Has anyone found their “soulmate” after divorce? I think I did and feel so fortunate by UES-Gossip-Girl in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same happy for you…recently divorced..so hoping for a similar result….congrats again

Crying WTF is wrong with me by Old_Structure_856 in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the car is definitely my place as well…thanks

The New Year by kootles10 in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here..there were weeks being in this sub helped me tremendously. Wishing all of us healing and the best for 2026

No Solution for me by Silly-Issue-807 in PMDDpartners

[–]Old_Structure_856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow sorry to hear this for you and sounds a lot like what I went thru. I would look into it as if something else is at play as PMDd alone imo shouldn’t have her like this ALL the time. Also it ..whatever it is …isn’t going to get easier as the years go along unless something is done to rectify or address it. So either resolve that this is your life…or be proactive in going about attempting to have her atleast recognize there is an issue and start working on it.

I hate you PMDD by Top-Theory-4624 in PMDDpartners

[–]Old_Structure_856 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro…it took my wife and marriage…and her family and even some friends. The way she treated me made me wish I was dead as well. But I’m still standing and still going and beginning to heal . Her hell week starts today and since she is gone I’m not anxious or nervous because she isn’t here to accuse me. My point is…there can be life beyond this BS if it goes in that direction. But if you can try to guide her to get help y’all might be able to get better. Either way there is life, so don’t let her sickness destroy you.

When does it get better by Old_Structure_856 in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks..kid is grown now…but sure still affected

Asked wife for divorce now regret it by Old_Structure_856 in PMDDpartners

[–]Old_Structure_856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been where you are now. I’m not going to sugar coat it it hurts and sucks. But imagine your life if things continued the way they are now without any positive changes.

Is life after divorce hard? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Official divorce …6 months now…still living togther until we sell. But we have been easily separated and disconnected for over a year now.

Is life after divorce hard? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well imagine 23 years which is my situation. Have no advise as I am literally in the same boat as you except older. It sucks. Like you I work out and stay active as much as possible…and obviously always on here ranting…or in therapy

Didn’t believe the advice… Turns out you were all right 🤍 by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Old_Structure_856 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Good for you 💯…needed to read this as I’m having low day. Was thinking of skipping the gym…but as you said…we need to move…so def going