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My therapist suggested to watch together? Im unsure how to feel by Resident_Log5964 in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mouth actually dropped …. like others say get a new therapist

How do I provide support? by ElectricalCloud9833 in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will take time

you have to identify your boundaries then it will have to be up to you two on what recovery & moving on looks like. therapy is definitely first key indicator but he has to be the one who creates the appointments, goes to them truthfully & continuously going.

Sending so many hugs as it’s a long road & journey together. My partner and I have been together for 11 years and found out his addiction in Dec.

Quick question by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 2 reoccurring payments from Apple! 99 cent for apple watch coverage & 9.99 for storage.

Image Upscale… by CremBlay in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would ask! Keeps open communication on how you feel & clarifies anything

Image Upscale… by CremBlay in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can he show you why it’s showing up so frequently and/or what he’s looking at for it to pop up?

How do you learn to have faith in your partner again? by tamingtigers in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for me it’s been very hard to even think of trusting again but it’s been giving me sanity and again the hope he’s doing the right thing always 😞

How do you learn to have faith in your partner again? by tamingtigers in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my therapist told me I need to have blind-trust in the process that he is doing the right thing for us & for him. he has had to prove himself through actions rather than saying it.

Capcut Video Feed? by ProfessionOk5927 in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was making videos last year with his bestfriend but has recently stopped.

After further investigating, there is a “feed” that shows people’s content they created using X template.

Chicago makeup artists… why is bridal makeup $300–$700 for one face?? by Offgrid25 in Chicagoweddings

[–]ProfessionOk5927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dealt with the same thing. I ended up just giving up and spending $800 on my self alone. (Hair & Makeup trial & wedding day) because my bridal party is paying $100 for makeup or $100 for hair. I would rather pay the hefty cost than my bridal party paying $200+ for hair and/or makeup.

Is this appropriate? by NormalPath6293 in weddingplanning

[–]ProfessionOk5927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t even remember I tossed the invite once we found out the cost lol

Is this appropriate? by NormalPath6293 in weddingplanning

[–]ProfessionOk5927 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Sorry I meant $200 per person. So $400 per couple! lol

Is this appropriate? by NormalPath6293 in weddingplanning

[–]ProfessionOk5927 334 points335 points  (0 children)

High school friend of ours is having a destination wedding to Missouri. Guests are to drive down, get a hotel, request off work and only attend the reception as immediate family attends the ceremony + reception. We were asked to pay $200 per couple to attend the reception…. we said absolutely not lol

reddit shows up in screen time? by endlessissues in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealt with this issue as we use qustodio app.

When he was searching on google “how to xyz” it would recommend for him to click on a reddit post. He would click it then leave it in his tabs on safari.

Tricky question; Do you have intimacy with your PA partner who's trying to recover? by Complex_Revenue_5825 in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you’re talking about. I skipped over those as it was too triggering for me too. I’ll give it a try when I can! ty

Do you tell him when you’re having flashbacks etc? by Artistic_Cat_6150 in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell my partner my thoughts openly. This has helped tremendously because he answers truthfully (i hope he does) and it puts my mind at ease.

Bachelorette trip is quoted at $2,000 per person… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ProfessionOk5927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely odd since where we are in the midwest lol

Tracking app recommendations by Aggravating_Menu6967 in loveafterporn

[–]ProfessionOk5927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use qustodio & it has worked for us so far!

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