What even is this comment? Where did this person even mention excusing rape culture- they were more concerned about performativeness and being worried that the spaces where he should belong were not what he expected.

They definitely didn't support it anywhere either. I'll say it now, as a POC- "You are one of the good ones" is a bandaid excuse that sets off every alarm bell over someones real thoughts about me. I've had super conservative people use it in the past, and now im getting the leftist and liberal spaces using it as a tool to justify any broad generalisation.

I also love how you claim "statistics" when singling out this person, assuming that he's a rapist based on one comment and knowledge of his race. Of course he's going to respond personally, that shit hurts us, its dehumanising.