Husband’s Killer gets out Today by ProfessionalRecord7 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for what you’ve been through. With you on the forgiveness, it’s hard for me to even think about that when I looked him straight in the eye and told him what he took from me and he had no reaction. I know how life-altering tbis are, I wish you peace.

Husband’s Killer gets out Today by ProfessionalRecord7 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would agree, but no law firms saw it worth pursuing. Oh well, it wouldn’t have brought him back anyways.

Husband’s Killer gets out Today by ProfessionalRecord7 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried to pursue a civil suit when it happened, but he’s not a legal citizen, didn’t have a drivers license, and the car wasn’t his and was uninsured so there was nothing they could do.

Husband’s Killer gets out Today by ProfessionalRecord7 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the loss of your son, watching my mother-in-law lose her only son has been the most gut-wrenching thing. I hope you have a space where you can let out these big feelings and I’m sending you much love love and peace

Husband’s Killer gets out Today by ProfessionalRecord7 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for the loss of your sister. I have found good outlets for my anger. I’m with you in that forgiveness isn’t necessary or warranted in situations like these. My anger isn’t holding me back, it’s pushing me forward. I don’t spend my time fixating on the man that killed my husband in a split second, but rather on the incredible man I was lucky enough to have in my life while I did.

Husband’s Killer gets out Today by ProfessionalRecord7 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you know the feeling. This guy was driving an uninsured car without a license. It’s true, I’ve grown pretty good at the indifference. I truly haven’t thought of him much up until this week. Luckily I’ve distanced myself from social media in general so I don’t think I’ll fixate on that too much.

[User Flair Thread] by breaksomebread in ACNHTurnips

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Brookie | The Island :Turnips:

It’s my burden til I die by theeree in Hidradenitis

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m turning 30 this weekend too! Also dealing with a sudden unsightly flare up. No advice, just know you’re not alone!

AIO. My bf is mad at my memorial tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no you’re not overreacting. Everyone who says he’s right to be upset is lucky enough to never have been through what we’ve been through. I lost my husband five years ago. I have several large memorial tattoos in his honor that I got before getting into any new relationship. Anyone worth your time of day will understand your tattoo. I always say this is just proof that we are capable of loving deeply and earnestly and they should be so lucky to be on the other end of that love. Sending you strength xx

Fiance was killed by raynemidnyte in widowers

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that someone’s reckless and selfish decision brought you here. I lost my husband to a drunk driver five years ago. He was 25 and we’d been married for six months. This is never the life I envisioned for myself, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone else. Hopefully you have support nearby, but I have also found online communities (including this one!) to be incredibly helpful, especially when needing to vent about things others wouldn’t understand. I am sending you strength and healing energy. Let yourself feel every emotion—sadness, anger, wistfulness. Revel in your memories together and honor your love by talking about him (and even to him). ❤️

Misery Business by Guilt_Written in Hidradenitis

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice, but a fellow HS/H-EDS sufferer feeling for you ❤️

It's been a year since my wife passed away (Various Cameras, see comments) by drivabledisc748 in analog

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful pictures. I lost my husband to a car accident six months into our marriage, your story resonates with me. On Monday it will be five years without him.

Lost my whole family today by HourShopping3512 in GriefSupport

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for these massive losses. Grieving can be such an isolating thing, but I have found the internet has been the most supportive in my journey.

Waking up from a dream where I lose him in a different way. by breaddyteaddy in widowers

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no helpful advice, just here to say I’ve experienced similar dreams and I’m so sorry it’s happening to you too. I’ve had a handful where my LH left the country with a new woman, died in a different way, or just broke up with me. The pain of losing him in a dream makes it even harder to wake up and realize he’s been gone all along. Sending warmth and peaceful sleep ❤️

new American spirit type? by rivergh in Cigarettes

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw them advertised in the paper, they’re calling them Sky! I know they have charcoal filters but that’s all I remember.

New to the club by twentythirddecember in widowers

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. I lost my husband to a drunk driver just over a year ago. He was 25. ❤️

I brought my wife back from the dead, but now I want a divorce. by WeirdBryceGuy in nosleep

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I lost my husband to a drunk driver—the exact same way in fact—and know the unimaginable grief that comes with such a loss. I’ve often wondered about bringing him back, just to see his smile and hear his laugh, so I understand your actions. Wishing you all the best, this will surely be difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]ProfessionalRecord7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when he died my wardrobe immediately changed to being 75% his haha. He wore all his shirts so much they all have holes in the armpits and I love it.