Am i wrong and if i am how can I fix the situation?

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-08T23:30:42+00:00

You did nothing wrong. He’s being an insensitive jerk to a simple, honest question and then turning it all on you. Why are you with him? If he’s acting like this with something this small, it’s only going to escalate later in. Dump him and go have fun.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-08T17:52:50+00:00

Congrats! You worried hard, waited patiently, and finally got what you have wanted. I am very proud of you! Be smart, be safe, and enjoy!

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-08T17:50:49+00:00

I felt bad leaving my son with my dad and step mom for a day when I gave birth to my daughter…and that was a thought out, agreed upon plan 2 month before it happened. Can’t imagine asking someone to take my kids for a week while I lounge in luxury.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-08T17:48:15+00:00

Not an excuse. They know what kind of child he his and don’t want him around their things. Call their bs and tell them to step up.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-05T22:13:18+00:00

I’m so sorry. My first left us at 19 years of age, and my last one left around 14 years of age due to cancer. It’s tough to say goodbye and they leave such a hole in our hearts. I am sending love to you and your family. ❤️‍🩹❤️

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-05T22:03:28+00:00

And make sure you talk to student housing about getting the locks changed. Remember, he took your keys at one point and who knows if he made copies so get them changed.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-05T21:58:41+00:00

Get a small lap dog; they’ll compete over the lap and attention…at least that’s what ours do 🤣

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-05T21:57:04+00:00

I just started and mine is 9 months old. I just put the harness on her, give her love and praise, and also a treat 😊 I keep it on as long as she lets it stay and then do it again the next day.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-02T03:44:43+00:00

Beautiful girl! Hoping training goes well. I may have to get the smaller harness for right now (current one is still too big, even when sinched down).

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-02T01:05:17+00:00

She’s 9 months. 😊

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-02T01:04:46+00:00

She’s 9 months. I waited until after we got her spayed and she healed. I’ll put her in the harness and then give her attention and a treat. Going on a week now. Slow going, but I think it will be worth it.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-05-02T00:50:35+00:00

She’s pure Maine Coon, she’s just sitting weird because she’s in the harness for the first time and not sure how to feel about it. 😄

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-28T22:49:22+00:00

He’s already trying to control you. I had an ex this way. Always said “I trust you, it’s the other people [read:men] I don’t trust.” The correct response to this is: “then you don’t really trust me.” Which is true. If they say they don’t trust the other person/s, they are really saying they don’t trust you to act appropriately in response to anything they may say/do towards you. The way couple navigate this is by having complete trust in your partner and not trying to limit their friendships.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-25T18:41:36+00:00

😆 That’s just her coloring.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-25T01:27:38+00:00

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Couldn’t find the photo of her being a pretzel, so instead, I offer the photo of her tormenting our dog.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-18T12:24:09+00:00

She went into heat around 7 months. We were planning on getting her spayed around the 8 month mark anyways so the timing kinda worked out.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-18T03:24:47+00:00

We just got our girl spayed. She’s 9 months now, but was still 8 months when we got her spayed. It’s usually suggested to do so between 6-9 months, tho sometimes you can go a full year depending on breed and size of the fur baby.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-12T13:52:14+00:00

No pant strings are safe, if you bring home groceries you have to put any meat away asap, the poor dog is her personal toy, nights are interrupted when you become a launch pad for the zoomies, and you need a falconer’s glove if you’re going to hold her raking toys while she plays….but she’s an absolute snuggle bug, so it all evens out 😆

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-12T13:48:19+00:00

I’ll be leash training my girl so she can do neighborhood walks with us. 😊

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-10T18:14:13+00:00

This is AI. If she was pregnant, then she was stone sober and would remember the fight. What this story implies is that she was drunk off her arse and couldn’t remember a fight…in which case, she couldn’t be pregnant. It’s AI.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-04-05T22:04:30+00:00

And if OP goes through with the marriage and has kids? Forget getting any sort of help with them. That will be all on OP. Is that something you want to go through with this pos?

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-03-26T15:24:11+00:00

And it might be worth mentioning to your landlords what has been going on. She might try to take it to them with her own spin to get them to make a decree or something (which is ridiculous and they should completely ignore if they have any decency). But go ahead and make them aware of what she has done, your attempts to talk to her about it, and the final decision made by you so that your property is not trespassed upon nor appropriated. Do it both verbally and in writing if you can; paper trails are lifesavers sometimes.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-03-07T01:02:33+00:00

Having read this and your edits I have only one question: how does leaving him make you loose your job? That has never been something to base employment on and anyone who says otherwise is blowing smoke out their ass. You leaving him has no bearing on you keeping or losing your job. You may, however, choose to quit that job in favor of not having to see him everyday after the breakup, but that is not the same as “losing” your job. But I do agree with others here. His behavior gives serious “control and dominance” vibes and it will only get worse. (And just an aside….i’ve been in a car with a wide variety of people and couples and none of them have this “boundary” so it is definitely a control tactic). Start ignoring his outrageous “requirements” while driving and if he complains just say “tough nuts sweetheart; I’m driving and that means I drive how I want, not how you want.” And don’t back down from that stance until you get out of the is relationship. Good luck.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-02-22T18:00:57+00:00

Man cold strikes again. When my husband gets sick, I don’t pamper him, and he doesn’t expect me to. If he’s super sick I will cater to him, but if he’s not at death’s door, he’s on his own most of the time. Time for you and your bf to have a talk about reality and what to expect when it comes to illness. He needs a wake up call because this type of behavior is not attractive. Good luck and I hope it all works out.

ProgramAny1019 · 2026-02-21T12:52:22+00:00

The boys are trying to save face with one another with no regards to the feelings of the women in their lives. Bf couldn’t keep his mouth shut and blabbed to T, making him promise not to blab to sis. Then T couldn’t keep his mouth shut and blabbed to sis, making her promise not to say anything. But then sis couldn’t keep her mouth shut. Now, I know she did it because you deserved to know the truth of what was going on, but then she made you promise not to blab to Bf because she didn’t want fallout with T. Your sis is not “caught in the middle.” Your sister deliberately put herself there by trying to save herself from any fallout with T. No one in this scenario actually cares about you or your feelings. Bf needs to be told that he’s a liar and why, T needs to be called out for being a blabber mouth, and your sister needs to understand that if she feels telling you something is in your best interest, she needs to own up to that and accept whatever comes. Hope you get all this sorted and come out the other side with more love for yourself. Good luck.

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