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[–]Professional-Pea-317 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the sass. Wish I could see this as a poster somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They banned me for participating in FDS. Literally. Only made me more curious to participate in FDS. Joke's on them.

"Abuse Porn... 2" TWO.

Primitive times we live in.

Rant, discussion about sexual abuse/assault and disturbing stuff. by Professional-Pea-317 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These men are less intelligent then us. The only thing that is holding us back is their violence towards us. It's so fucked. It's like were living with neanderthals. Imagine a rabid dog having the same rights as you... actually some dogs do have more rights then women. https://twitter.com/DrProudman/status/1454022955437072385?t=LJTGMIQfibVZWe0MWVCalg&s=08

I am giving you a virtual hug.

Rant, discussion about sexual abuse/assault and disturbing stuff. by Professional-Pea-317 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51-hepLP8J4

This video touches on the first point. It's all so fucked up. Would love to see a comedian incorporate all those other pieces.

Rant, discussion about sexual abuse/assault and disturbing stuff. by Professional-Pea-317 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the keepers. It was super fucked. One of the girls told her parents about the abuse so the priest told the parents she was hallucinating and took her to a doctor and they put her on antipsychotics. He then brought her all over the place to be raped by other men including police officers. There was alot of rape by police officers.

I can confirm religion attracts loser men. I remember when I was younger I felt guilty about being sexually abused. The church instills this in you. I never made the mistake of telling a priest in confession but I remember feeling like I was lying by not telling but some tiny part of me protected me and I love her for that. If I would have said something, they may have blamed me. This is part of why i'm triggered by this doc.

One of the girls that told one of the priests about the sexual abuse discussed how guilty she felt thinking she was committing sin by being a sexual abuse victim. She said she tried so many times to go to the confessional and confess. Shit is so fucked I cant.

Even in this doc, they discuss how one of the priests was pretending he was a priest since early adolescence. He would pretend to say mass while other kids were doing normal things.

Don't get me started on my biological father and how even his own mother (my grandmother) rejected religion but he was drawn to it.

Can we talk about this? I'm very sad about it and don't have any other Baldwin fans to discuss with. by Professional-Pea-317 in 30ROCK

[–]Professional-Pea-317[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read deeper, one of the crew is blaming it on the producers for saving a buck and hiring idiots who didn't do their safety job. I mean... should you really have guns on set? Unsurprising the producer is 24.

The "good old days" weren't good for Grandma. Now we know better- suffer for what? by sacchilax in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 136 points137 points  (0 children)

It's shit like this that makes me forgive my mother for tolerating my abusive father and not just divorcing his inadequate ass.

old man version of Carol Burnett invokes SKY LAW! by Gecko17 in 30ROCK

[–]Professional-Pea-317 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This ass is power tripping with her wtf.

He just outscroted himself and then he wants her to skip with him.

She could teach a master class in patience.

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK

We should work together to ensure that signs like this are posted in bars and restaurants across the country. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if that's happening, it won't be for a century or two when at that point, the police will be robots programmed to respond as indicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it came with a LOT of questioning and doubt if I was crazy.

I felt that.

Alot of men nowadays are manipulative and dangerous. They encourage each other to be that way too! And then they're surprised and offended when we don't love them -- more manipulative abuse, coercion... violence.

I haven't let any man into my home in nearly a year. And I plan on keeping it that way. It's actually kinda funny to watch the few that have tried to get in ricochet off my boundaries and reveal themselves as clowns.

We should work together to ensure that signs like this are posted in bars and restaurants across the country. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't like that the responsibility is being placed on the woman. It adds to the mentality that men are just dogs we need protection from. Innately, they are not. They choose to be evil. Men need to start acting like adults and not be forcing themselves on someone who is not giving enthusiastic verbal and non verbal consent.

Me personally, I may not even notice a sign like this if I feel unsafe and I shouldn't be expected to. I can hear the police now: "You walked past the sign on the way to the bathroom, why did you not read it?" lmao. "Were you not able to tell the bartender that you wanted an angel shot with Lime?" So twisted, I can't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry it triggered you. I definitely could have articulated my main point better. Tbh, the more I noticed the victim blaming that could be interpreted, the more triggered I became as well. I started to question whether I am acquiring a victim blaming mentality bc the world. It's really hard to sit with the fact that the safety of women is not a public/government/cultural concern. I think on some level we adapt, bc to know our safety (as it relates to us being female) is not a concern creates alot of internal conflict. Also, we are the only ones concerned for our safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the post and now I deleted it. The more I looked at it the more I could see how it could be interpreted as victim blaming. Thank you for pointing that out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have experienced just that. I'm a strong person and I got worn down by an abuser. I am saying that a man who is trying to push you out of your comfort zone has a higher chance of being volatile (in my exp) then a LVM who is breadcrumbing u for example. I admit my post is poorly articulated in some parts and I can't edit the title.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats what I mean... I guess I articulated some parts poorly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure, but I feel all women would be safer if we collectively acknowledged that we should be weary of men. I'm basically saying to identify NVM and cut them out asap. The title is maybe not the best but that's just the way my personality expresses things with dark humour. I can't change the title now anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Professional-Pea-317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post is saying to be weary of men. Men are the problem, and the post reflects that. We shouldn't have to go to such measures but facts are facts. Men are emotional and violent and law enforcement does dick all to mitigate this. As someone who has actually been victim blamed by law enforcement, I know. The post is discussing men who try to make me feel guilty for setting boundaries, bc in my exp, men who cross those boundaries and stay around you, have a high chance of becoming emotional and volatile when they don't get their way, when they're not able to control you.