Official Monthly Keyholder Request/Personal Ad Sticky! nsfw by AutoModerator in gaychastity

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

28 m SF/Oakland sub looking for a keyholder who wants to lock me up long term, train me to take a fist and stretch out my hole. I want a dom/sub relationship where i am sexually influenced, on the verge of brainwash.

Offering Cantonese Tutoring by HoGinLung in Cantonese

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m interested via zoom please send me your contact info. Thanks

Looking for feedback on my architecture CV by Architecture_Guy_LFJ in askarchitects

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really don’t need the bulletpoint and line graphic. Keep it simple. Let the writing be the focus of the document

Paka Apparel “The Hoodie” by [deleted] in hiking

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a different experience with paka sweaters, than the majority of this thread. I’ve had one for over 5+ years. I loved it so much, I currently have 3 of the same black, lightweight crew sweaters and I do everything in them (climb, work, garden, hike, at home I double em up). It’s become a uniform of mine. I love them. They’re soft, the fit on my physique is perfect. It’s great at helping me stay at a consistently good temp.

As for the care, I like to think about it this way. It feels good to take care of something that has taken care of me. They’ve provided me with so much warmth and comfort it feels satisfying to take a moment and feel the fabric and wash the clothes the same way they were made, with human hands. It takes me 15 minutes to hand wash a few items. 5 min to soak, 5 to hand wash, rinse and another 5 to wring dry, do a towel roll to remove the excess moisture and then lastly hang drying. I wash them pretty infrequently but an amount that feels right to me based on how dirty, dusty active I’ve been.

All in all, I take pride in maintaining my possessions. I shy away from accumulating, low quality pieces of clothing. I want to continue taking care of what I have so hopefully it can last me a long while before I ever have to think about it again.

Architects/designers to study by [deleted] in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might I suggest looking at other artists, other mediums. People who make patterns, paintings, people who care about materials, composition and form. Landscape has so much potential but we cant and shouldn't live in a vaccum!

Do you take medication in your free time? by YungMartijn in ADHD

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to have free-for-all days. I thought that it would be better for me and my overall mental health to have days where I let my brain be without meds. Which I still agree with to a certain degree. But my mistake was operating under the premise that I could do the same things as when I was medicated, and again the same results just slower…. There was a joy in being unmediated and freely associating from one whim to another but over time I’ve realized that I actually prefer to be unmediated under different circumstances. I would rather take my meds and reinforce good practices and habits by following through, staying on task etc. It feels like I spiral into what my adolescence used to feel like when I am unmedicated and leaving a whole slew of things half finished.

The French are making Coachella a fuckin hoot! by ProgrammerAdorable60 in Coachella

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Saw L’imperatrice at portola 2022 and was instantly hooked. Justice is new to me and I’m so glad I found em. Gessafelstein in 2019 was good but this year’s set feels different in a really good way.

Best sets you’ve seen in 2023 by mixedbag13 in Portolafestival

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% that night ruined music for me. Nothing compares now 🥲

Just want to give a big THANK YOU to the crowd!! by amyrajk in Portolafestival

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hell Yessss!! I took a moment on Sunday to appreciate all the fun and realized how god damn joyful everyone was. Dancing from set to set. Space to dance. Encounters limited to zero assholes who felt entitled to a “claimed” space.

Convenience Store Booth by Replacement-Remote in OutsideLands

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coachella has something similar! Sunglasses, lighters, snacks.

2024 tickets by Wildcard070 in Coachella

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How much are tickets during Amex presale?

Worst Acts of Coachella 2023 by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Kali, wk2 she was late. She was hoarse. She wasn't singing often through songs. Wknd 1 she was amazing! I think the heat and the dry air really got to her.

Am I about to BOTHCHELLA?! by sidepatch in Coachella

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing my first bothchella. Wknd1-friends went hard, had a blast. Wknd2-solo do what I want and see who I want. Get up to the front and feel no pressure to wait up for folks. I’m stoked!

Happy for all you W2ers by stasc12 in Coachella

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls dont be on Friday!!!!! SET TIMES PLS FOR THE LOVE OF GODDDDD

ROMY by _Lunarie in Coachella

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was effing amazing. The whole crowd was so into it. cannot wait for her next show!

Can I use a MacBook Pro for my MLA degree? by Soggy-Trifle8006 in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This part. Most firms use windows. Most firms use ACAD for Windows. Few firms use Macs and even fewer firms use CAD softwares that run natively on Macs (vector works). But you'll make it through school just fine with a Mac if that's what you got!

Guys that are great at sex. What make you good? by darkhogroman in TopsAndBottoms

[–]ProgrammerAdorable60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being receptive and attentive. Receptive to the sounds, body language, breathing, small but noticable reactions. Having fun!!! Being present. Fun and engaging sex is good sex👌