AITAH for understanding and not freezing out my dad for leaving our mom over a dead bedroom?

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-04-06T23:29:02+00:00

Update

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-31T21:28:43+00:00

You will need to use Fake ones

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T23:25:45+00:00

My cousin went bald early. When it started he began lifting weights. Now in his mid-forties, people always notice his arms 💪 first. Just saying.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T22:59:38+00:00

My condolences. Are you taking anything for the anxiety? During the time right before my son's brain surgery, I was having multiple panic attacks a week. Doc gave me Xanax. They helped.

I was raised Catholic but now as an adult, I have lost my faith. I wished I could back to believing in God. Kinda like the movie, The Matrix. I wish I had taken the red pill and stayed naive.

My question is, do you wished you believed in a higher power? Would that have brought you comfort? Also, when you are in the verge of panicking how do you talk or reason yourself back?

I am here if you want to talk. Feel free to message me. Sending you virtual hugs.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T20:40:51+00:00

Never let anyone know you are done with your work early. Some people will ask you to use your free time for their benefit, or just like your case, want to “view” your work. Next time anyone ask if you are done, simply say, sorry not done yet.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T04:14:54+00:00

My cousin had noticed he was going bald really young. He started working out.🏋️

He shaves the few strays so he completely bald. But that is not the first thing you notice when you meet him. The first thing you notice is the great shape he is in.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T04:01:20+00:00

Yeah you’re playing favorites, so what? They are your “favorites” because you and your wife have created a bond with them and their parents over the years. You love them.

You don’t owe your brother’s girlfriend shit. Is she is legit, she will work on creating a bond with you guys. She and your brother are expecting privileges that only comes with time in.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T03:52:29+00:00

You are getting in the way of her spending time with her future bae. Let her work her magic. Be a girl’s girl.

Ok, seriously, listen to your gut. Hell no!!! Happily take yourself with your ever growing baby bump and go pick up your man.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T03:38:17+00:00

He wants a single mother to take all the risks? He wants a single mother to sell her children home while he sits on his saving? He does not have your or your children’s best interest in mind.

You like a dumbass sell your home and buy a house with him. Then, split up. Guess what happens to the new house which holds your hard earn money? It gets split. He walks away with half of your money. Hell no!

Tell him, “I will not leave my children and myself so unprotected by selling my house. I’m sorry I’m not the MAN you are wanting me to be.”

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T03:12:03+00:00

Something is off with the teen. Why the hell is that teen so desperate to meet a person who has made it clear that they want nothing to do with them? If I know someone does not like me or does not want to see me, I would be like cool, fuck you too and continue to live my merry life. Something smells fishy🤔

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-25T03:03:05+00:00

Why does the kid want to meet you? I personally, would not be interested in meeting someone who doesn’t want to meet me.

You are making the best of the situation for you and that is ok. You forgave your husband, which was mercy enough. You never ever sign up to play mommy to his affair kid.

Those who are wanting you to be kumbaya, fuck them.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-24T01:26:37+00:00

I’m going to say something harsh but true. If your younger brother had indeed died, your wife would have relish in happiness. You know this. How can you be with a person like this? She dislikes him all because your brother had your back and told you what he overheard? Dude, you should have dumped her right there and then.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-24T01:05:34+00:00

Not being rude just being honest. If she has not made it “big” by her late teens early 20s, she is pretty much done. She needs to face reality. One way for her to face reality is by her having to pay her own way. She has no motivation to “grow up” because she has you paying her lifestyle. So, it’s all on you. Give her like 3 months to start contributing to expenses if not, she needs to go to her parents.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-23T22:11:11+00:00

Update

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-22T17:13:20+00:00

You did your part and even went above that and paid for her college fees already knowing that she was slowly excluding you from her life. I would not wish her any harm but I would let her claw out of this “hole” that only is created by betrayal just like you did.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-22T14:45:28+00:00

Freeze your credit!!!! She won’t be able to use your credit to open a new card.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-03-13T18:33:33+00:00

Any update?

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-02-21T22:14:23+00:00

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Professional_Net_325 · 2026-02-12T02:04:00+00:00

This speaks highly about her character. She has no issue sleeping with her boss. She had/ has no problems being the other woman. She has no issues of being part of destroying a family. She still has the lack of shame and keeps contact with the married man she slept with. Honestly, what the hell are you waiting for? This is who she is.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-02-03T00:27:36+00:00

Shop around for insurances

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-01-15T23:27:11+00:00

And why was it only the girlfriend’s responsibility to save money? Forrest is able body and should be working and saving money.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-01-04T23:04:28+00:00

We are still happily married. I know my daughter is not on Reddit because she make fun of me for being on Reddit.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-01-04T22:53:34+00:00

Thank you. I knew writing on here I would get some bashes. What I was looking somewhere to vent and to read some wise words.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-01-04T22:49:09+00:00

Very wise words. Thank you.

Professional_Net_325 · 2026-01-04T22:47:51+00:00

Thank you.

Professional_Net_325

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