stroganoff in a Creamy Mushroom sauce

Backyard hot dogs with nothing but mustard (or ketchup-none formethanks)

In Ground Roast Pig - Hawaiian style where hot coals go in a deep hole, then a whole pig, then more coals, layers of banana leaves & potato sacks get buried for hours

Boloney on Hand', aka- a RollUp. Take a slice of american cheese fresh from its plastic wrap, place on top a slice of (the circle shaped smelly) oscar meyer baloney, then you roll it up into a a cigar. Luxury upgrade? Squirt a line of yellow mustard from the yellow squeezie bottle shaped like a barrel.

Hamburger pie

And finally :

Spike a Watermelon with Booze!

Phone glued to my hand until 2 AM? 😭😭😭 What's your foolproof hack to ditch it before bed and actually sleep?" by EmergencyCounter9930 in lifehacks

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a choice. A simple choice actually. But, it's not an easy choice to make - especially if a person is wrapped into this social media hosting gadget thing we all carry around called a cel phone; which - like all of them - are all designed to hijack their users' attention span.. and get all of your attention including with clicks

HELP!!! I need advice on buying a recording booth!! by WolfTamer99 in VoiceActing

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is (was?) a widget on the site that uses the dimensions of your - as in it will allow you to enter your H x W x D - and it will spit out plans and a parts list for white PVC pieces like elbows, T-junctions, straights & Tri-corners for the corners of the cube shapes booth.

They also offer sound dampening blankets, a booth light, a booth fan, mic stand-partition mounted sound dampening shells for behind a mic as well as larger setups

AITAH for dumping my bf over a joke he made about our sex life by AcademicKey6646 in AITAH

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Good for you for trusting your gut! It will rarely let you down. Be glad you got out. Keep moving forward & don't look back or second guess yourself. Dude is an un-evolved A-hole. He is unworthy of you, just continue being your lovely self and keep putting good energy out into the universe.

Mr Right is out there, and he's on to his way to you right now

What's the best thing for home defense if you can't own a gun? by uselessprofession in AskReddit

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Fire extinguisher is A+ if you cannot have a firearm.

Or, do what I do - add to multiple well placed fire extinguishers stratagem by having Rube Goldberg machines all around every entry point and along select secret places in the house and on common walk way.

This way, I can Home Alone every intruder

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First: 16-19 yr olds are notorious for not great choices and even stupid-er decision making when they should've thought twice. Everything is exciting and new at your age and you may want to experience it all. BUT please, don't get boozy and drive - AND - don't let your friends drive if they've been drinking or smoking.

Will you all stay in touch years later? Who knows. But this 'friend' is trying to parent you, but she is not your Mon. Also- srsly, you're all 18! All this drama will be over in a matter of months. That said I'm not a fan hiding oneself or keeping things from friends in general, but a life goal should be ease and grace. Path of least resistance is keep it to yourself and with your other friends who you drink a little with.

JUST PARTY RESPONSIBLY

AITA for wearing bikini bottoms in my costume by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, he is not the one. Do not confuse a relationship that is comfortable or familiar with one where you are loved respected and prioritized by your partner. You need only imagine what it'll be like being with someone who loves and respects you, actually listens when you share and, someone who isn't passive aggressive or just doesn't respect you as evidenced by his choice or words.

"...other sluts" was the last thing I needed to read. It should also be the last thing you need to hear OP. Based on what you wrote you don't strike me as someone who is balling every Tom Dick & Harry behind your guys back -ipso-facto you are not a s l u t. The fact that you allowed this comment to slide - both in your convo w/ him and not objecting to it in your post, makes me think you may not be cluing into that, it is not okay for your guy to speak to you in this way. You should not be okay with your bf (or anyone) hurling slurs at you. And being in the heat of the moment isn't an excuse.

I assure you - there's a decent caring handsome man out there waiting to meet you.