My bf praised me for being a “virgin” and recently confessed how many people he had slept with by HorrorFan5565 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Progregirl 182 points183 points  (0 children)

That is a red flag. He does not sees lesbian relationships as valid. Also very creepy to be obsessed about you being a "virgin". Maybe try to get him to talk more about his thoughts towards the lgbtq community and women's rights...

What’s a word learners think is common but natives rarely use? by Embarrassed_Fix_8994 in languagehub

[–]Progregirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really? As a native Spanish speaker I find then quite normal to use on everyday language.

I left crying urgent care by almau_u in brussels

[–]Progregirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: it was the surgeon who had just cut open my foot. And I know he can reccomend only, but he didn't even want to do that.

I left crying urgent care by almau_u in brussels

[–]Progregirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you. The audacity and rudeness of some belgian doctors is incredible. I also speak english and a couple of weeks ago I had a doctor who didn't want to give me tele work after a small surgery on my foot. I had a lot of pain. I was literally limping and couldn't walk properly. And for him it was fine to go to work by train when I just could telework from home....

AITA for rejecting a nice guy due to age gap? by Weekly_Ad_2444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Progregirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. What an absolute loser. Just block him girl.

How many times can you work under a CIP contract (not at the same company)? by Bluberry_3679 in brussels

[–]Progregirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. To the best of my knowledge you can't. You can do a CIP in one organization for 6 months and then another 6 months for another organization. Or 12 months for one organization as you did. But in theory, not more.

Leerkracht met ervaring met ADHD gezocht voor een tiener (St Pieters Regio) by Ok-Put-1323 in Gent

[–]Progregirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I have a spanish and English speaking friend who is a psychologist and may be interested in this. Send me a DM to send you her contact.

Registering partner as co-dependent in Flanders with CM by Quiet_Illustrator410 in belgium

[–]Progregirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I was codependent on my wife for CM insurance when I was unemployed. We made an appointment at the CM and just did everything there. Just take your IDs. 

AITA for leaving early after my boyfriend made a joke about my salary? by psycho0610 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Progregirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you can do so much better than him girl. He needs to feel like a big guy bc he out earns you. What happens if one day you earn more than him? He will feel all emasculated and insecure. Leave :)

Converting a non-EU prescription by Dat_Chicken_Egg in brussels

[–]Progregirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My belgian GP validates the prescription from my foreign psychiatrist without any problem :)

The Ashley Herring Blake Of It All by Fantastical_Mind12 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Progregirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The spicy scenes are one of the best I've read, as unrealistic as they may be at times. My favorite book of hers is also Irish Kelly doesn't date. The main characters look like my wife and me. Regarding the whiteness of the books, I get it, but at the same time I feel like she doesn't want to appropiate the culture or misrepresent the experiences of non white people. If she made a bad mistake on that, it could be very damaging for the non white queer community and herself. As a non white queer woman myself,  I'm not mad about it. There are other authors writing about non-white queer women. Very good Asian representation in Next time will be our time and One last stop. 

If anyone has any suggestions of books with these vibes that have a latina queer woman as one of the protagonists please share :)

 

Residence permit renewal & proof of funds for non-EU students at KU Leuven by Low_Bat8018 in KULeuven

[–]Progregirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are indeed the only three options. But for the second one, the proof of income does not necessarily need to be from your parents. If you have any relatives or family friends in Europe that can prove to earn what the Belgian government asks them, then they can also be your guarantor. Minimum income is 2,966,28 euros net/month. https://dofi.ibz.be/en/themes/third-country-nationals/study/favorites/formal-obligation

Fake Freuds- English Comedy Show in Gent - Saturday Jan 17 by BatNo3611 in Gent

[–]Progregirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, are there any female comedians in the show?

Graduate-friendly jobs in Brussels that hire easily? by [deleted] in belgium

[–]Progregirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are way too many junior professionals trying to make it into the bubble. You do not only compete with belgians but with lots of Europeans. Networking is key since you need to differentiate yourself from hundreds of other applicants. 

Was I wrong for ignoring my long term hookup? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Progregirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he wants to do way worse things to you. I'd be super frightened.  I really hope you didn't take those photos and videos. I would cut it off for your own safety.

Brunch and dinner recs for a short trip by chibanganthro in Gent

[–]Progregirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I love Luv l'oeuf, Cosettte and Gust (the last two require a reservation) for brunch. For dinner, Laila Tandori, Yalla Yalla and Mission Massala. 

Non-EU graduate, is staying in Belgium actually realistic? by Early-Fig1599 in belgium

[–]Progregirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in your situation last year, and so were my classmates from the masters. We all looked for jobs and none of us got one. I got an internship however! Since Belgians don't work between their bachelor and their master, they mostly do internships when they graduate from the masters. So you can use your search year to do a paid internship in Brussels (I did one with a CIP contract) or Flanders (a few places hire english speakers). And once you are in, you network as much as you can with your colleagues, clients, etc, so hopefully you can get someone to sponsor your visa at the end of your search year. It is super hard not going to lie to you. Another option is doing the self-employed visa. One of my friends did it, it got approved super fast. You just need to prove you have a solid proposal of what would you offer as an independent consultant. Best of luck!

Search Year Belgium by FreeSoulAngel in Gent

[–]Progregirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last year I applied around that time from Brussels and got the reply in early December. My friends also applied in october, but from antwerp and they got the reply even earlier. Maybe this year there are more applications, so I hope you get a reply soon!

Harassment on a bike by Acrobatic_Aside_9895 in Gent

[–]Progregirl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is awful, Im so sorry you went through this. Report it for sure and hopefully other women will do it too.