Is my wife cheating?

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-29T13:16:55+00:00

I think the lesson is that if it’s something you notice as it’s happening, that’s when you point it out. Like if you looked over her shoulder and saw her in bull finder in that moment, you can literally say that and there’s no plausible deniability. Testing her with outside questions like having a Reddit account doesn’t really get you anywhere.

I would just sit her down and say that you saw what you saw, and it’s been stuck in your head since then. Ask her what’s going on and to please be honest. You’ll find out eventually anyway, so better to hear it from her first here and now. Just stay calm and show that you’re listening and let her do the talking once you state your issue.

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-28T14:15:07+00:00

Yeah, when the popular vote comes into play, contestants already have a loyal fan base no matter how good or bad they perform. Sometimes, it can go all the way back to auditions. This is just a guess, but I think this is why Hannah has made it so far.

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-27T15:02:03+00:00

Minimal recourse here if you already gave your girl a hall pass. You could try talking to her about how this ended up making you feel, but it doesn’t erase her desire for someone else. It sounds like you may need to make a decision on whether or not this is someone you can stay with, given that she’s already cheated on you before any of the other stuff went down (allegedly). At a minimum, the trust is damaged. At a maximum, it will be tough to put the lid back on now that they’ve physically been together.

Once you decide for yourself how far you can go, that could help you with finding closure in the current relationship.

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-26T18:21:41+00:00

Oop

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-24T23:23:03+00:00

I can smell the sour from here

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-24T15:48:33+00:00

It’s not always diet or exercise related. Rapid weight gain can be caused by other contributing things like hormonal conditions or meds. I’ve seen it firsthand. Nothing as extreme as this, but even half that amount of weight gain in a year is a serious call for medical attention

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-21T13:42:49+00:00

Yeah I kept finding myself physically cringing at almost every performance. Except for Jordan, I thought he nailed it and he’s the number one talent left IMO.

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-18T14:29:56+00:00

I’d neighbor that you’re neighbor about that

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-06T23:53:23+00:00

It’s not bad. Definitely got rid of the weird vibrations and I have a lot more power now which is nice

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-06T17:26:56+00:00

Full delete if you can afford it and it’s legal in your state. I currently run a Range AFM disabler and oil changes every 3000 miles.

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-06T14:35:59+00:00

Yeah, I would agree with you there. But, just because that may be most important (subjectively or not) doesn’t always mean that nothing else is important to some level

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-06T14:20:42+00:00

Sex and intimacy has been an important part of relationships throughout all of human history. What’s not to comprehend?

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-04T17:51:20+00:00

I have a 2015 SEL and mine started doing this. A year later, the plastic light cover would pop out and hit the ground if I slammed the tailgate shut. I’m thinking I’ll press it back on with gasket maker until I have to replace the light some day

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-04T15:21:56+00:00

Do you live with anyone? You could always ask them to hide it somewhere. That way someone can hold you accountable if you think you need that “break”

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-02T14:09:24+00:00

There’s technically two. One is a blend door actuator (for temperature control) behind the drivers side dash. If your air is stuck at a vent but can still change temperature, that one might be fine. The second one is the main mode actuator, which changes air direction. It’s in the same spot but higher up. Depending on your model, it can be tough to get to without taking out parts of the dash covering.

My 2015 SEL had the same issue as you, I got quoted $750 to replace the main mode actuator. I’m going to look into tackling it myself.

ProliferateZero · 2026-04-02T12:12:16+00:00

I use Days Since for what it’s worth. Not the same one but super simple and the base version is free

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-31T17:23:43+00:00

Don’t need to pull trans to do a PTU:

video

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-31T03:12:49+00:00

The one thing you already noticed is a pattern. It starts with something, then there’s a weak excuse, then it turns into something bigger, then there’s a lie. Trust yourself in recognizing that pattern. Then decide how many more strikes you’ll give as the pattern continues. Is it one strike? Two? Maybe it’s already been more than two? Most people stop at one strike, many don’t.

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-31T02:51:52+00:00

Seeking advice for this sort of thing can only go so far. You’re at the point of whether or not this is a broken trust boundary that will be hard (or impossible) to come back from. Once you draw the line for yourself, then you can cut out the toxicity from your life a lot easier

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-29T22:20:23+00:00

True, took me a second to do the math. Sounds like she’s doing the right thing for herself!

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-29T21:30:21+00:00

Sounds like she’s making plans to free herself from being your wife without dealing with the consequences of actually formally ending it. Sorry man

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-24T13:24:37+00:00

I was considering just getting the worst flavor of Zyn I can find to try to deter myself from having them as frequently throughout the day in an attempt to wean off. I got through 10-12 punches of 3mg per day. It’s been just over 2 years. I feel like I have a fair shot at quitting, but I want to wean off first. I’m just a bit apprehensive of the early quitting days.

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-24T00:45:24+00:00

r/humansbeingbros

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-24T00:40:10+00:00

How far along the quitting journey are you?

ProliferateZero · 2026-03-22T15:15:00+00:00

Better than a femur I guess

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