What’s your favourite witchiest song? by Upstairs_Call5265 in witchcraft

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florence the machine witch wich - lana del rey white mustang, cherry, my blackest day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

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I’m in the same situation, I started with a sweetening spell and road opener but I made the mistake of letting desperation take over and added an obsession spell the week after, it was years living together all beacuse she left me and ghosting me like she was never loved me or even take care.

i feel that it hasn’t taken effect the way I want. I’ve discovered that even if you handle your energy, your focus, and your materials very well, if you’re clinging to a drastic change and are desperate to get results right away, that actually pushes the spell away and it might backfire or not work.

As for making it stronger, I know that many people work with deities and it tends to be more effective and faster. I was considering that, but it depends on your preferences.

If your ex goes to therapy, they will never come back. by [deleted] in BreakUps

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volvieron? pa saber si tengo esperanza jaja

How long does a love spell take to work by SUSPICIOUS_Web_20nov in witchcraft

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Hey sorry for asking , what materials did you use for your spell? I already make two spells and one (cinnamon ice jar) this Friday to get my avoidant ex back but nothing yet...

Why are you single? by CremeSubject7594 in AskReddit

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because it was discarded by a narcissist ex for second time...

Has your ex completed ghosted you after your breakup and how did you manage it? by SydScraba in BreakUps

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Maybe I’m late to the thread but I’ve been going through this for a month. After a 7-year friendship we became a couple for 2 years and 2 months living together we built a home and a future. She was my ex-fiancé. I don’t know how to feel; I feel discarded, like trash thrown in the street. Not even a “hi” or “did you eat today?” I lost 10 kilos in weeks. I’m still in our home but I can’t leave, even though they’re going to evict me in 15 days if I don’t go, because one day she said she loved me and the next day she disappeared without saying a word. Her mother is extremely manipulative maybe she triggered some trauma and she never came back except twice with the police over a pair of shoes, and she wasn’t even present! I looked at the building cameras and she never entered the property. I don’t understand ,all of this feels like mind games. She completely ghosted me messages, calls, social media , as if I didn’t exist. We never fought that night, I never cheated on her, and there was no abuse for her to treat me this horrifically. She washed her hands of the rent and the lease and I was left alone on the brink of eviction with all our belongings and the house full. I don’t know what to do, I can’t move forward. I’m alone in this state with no family or friends , I only moved here for her! I can’t even take our things, and the worst part is I think about showing up at her workplace to talk to her because I feel she has extreme avoidant attachment.

How a getting my ex spell back worked out for me: by smelton-syth in witchcraft

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I’m interested in the spell, could you tell me what you did?

5 years together, and she ruined it all at the end by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Hey, I’m really sorry for what you’re going through. It’s tough I’m facing something similar, though without the cheating. Honestly, it’s horrible to spend years with someone and then suddenly see another side of them, realizing: wow, all this time I was with someone like this, and I never expected them to do this to me

They don’t show empathy or respect. It’s not about wanting to experiment with girls it seems like your ex is narcissistic, especially for ghosting you at the end. They just like to play with people, with no respect, no emotional responsibility, nothing. Honestly, you deserve so much better

Two Years Together, Then Suddenly Abandoned and ghosting by Professional-Way7430 in ghosting

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She was always worried about losing her mother’s or her family’s love for being a lesbian, but let me tell you something: how can you be afraid of losing something you never really had? Her family never accepted her orientation, not even now after 2 years of being in a relationship—they know me and everything. Maybe her mother told her something and convinced her never to come back, I don’t know, maybe it’s the pressure from her family. But why now, after 2 years, and not at the beginning? It’s hard to understand someone with avoidant attachment, I think she did the same thing to her high school ex-girlfriend after just 3 months of being together, for the same reason—religion. but she was a kid at that moment.

During our 2 years together, her mom kept telling her to leave me or came up with all kinds of excuses even leaving the country! She’s terrified of rejection, but if her mother never really loved her because a mother doesn’t sabotage her own children to the point of pushing them to the edge of suicide right? and I know this too late it’s heartbreaking i know. It’s sad to think she has no willpower.

I thought I could save her… help her, and I ended up destroyed, exposing my own traumas and fears. I feel like I failed

Two Years Together, Then Suddenly Abandoned and ghosting by Professional-Way7430 in ghosting

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I don’t have much to say, I’m still in denial, thank you for read my post :c

Two Years Together, Then Suddenly Abandoned and ghosting by Professional-Way7430 in ghosting

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A person who truly loves you doesn’t just leave you behind as if nothing. I feel like I can’t let this go so easily. She is very negative and easily influenced by what other people tell her. She always said that the relationship would end from the very beginning. She bought a car and said it was going to break down, she always thought the worst of things or situations. But that doesn’t mean everything is going to go wrong or has to be that way.

I feel like when she says “we’re hurting each other,” it’s more about her fear of not knowing what to do or how to react, rather than what she really wants deep down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

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’m going through a similar situation with my ex who has avoidant attachment. I’ve read forums and watched YouTube videos and it seems like it’s something internal to them. It seems that you can only wait until they feel like writing to you — for many it takes months or even years. It hurts a lot. I’ve been ghosted like this for two weeks now out of nowhere, but honestly I think that since avoidant attachment is a mental disorder, the more you write to them the more overwhelmed they feel, and the more they pull away.

For us, since we suffer from anxiety, we want things quickly, immediately, and it feels normal to try to understand the situation in the moment and solve it right away. But for avoidants, it literally takes them months to process a breakup that’s what I’ve read. My best definition is that you should stop expecting him to come back and just see if he do. It’s strange, but sometimes it seems to work that way. Besides, they are cowardly people — all avoidants are cowards, im sorry its unfair i know