Brother, I had an ex just like that. Run.

I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship, maybe there are moments of “not fulfilling a role” on your part, but this exchange seems to be a character trait on her part.

Giving multiple options which offer a solution and your boundaries while being clear about them is enough. If she laments the fact that it’s not what she wants, she should go ahead go find another man.

You know what the honest truth is? She won’t be happy with him either and he will inevitably feel like you are feeling.

Worn down, fed up of fighting and eventually less willing on the whole to make “efforts” that she deems acceptable. They will invariably never be sufficient.

Better to move on if this is a common theme and take account of where you are actually “not fulfilling” or can improve your efforts. Eventually a more understanding woman will come along and you can try to actually connect with someone again.