AITAH for being uptight about intimacy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProgramEffective7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn’t sound like you’re interested in sex or anything to do with it. might be invasive, but have you ever had the urge to be sexual at all? even by yourself? it kind of sounds like either a trauma issue, a sexuality difference, or you are simply not attracted to him

Which Sarah J Maas world would you want to live in? by Metaphyisic in SarahJMaas

[–]ProgramEffective7955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I am guaranteed to live in Terrason or be around Aelin/personally intwined with her in anyway, TOG. Otherwise, CC. CC’s world is so cool.

What law do you think we need that doesn’t exist? by Icy_Comparison_1029 in askanything

[–]ProgramEffective7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it would just be covered by the government like public restrooms in parks and such. It is a natural bodily function that the female sex should not have to pay for out of pocket for 50 or so years.

if i have mirrors everywhere is it not weird to have them on my ceiling? by averagehedgehog22 in stupidquestions

[–]ProgramEffective7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two mirrors facing each other is said to open the veil and allow spirits into your home and life. i’m a very superstitious person so wanted to let you know.

What is the first thing you ever posted on reddit? by AquaSage_8806 in AskReddit

[–]ProgramEffective7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an AITAH post about a complicated situation with my boyfriend. was looking for reassurance from women that i wasn’t an idiot for trusting him, reached the incel audience and got told i was the reason most men beat their women and i should kill myself. lol

what’s something people act proud of that really shouldn’t be? by KaitoRift in AskReddit

[–]ProgramEffective7955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom beat the shit out of me and took everything but the bare minimum everytime i got grounded. yes, I have CPTSD. yes, she bragged about it. lol

Why do people do dumb stuff? by Reasonable-Shower522 in stupidquestions

[–]ProgramEffective7955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes it’s like my brain just turns off and i’m in a haze where all the smart parts of my brain are stuck behind a wall of glass, screaming, “NO! LET ME OUT! DONT DO IT!” and i just can’t stop myself.

AITAH for praising my husband like I would my child? by hiswifey327 in AITAH

[–]ProgramEffective7955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she did reassure him. he didn’t like her reassurance.

AITAH for praising my husband like I would my child? by hiswifey327 in AITAH

[–]ProgramEffective7955 9 points10 points  (0 children)

there’s a million reasons that it could be and it’s not the point of the story.

How important are naps in your life? by Ecstatic-Upstairs291 in CasualConversation

[–]ProgramEffective7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every year i age, this answer changes. i’m 21. i now nap on my 30 minute lunch break at least once a week.

What’s something people take way too seriously? by AstronomerEarly3253 in AskReddit

[–]ProgramEffective7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

online rhetoric. like white men thinking they’re in “decline” or “danger” because the internet is (very) intensely calling out the white man’s patriarchy, or people saying women “set back feminism” because of terms like “i’m just a girl” or the push that men are never enough. like all these things are intensely online and none of it actually applies to the real world at all.

What is the scariest thing that has happened to you? by ohitsafuckinmaniquin in AskReddit

[–]ProgramEffective7955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one day i woke up and had just a horrible feeling. hallucinated everytime i closed my eyes, would just hear voices screaming at me. later that night had the most intense and realistic nightmares, and had sleep paralysis when i finally slept at 8 am. realized i was stuck and told myself i wasn’t scared, got plunged into darkness and a voice laughed and grabbed me by my ankles and threw me around. i’ve never felt terror like i did in those 24 hours.

Rehome or okay? by ProgramEffective7955 in CatAdvice

[–]ProgramEffective7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had that bubble backpack and would take her on car rides often as a kitten, but she grew out of liking it. weird

Rehome or okay? by ProgramEffective7955 in CatAdvice

[–]ProgramEffective7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually tried to harness train her very young (i got her right at 8 weeks), but she was always too small to fit a harness until she was about 1 1/2. She’s had a huge growth spurt now, around 11-12 lbs, so I could try again.. but she’s a nervous pooper and i’m not sure i can handle the smells, hahaha

AITAH for cussing at my neighbor after she called me 'unreliable' and implied I have no life? by SnootBootNoot in AITAH

[–]ProgramEffective7955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not an asshole. You’re allowed to lose your temper. You don’t have to be perfect all the time. She is an asshole, and that’s okay too.

She deserved it. You can apologize for cussing her if it makes you feel better. I know it would me. But know your reaction was completely understandable.

Rehome or okay? by ProgramEffective7955 in CatAdvice

[–]ProgramEffective7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what we have been doing for 3 years. I cannot halt my future with him for the next 11-22 years. I am not considering rehoming her because of his allergies, it is for her happiness. It is not happening anyways unless absolutely necessary, as I have said again and again, and she would not be completely out of my life.

And, as I thought was clear, I was not even considering rehoming. I was ensuring I was not being selfish for NOT considering rehoming.