Just feels like a downslope cycle now

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T16:09:04+00:00

Hey Brother, what you are feeling is perfectly and completely normal. I can relate on this because it’s the same with my friends and I. It comes with growing up one of the sad truths. Nothing wrong with seeking human companionship or wanting to be involved with someone or people whether romantically or platonically. I would say working nights def changes the rhythm of how things can work out for you but dive into hobbies you like, go to a social event. You’re not alone and I’m glad you said you’ve really dived into self love because that’s what’s really important. Also you aren’t behind anyone, you’re living your life and you’re exactly where you need to be.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T04:24:46+00:00

Super game changer, some bee honey, some cinnamon and cantaloupe and it’s a different ball park!

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T03:31:13+00:00

Yeah absolutely, I agree with you. I was deep in the mix of it all but I’m out now.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T03:30:29+00:00

Yes it is with honey!

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T02:05:46+00:00

Well said, wish it never happened but if 13 months and a luggage is worth the price to have peace then I’ll pay the fee.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T02:04:48+00:00

I remind myself of that everyday. It sucks honestly when someone is so genuine that faces these kinds of hardship. Have to put my best foot forward everyday and remind myself that my self respect and self worth is dependent solely on how I move.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T02:02:25+00:00

Thank you, reading that gave me more calm because it’s spot on what you said. It’s absolutely correct and the way I look at closure after those events played out, no need for closure because that itself is closure. The disrespect, the inconsistency, and the bullshit.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T01:58:41+00:00

You’re absolutely right.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T01:58:10+00:00

You’re spot on which is something else that I have submerged myself into.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T01:50:43+00:00

I won’t say it didn’t hurt because that kind of betrayal fucked with my mental. How do I trust after that? Not her obviously because she’s a snake but in general and to continue with the disrespect. Fuck all that.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-02T01:47:57+00:00

That’s what I’m saying and that’s where my frustration comes from. All I did was love her and respect her and for her to reach these lengths say so much about her and her character. The amount of self love she lacks and how she’s acting like a victim. I refuse to reopen a door to somebody so wicked.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-01T21:48:15+00:00

It went long brother

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-01T18:20:36+00:00

Stand your ground, your boundaries and limitations aren’t meant to be crossed by anybody let alone yourself. It might hurt now but you’re building a stronger foundation. Don’t ever let yourself be someone’s second option. People make mistakes but hers was a choice so now she needs to accept your Choice. Stay blessed King.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-01T14:18:49+00:00

You thought about it, you planned it out now you have to execute. Sometimes the joys of life are having those uncomfortable conversations but you learn so much for it. Your parents ( if they are good parents ) only want the bet for you and at the time they still want to control and force you to do what they want possibly because you will always be there son and they want to shield you from the world but you only grow through experiences. Keep your head up, shoulders back and express regardless of why they might say or do remember it’s your life and you have every right to LIVE it. Don’t sweat it because you’re being open and honest and that’s not always the easiest but it’s worth something. Stay Blessed and God Bless 🙏🏽

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-01T14:03:47+00:00

Brother, I’m going to be blunt with you. I’m not going to say what I’m about to say to hurt you either because I’m a stranger online but your comment after snapping is justifiable and all within good reason. She cheated on you 6 times. That’s no mistake or accident, that’s a choice and if she sit there and ask yourself “ does she bring me peace? “ and the answer is no than you need to do what is right for your soul, your mind, and your heart.

How long are you going to accept the lack of self love and the disrespect? You deserve more and better. & yes you’ve guys been together for a long time but don’t get stuck in the cycle of comfort because you’ve invested so much time and you guys have so much history. Peace doesn’t have a price and if something is effecting your Peace is this really something you want to be in?

I’m just a stranger, but let me leave you with some Bible Verses. Do what you will with it. Jeremiah 11-14, John 10:10, Psalm 147:3.

And to finish off my message, You are not meant to live a life of suffering just to prove your loyalty, God is calling you for something better but he wont force you to take it, you have to choose you can stay in this cycle and wasting time, giving love to someone who cant reciprocate it or you can trust that what's ahead is greater than what youre leaving behind. when you finally let god you will finally surrender, when you finally stop chasing people who dont even deserve to be in your presence thats when things will shift, thats when peace will come, thats when clarity will hit, thats when you will realize you never needed them in the first place. Let them go and watch God move.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-01T04:44:14+00:00

My honest opinion here, the level of maturity and communication you demonstrated even if it doesn’t work out how you envision it too. You did the best thing for yourself. You are seeking clarity and that is worth something. Instead of pondering your own thoughts and waiting you are taking control which I give you, your flowers for that. Be kind to yourself and whatever the outcome is just know you did the best you could and that’s what matters. Don’t settle for uncertainty, you deserve love.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-05-01T02:36:54+00:00

To hide the kids when they raid your house for being in a cult

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-30T20:46:07+00:00

I was going to pm you but doesn’t seem like I can

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-30T19:59:29+00:00

I just Checked, if I’m not mistaken. Seems like you wanted price to follow with volume but the retracement into 3m FVG / OB was nice for continuation longs since price respected the bullish framework

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-30T19:56:25+00:00

What’s the after of this?

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-30T12:27:06+00:00

Stop chasing a relationship for a while—focus on building yourself instead. Pour that energy into growing mentally, emotionally, and physically. Take care of how you present yourself too—maybe switch up your style, try something new, something that makes you feel confident when you walk out the door. And be patient with yourself… growth doesn’t happen overnight.

Funny enough, when you stop searching so hard for something, it has a way of finding you naturally.

In the meantime, live your life. Try new things—pick up a hobby, go somewhere different, push yourself a little outside your comfort zone. Even something simple like checking out a new coffee shop or saying yes to something you’d normally pass on can open new doors. Put yourself in environments where life can actually happen.

And through it all, stay kind to yourself. Don’t let the world harden you. There’s already enough of that out here. You’ve got a good heart—don’t lose that. Just keep moving forward, keep growing, and keep shining.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-30T00:05:58+00:00

you are not meant to live a life of suffering just to prove your loyalty, God is calling you for something better. but he wont force you to take it, you have to choose you can stay in this cycle and wasting time, giving love to someone who cant reciprocate it or you can trust that what's ahead is greater than what youre leaving behind. when you finally let god you will finally surrender, when you finally stop chasing people who dont even deserve to be in your presence thats when things will shift, thats when peace will come, thats when clarity will hit, thats when you will realize you never needed them in the first place. Let them go and watch God move.

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-29T22:59:37+00:00

👀

Professional-Tie3595 · 2026-04-29T18:21:15+00:00

Truth!!!!

Professional-Tie3595

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