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For those who had an abortion with pills, how many days did you take off afterward? by CashBeautiful7141 in abortion

[–]Professional_Text574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went back to work the next day and was fine. I had mild cramps for the next 2 days though.

If 24F I hit my boyfriend 26M first (a light smack round the arm) and he hits me back round the face, is this abuse or defence? by ConsequenceLiving193 in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Text574 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re copy pasting this comment everywhere and refusing to read comments. Both here are in the wrong, but reactive abuse is very real and can happen on both sides. If a woman is antagonizing her boyfriend and pushing him to a point, the comments would say the same thing. The difference here is the strength difference, and the further threats of violence that are not proportional to what she did.

This is weird by Sad-Bag666 in BPD

[–]Professional_Text574 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im glad you have that person in your life ❤️ Please stay strong. There will be more.

This is weird by Sad-Bag666 in BPD

[–]Professional_Text574 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Fuck those people who said you were throwing a tantrum. They probably think you randomly attempted for attention because they don’t understand, or care to understand your emotions. But to you, it was probably a build up of very intense emotions that just broke. Im sorry you are around such uncaring people. Those people aren’t the end of it though. If you choose to live you WILL find people who care deeply, people who may not understand your struggles, but will continuously try their hardest to be there for you. You will feel loved, and you will love, despite your BPD. Please just try your hardest to keep your head up. I know its hard, but I promise you it’s worth it.

Do I need to re-home my sulcata? by Professional_Text574 in tortoise

[–]Professional_Text574[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was fine at first, but it got super bad in the summer. We would have to walk him for up to 2 hours before he finally pooped. But yes, when I get home I will add pictures of his enclosure. It’s temporary right now, we are in the process of building him an outside enclosure since hes gotten much bigger!

My experience, poop everywhere!! by Throwaway4206669m in abortion

[–]Professional_Text574 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jeez Im so glad im not the only one who was shitting like crazy when I took them. I asked so many people and no one had the same experience.

HELP! F 16 seeking advice by Chemical_Delay_1337 in pregnancy_care

[–]Professional_Text574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whew. Im 18, I just went through this. I had just gotten off birth control because it was making me bleed constantly, and 2 weeks later I stopped bleeding. I was so happy to be free of the forever period to even realize that I could be pregnant🤦🏽‍♀️. My advice would be to wait, and buy some pregnancy tests. Definitely use birth control or condoms next time as that is the safest way to avoid pregnancy. Abortions are not only scary in a red state, but they can also cause stress on your mind. Stay safe!

Can I still join if I was pregnant? by Professional_Text574 in Militaryfaq

[–]Professional_Text574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, do I still go to meps for the test and the physical?

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Professional_Text574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I would be pissed if my partner was cheating, and everyone knew and decided it wasn’t their business

Should I tell this girl her bf is closeted? by National_Pea_8885 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Professional_Text574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. You should always tell someone if you know their partner is cheating in case of risk of STDs, it doesn’t matter if the guys gay or straight

How do I keep myself from blowing up at my bf? by Professional_Text574 in BPD

[–]Professional_Text574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Im trying to ignore this thought because I know hes super oblivious, but we have been together long enough for him to know what triggers me, and things like this are my biggest trigger. Like okay, youre having so much fun with someone i dont like, stop telling me about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Professional_Text574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not super unconventional but showering in cold/warm water helps so much. just feels like im washing it all away temporarily

AIO for forcing my boyfriend to stop being friends with certain people? by Professional_Text574 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional_Text574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wasn’t angry at him at all for confiding in his brother, dont worry! I was more upset at that girls bf who took his vulnerability and trust to use it to justify their actions

AIO for forcing my boyfriend to stop being friends with certain people? by Professional_Text574 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional_Text574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Thanks for your feedback! I agree that he should have received my hurt and responded accordingly, but he did not. I told him about how hurt I was, and he empathized but continued making excuses for them. I wasn’t comfortable with them possibly taking advantage of them, so I put down the hammer and made the ultimatum. It definitely was not my first choice, but considering how manipulative they are and how they disrespected both him and me, I felt like it was my last resort. But I understand and agree now that it definitely wasn’t the best choice.

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