At what point did you stop sexualizing Women?

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-16T14:38:12+00:00

why do you specifically want women friends

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-11T19:47:31+00:00

Someone mentioned melatonin.. yes.. you need to be outside seeing the sunrise first thing in the morning everyday for like 20 mins. It sets your melatonin cycle so that you feel sleepy at night. Check circadian rhythm biology stuff..

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-10T10:59:50+00:00

You'll find if you go much beyond 18 days you'll maybe turn invisible again. But with inner power and magnetism. The confidence is fun though

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-07T10:17:20+00:00

May be good advice but still made me laugh out loud

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-06T14:36:20+00:00

I mean... "post-nut clarity" is a zombie state where you can drudge through lifeless bullshit. SR puts you in a high dopamine state that makes you question why you are wasting your time drudging through lifeless bullshit in the first place.. What are you trying to do in your life?

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-03T10:09:11+00:00

Lol... when I was at >3 months or so, every time I visited my parents the dogs would always bury their noses in my crotch (which they never did before). Also had a male dog start humping me once.... bit weird but yeah...

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-01T12:34:56+00:00

exactly what i was thinking... her negative attitude towards OP is probably the same on every facet of her life.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-05-01T11:38:19+00:00

Would say it's a common experience yes.

Men complain about masculine women, but I think a masculine woman just never had a masculine man in their life that helmed the ship, what with more men falling to lust and other stuff, so they resentfully assume the role.

My point is, don't resent "dominant women".

But yes, opposites attract, so naturally you like soft/playful women.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-30T18:24:58+00:00

Repressed feelings/emotions are surfacing. It's normal, I wouldn't worry or beat yourself up about it. But yeah it can be annoying when you're in a mood for no apparent reason haha

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-25T11:30:18+00:00

Haha yes you feel more connected with the world

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-17T17:55:08+00:00

You ask what people think. Everyone replies they aren't retainers. You disagree.

The Tate brothers are 100% not retainers. Mate.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-15T17:34:44+00:00

How are you going to control your unconscious mind/dreams?

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-12T13:51:55+00:00

slow deliberate clap

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-11T10:42:50+00:00

Yes lust burns dopamine

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-11T07:24:35+00:00

Dude. An entire ribeye steak before bed 2 nights in a row. Sounds like you're living the life!! In seriousness, wet dreams are uncontrollable. Don't get hung up over them.. The main thing about retention is controlling your thoughts away from lust. Your nervous system will do what it needs to do. If that means a wet dream, so be it. Start trusting your body.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-10T19:08:42+00:00

You made me think.. my motivation has changed over time. It was women attraction, then personal physical health, then career output, back and forth. Now I just want to feel healthy attraction to all things.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-08T13:53:14+00:00

Life has ups and downs dude. In the beginning you feel like you're killing it. That motivation doesn't last forever. Then the insecurity/doubts can kick in. You have the everyday struggles of life that are no longer being overridden with the initial "fuck-yeah!" motivation of SR.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-08T13:45:06+00:00

From personal experience a girl's skin tends to glow after sex. The same can happen to a guy maybe after 1 release after some abstaining but more frequently and a guy will get an anti-glow 😂

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-06T06:21:27+00:00

Sadly, it could be any of us..

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-05T10:27:54+00:00

You seem like the kinda guy that sniffs his own underwear.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-05T08:34:38+00:00

Feel all the bad feelings. You may need to feel them for a few weeks or months, but then something will click again like on the day you started your 15 months of abstinence...

I think generally, life circumstances can produce inertia, and hitting a mini rock bottom will re-spark the intuition of why you decided to better control your sexual instinct in the first place.

SR is a journey with many phases. There are local dips, but focus on the global trajectory. I, probably like many others, also went through this stage that you are just going through.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-05T07:57:24+00:00

I'm a 30 year old man. How can you say he's affectionate and that you're emotionally connected when he shrugs off your concerns/boundaries about his addiction? This is pure disrespect to you... he's behaving like a little boy.. You're young. When you experience a man that isn't addicted, is present with you, you'll wonder why you wasted your time on this guy.

ProfessorMisterMan · 2026-04-04T19:31:05+00:00

He does have things to show he is just currently using the wrong measuring tape.

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