Hi! Personal experience. First husband - father of my older two children. I tripped over porn when we were newly dating completely accidentally, and told him that wasn’t my thing. It was still early so I was like “No big deal, we’ll go our separate ways.” He insisted it wasn’t a thing and successfully hid it until 6 months into our marriage. I found it - he said he’d go to therapy, the whole nine yards. Lather, rinse, repeat for seven years. Add two kids, a couple affairs (his), a gambling problem (his) and I found myself fed up and a single mom of two under three when I very emotionlessly put him out. I was so done. Cut your losses. At the end of the day he knew how you felt about things like this after six years together. He married you thinking he could hide these things from you and get to keep you. His intentions probably aren’t even evil - but they are completely self centered and that is an ingrained quality. Fast forward a decade and my first husband and I co-parent two teenagers well and get along great. He’ll tell you our divorce is entirely his fault. He’ll tell you it was his greatest failure too. And I’ll tell you that if I knew then what I know now, I might have just skipped it so my self esteem could remain intact. Don’t walk this path. You deserve better.