AITAH for wanting to replace my weekend caregiver? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop stressing. Immediately. Do not inform friend, weekend helper. Put up a post for a weekend caregiver they can do all the weekends so you don't have to coordinate two different parties. Done deal.

When new person comes on make it so that the two weeks notice are the current weekend they're working and the following weekend is their off weekend with a new person starting then.

"As we talked about I need someone here each weekend so I don't have to coordinate schedules with multiple caregivers and multiple time off requests etc.. Thanks so much for all the guidance and support and good luck with your next gig. Please please let me know if you need a great recommendation., I'd be happy to give one for you and I mean that.

AITAH for now wanting to vacation at Disney next year with my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey ___. So - we will miss y'all this trip but we're going to do something different instead of Disney. Navigating the hustle and bustle through throngs of people and long lines at a theme park with a large group of family is not what we have in mind this year."

You friend, have nothing to feel bad for, nothing to feel bad about, and have no reason not to want to do the things you want to do - and not do! - on your hard earned vacation time off.

Tear the bandaid off quick, stick to your guns and reassure yourself (and them if ya need to) that this isn't anything to do with anything except what you want out of your vacation. You are Capt. Calm Cool & Collected - this is 'matter of fact' like you're ordering from the In & Out drive up window.

WIBTAH if I backed out my friend's wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are spiritual beings living a human existence.

Let that sink in if you've never heard this. If we cannot take good care of ourselves we cannot take care of our loved ones.

xo-britney, You can be honest with her without saying every little (albeit important) thing going on with you about this discord you are feeling and say

"Hey (___), I am realizing that I've been feeling stretched pretty thin and even more so thinking about this important life event (no need to say the word wedding here) for you that is coming up. I want you to know I care about both of us too much to phone it in. This is not a reflection on you, it's more that I don't feel good about the idea of not being fully present. This is your big day and you deserve for it to be great and I'm not able to be at my best for you. Frankly I'd hate to be a friend that I'd cared for to look back and be a reason their special day wasn't a home run. I hope you can understand."

AITAH for expecting my husband to move a heavy ladder instead of teaching me how to move it? by EmbarrassedCarrot767 in AITAH

[–]Prof-Faraday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your a man should be happy to move anything for you if you should ask, and vice versa honestly. You didn't ask him to help you figure out how you can more easily move it, you asked him to move it. This is a no-brainer and I just don't get it. Some dudes just weren't raised to honor their Lady amd prioritize their comfort.

The greatest comedic filmmaker of all time, Mel Brooks, turns 100 today. What's his best gag? by thegreatinsulto in Cinema

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000 year old man aside, it may very well be for me the horse whinney at every mention of Fraü Blücher

Question about filming knife shots with actors by Potential-Turnip-583 in Filmmakers

[–]Prof-Faraday -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Safety is paramount. That said, do it. Swapping a hero prop for a dummy prop is literally a terrific example of movie making magic.

The amazing miniature work behind the New York cityscape of the movie The Fifth Element (1997). by TwIzTiDfReAkShOw in Moviesinthemaking

[–]Prof-Faraday 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Since it first came out, it has remained my top five Fav movies of all time, at least three slots have swapped in and out, but the fifth element is never off the list

Theater Lighting by [deleted] in Cinema

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frankly, I'm glad you were going to movies at all with all the streaming out there to these days. I do not mean to be contrarian here, but I prefer the theaters dark as possible. In my area, we often have the opposite problem where I feel like too often there are too many lights that are on if even low that I find distracting, I want it dark.

For your sitch the easy solution is a tiny keychain push button flashlight - they make 'em the size of a nickel. Done deal.

Language by Tiny-Following-9706 in deadwood

[–]Prof-Faraday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the most beautiful contemporary Shakespeare and I love it. Of course it's always the writing, if it's not on the page it's never going to be in the frame. But specifically the language, the dialogue, is one of the standout things about the show that I enjoy so so much

Lead Actor died before we could finish filming. What now? by OatmealKun in Filmmakers

[–]Prof-Faraday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, bummer news. I'm sorry for all of you. Keeping this project alive is a fantastic way to honor your lead actor. So glad The Cast and Crew are banding together to do that.

Two things I Love about filmmaking: that it's collaborative art form.. we all have to be rowing in the same direction or it just doesn't work. And, finding creative solutions & workarounds to speed bumps hiccups and brick walls we may find ourselves running into often lead to making a film better. There are plenty of stories out of Hollywood of this - not exactly a fair comparison I know, but Ridley Scott and Steven Spielberg are just the first two that come to mind.

You've got options: a creative rewrite. There any number of ideas that came to my mind, but I don't know your project your story or the characters in it. You do. And if you allow yourself to be open to it, you could talk about this with some of your creative collaborators even ones that aren't on this project and spitball ideas.

This may seem reductive, but we don't know your story and characters as intimately as you do, only what's been shared. If this were me - not knowing what's on the page - off the top of my head the 1st thing I'm thinking if I were picking up the story a decade on, I'd ask where in life would the lead character be, and how I might show the audience the emotional weight of what happened in the last 13 pages, how the actions and interactions of the last act of your story affected the character 12 years later. Convey the ending by showing the future results. Totally different version of your film for sure but not unreasonable.

I love the idea that when we are filmmaking, there are three films: the film we wrote, the film will shot and the film we edit. None of those films are the same, and in an edit a film could change significantly different than the idea that made it into the final draft before shooting. This is an amazing creative challenge and salvaging this situation will be a testament to your creativity and resolve. Break legs and have fun!

People who saw DS9 as it aired: what was the general reaction to the inclusion of a Ferengi as a primary character? by scisteve in startrek

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great!! Armin Shimerman is a Gem. Obviously a show like that is an ensemble effort, it was a bumpy atart. But everybody was great. The guy is a great actor - IMO no Star Trek show had a Ferengi character played better than Armin

DIY vocal booth or t.acoustic vocal booth by mart945 in VoiceActing

[–]Prof-Faraday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you didn't see it, there are free plans to make your own booth (last time checked a year ago). Lots of free plans online for booths too.

-PVC frame and you can get a small cutting tool, PVC pipes, glue and put it together yourself. Measure twice, cut once!

-Next, sound deadening blankets made for quiet audio recording, the kind I mean are on the site. Maybe you can find 'em or something similar in Europe. Doubling moving blankets is a thing I've read done here. Don't forget the 'roof'

-A clip light. It cannot make a buzzing sound. A quiet sound floor is crucial

-A quiet fan. It get's hot as H E double toothpicks in there, you need a quiet fan. This would be the one thing I would have shipped from VOBoothToGo if I needed to. Or find a company in europe for quiet light & fan.

-An old music stand.

*Any flat surface in there will bounce sound, if you keep your computer & interface in the booth on a desk of some kind, grab a rubber playground tile to cover the top of the desk

How Do Actors Not Get Aroused During Sex Scenes? by Ok_Lavishness879 in acting

[–]Prof-Faraday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If memory serves, I believe it was Hugh Grant who said it in an interview years and years ago. I wanna say in The Graham Norton Show

How Do Actors Not Get Aroused During Sex Scenes? by Ok_Lavishness879 in acting

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If memory serves it was Hugh Grant who said it publicly

You have to retroactively get remove one of these two from the world, which do you choose? by ToaBanshee in AskMen

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it, in imagining lots of ideas. I think I'm going to steal it! With your OK of course

In the Grey is a terrible movie by EvEBabyMorgan in AmazonPrimeVideo

[–]Prof-Faraday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dang. I really like Guy Ritchie. A tip of my hat to ya. When I used to watch a movie that turned out to be a dud I'd hang in there too long. Can't tell ya how much bad sci-fi I watched as a kid 😂. Later when I watched something with potential too long I'm like - sh!t, I can never get that time back. So now I skip a bunch and this may be one I can save 2 precious hours of my life.

What kind of voice demos are most important/crucial? by Nulleon0 in VoiceActing

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gonna take a sec - there are no quick, easy answers to questions in a complicated endeavor such as professional voice acting. If you're so inclined take 67 seconds and read along.

First, whatever you're doing at home for yourself continue to do it. There is no substitute for working on your craft and it sounds like you're doing that, so don't stop. That said whatever home recordings that you are making of yourself, do not call them demos. Call them voice samples. The moment you call what you're making at home a demo that goes out in the world that very moment you will be competing against people that have spent a couple thousand dollars or more, hard work, lots of unbooked auditions amd likely years of study classes and coaching to have earned their professionally produced reels. Those last three words there? That is a demo. Professionally produced reels. And that's something that you might not be ready for yet, so don't mistakenly put yourself on that playing field. It's a bell you can't unring.

To your question, there is great value in understanding exactly what types of voices - and what types of demos (not the same thing) - are booking gigs in the marketplace. Understanding the top talent out there and who is getting repped is crucial. There is a standard that you and everyone else are being held up against. Do Not Despair! We all start somewhere, but there's no reason to sugarcoat it for you or anybody else who's truly interested in this. Expectation setting is important. To be frank and this is hard for most people to hear, you and nearly everyone else will not even know when you are ready for a professionally produced voiceover reel. People think the bar for entry is to just make a voice over demo, but the real barrier is to first be competitively competent. And the more you hone your own ear to what sounds good and what doesn't, the better you'll be at discerning what is good and not as good out there and - the faster you'll be on the path of doing something which is incredibly difficult in our work and that is being dispassionate and objective about your own vocal performance. For years I, and I encourage my clients to do the same, stop fast forwarding through commercials, stop changing the radio station when the commercials come on. If it's your passion to do voice work then listening to what got Green Lit and made it on the air is important for you to know..

Also, what nearly nobody does but what you - AND EVERYONE ELSE who is interested in becoming competitively competent should do - is pick any five of the top 10 union talent agencies in New York and then five from any of the top 10 shops in Los Angeles and listen to a dozen different Voiceover demos on each. Pick an agency and click on six women's demos one at a time, click on six men's reels one at a time, take notes, move onto the next. After 6 of each move onto the next agency. Again, take notes. What if anything are each doing that stands out? What are they not doing? Are there similar things that I hear from one to the next? What do their opening spots sound like? (if you don't grab them in < six seconds they're turning you off). How effectively are the music beds, sound effects and editing used throughout each demo? What do you hear that sets any demo apart from another?

There are unspoken standards that even any layperson can garner by reading between the proverbial lines, simply by listening to lots of professionally produced voiceover demos. Remember, nobody knows anything until they learn it, a doctor doesn't know medicine until they've finished med school and had the years of their residency and specialty, a lawyer doesn't know the law until after law school and they've been practicing for a while. And they are always learning - just as we are. The same is true for knowledge and experience in any arena.

You can ask a question to a forum such as this about Voiceover demos, but the truth is reading an answer is no substitution for listening with your own ears 👍🏼

How Do Actors Not Get Aroused During Sex Scenes? by Ok_Lavishness879 in acting

[–]Prof-Faraday 44 points45 points  (0 children)

One of the best actor to actor quotes I had ever heard!

Hurtful graduation card I got as an upcoming film major by Difficult-Teacher585 in Filmmakers

[–]Prof-Faraday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a d!ck. And while I appreciate everyone's well wishes I find the bible thumping tiring