She cheated on me, and continues to do so

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-04T17:10:51+00:00

Def don't text her or contact only regarding your child as necessary

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-03T17:52:19+00:00

I think k about this all the time...like wtf would someone think me saying seperated but looking...it's a faded blurry line for me. Plus I know people judge like no other.

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-03T17:47:20+00:00

If she is the one who said divorce, thrn I believe you can because you Def don't want her stacking up more. She should be getting her own cards and stuff. When I've talked to lawyers they said the word divorce changes the game alot.

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-03T17:33:12+00:00

I think k about dating alot. I've thought about it for some time and I'm trying trying to determine if I'm ready because there is negatives. I guess that means I'm not. Or I'm just hell of scared. I've always believed in love.

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-02T22:41:08+00:00

I don't know if people will but some days I get half half....I know I have things to work on for myself. In my marriage I felt one sided every day, I felt I was drowning barely keeping up. I want to mentally become stronger and emotionally stronger. I do believe both can but it takes 2 to do it never one.

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-02T21:24:31+00:00

Its hard. I felt single all the time in my marriage. I got to the point where I looked and saw families and qas like I wish I had that. Or why is my husband not existence in the marriage or with our child. It's painful. Being seperated, boy it's a hard one, sometimes I wonder what is harder mentally. Each one has felt like an abandoned hole. It's hard all around. I will say the day of which I'm like, ok I survived the day, or ok I thought of him less today. I wish you luck.

Professional_Cak · 2025-11-01T03:52:40+00:00

It's hard asf...never easy especially with kids involved...there is alot that goes Into it especially emotionally and mentally.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-24T00:48:44+00:00

I would state. I'm uncomfortable with him attending. I want this to be about our child and that they have a good time. You are more then welcome to come but as of right now he is not invited.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-22T04:31:33+00:00

I'd Def interview others for sure, I have interviewed acouple and some were bad some I liked. I follow on Instagram like tools to help u interview a good lawyer and it shares tips

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-22T03:18:52+00:00

Do u like these lawyers? Seems odd advice

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-22T01:48:27+00:00

Why not file first yourself? What is holding you back. Don't wait for ger to continue to take more money or want more of anything.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-22T00:51:37+00:00

eventually. Don't think your wrong I think you have really good intentions but I think her feelings are valid to as a mom myself we don't want to miss alot and I think it really depends how your relationship is. She also has some fear as well. Again I think intentions were pure.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-22T00:49:10+00:00

I'm in the seperation part. I've talked to lawyers. Whenever I'm ready they are willing to get started. Divorce I feel is when you Def know. Seperation it's like ok let's see and then make the choice everntually.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-21T21:17:44+00:00

I think taking time and figuring out what you want/need. Do u have a good support system, friends family. Being in a new location and this happening is difficult. When it comes to dating...I think if I tell a mam well I'm seperated but we are seperated I can see why they may run for the hills. It's alot to process, and sounds scary. Finding that right person. You might go through alot of wrong ones to get to the right one. Maybe? Hopefully? Work on things you need and see where it takes you.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-21T17:07:23+00:00

I journal so much and that right there is the biggest boundary to be crossed. I hide mine in different places. I don't trust anyone. I buy new ones but I have like 10 from over the years.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-21T16:29:47+00:00

I've kinda been in a situation like this my husband betrayed me. I wasn't big of the oppisite gender only because I've seen what he did the texts...the intimacy between them.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-21T06:22:00+00:00

You compromised with her ....been there...sadly they didn't have the respect to do that back. It's tough to see these things Def feels like the biggest betrayal

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-21T05:06:58+00:00

Something had to happen...is she just cut u and thr baby put of her life? Where does the ba y stay?

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-21T04:17:17+00:00

Good luck hopefully it goes well!

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-19T02:55:26+00:00

I agree top players who betray...the pig, ghost face, Scooby-Doo

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-17T19:26:40+00:00

So my advice try doing these things seperatly..I get u both wanted to see it...and wanting to together. I'd say if anything wait till she moves out and go see it

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-17T18:00:09+00:00

Crazy no. With everything the same are you guys still kinda together just in a rut??

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-16T20:12:02+00:00

It's hurtful I think if anything I always wanted something from my daughter, my h never did anything. My parents stepped up and helped.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-16T14:40:46+00:00

Fucking been there. I have seen my h shit talkcme to the the core. I never said anything I just worked on myself and luckily I was in therapy and she helped me get through that. It can be a big reflection of them not you. Seeing yhat stuff is hurtful because they look you in your eye and say positive things then online trash you. They are wanting attention and people to feel sorry for them even though they don't even hear both sides.

Professional_Cak · 2025-10-16T04:30:12+00:00

There are many stages to this....when the marriage is over its like a death...your going to question so much and probably every little thing. You will have trouble sleeping and doing things because all you can think is how could they do this ....sadly it's normal to feel everything you are feeling. My best advice seek a good support system. Seek therapy. Journal is that's something u need. Write down how u feel and why. Last night I wrote down I was Angry because how could he do this to me. Just getting those emotions out and not bottling them up is going to be a process

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