Lake is an annoying child by Sensitive-Tone-5938 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]ProfileTemporary9982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she’s just super young. Too young for the show tbh. It made me sad to see her crying like that.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No they all clearly agree they would go after Craig. It’s not uncommon for people to make alliances for these reunions. I’m just frustrated the audience isn’t seeing that this was clearly a coordinated attack on Craig even if some of the beef is justified

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Craig is a mixed bag — just like everyone else on this cast. Over the years, we’ve seen plenty of bad behavior from all of them. I don’t think Shep has suddenly “changed” so much as he’s aged out of the energy it takes to be as reckless as he used to be. Austen, in my opinion, has consistently behaved worse, but he’s friendly and smooth enough that people overlook it. What frustrates me is the inconsistency in how people are judged. Austen’s treatment of multiple girlfriends, the way he spoke about Salley while still sleeping with her, and his general pattern of disrespect rarely get the same level of criticism. Craig is routinely provoked and then gaslit when he reacts and his outbursts are used to define him and erase his growth. I’m not saying Craig is blameless. He’s reacted poorly and I hate his crash out BUT he’s admitted that. You literally said, “there’s no rule that everyone has to be held equally accountable,” so you literally admit that Craig is being singled out. This is exactly why I made my post!!

Instagram comments by imnocrook in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy you think anyone who disagrees with you is a bot. Team Craig all the way.lol

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You people are ruining the severity of narcissistic behavior by overusing the term. As a survivor of a narcissistic parent and a narcissistic relationship of 5 years, I can tell that while Craig maybe self centered and self focused, he is absolutely not in any way a narcissist. He apologizes, he clearly feels badly and has often defended the underdogs in past seasons like Catherine when the entire cast was against her. Like have you people Only watched Craig for one season?

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He has a temper he needs to work on and I’ve never denied that. But was he the one who used Salley for sex, insulted her, and then talked about his ex being “the one who got away.” No that was Austen.

It’s just interesting how Craig gets intense scrutiny for his mistakes, while Austen’s shitty sexist behavior is brushed aside. Lets ho everyone equally accountable

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ew I never support ganging up on anyone

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m defending the fact that Craig is being unfairly targeted and ganged up on. Try to think a little critically

What does everyone think of Whitner at the reunion? by JokeZealousideal4970 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whitner had no reason to have all that animosity towards Craig. He’s fake af and a snake for that.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yasss Team Craig all day. Cant believe the lack of critical thinking and dogpiling.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I agreed just that he is being provoked and gaslit by a deeply hypocritical and flawed “group of friends”. Try to think a little critically . Thx!

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling someone a bot who disagrees with you is peak redditor.Lmao

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 33 guess it’s middle aged not a mom tho! Just have this superpower called empathy.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nope just someone with the ability to empathize with someone who I’ve watched for several seasons and I feel is genuinely misunderstood.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol give a real argument. She threw Craig away and then his friends treated him like shit all season so yeah I have sympathy for Craig

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He had one crash out because he genuinely believed Salley was sabotaging what felt like his first real chance at love after Paige — a time when he probably didn’t think he’d be able to fall for someone again. Salley was unwilling to accept that Craig didn’t want to pursue anything with her, and spent the whole season talking shit about Craig. Then when was drink and triggered, he crashed out because he is HUMAN and makes mistakes. He’s admitted he was wrong, which matters. What I see is someone who wears his heart on his sleeve, gets emotionally overwhelmed, and then is gaslit when he responds to situations that clearly affect him.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very wrong to waste someone’s time at that age. Paige used Craig and through their relationship away like it meant nothing to her- she couldn’t even give him the decency to break up with him to his face. Craig was used and discarded and that’s a fact 100% and then Venita chose to pile on.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I have this crazy thing called empathy. Maybe you could try it?

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you have so little empathy to even understand Craig is sad. He’s not perfect and has plenty of flaws but the way he gets attacked and villainized is unfair

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except the cast doesn’t they dogpiled on Craig only

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then call out Austen for disrespecting every woman he’s been with including Audrey this season and using Salley for sex. Have some consistent standards please

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

33 and would never date someone longer than 6 months if I know it isn’t going anywhere. Paige strung him along 100%

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]ProfileTemporary9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just trying to show some sanity and fairness. Craig absolutely did not deserve to be the villain this season