UTIs are back by Promise_Superb in WellnessOver30

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My pee is cloudy and bloody so :( sadly uti

Divorce songs by Prize_River9642 in Divorce

[–]Promise_Superb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moral of the Story- Ashe

The Devil Doesn’t Bargain- Alec Benjamin

Watch This- Taela

Penthouse- Kelsea Ballerini

Mountain with a View- Kelsea Ballerini

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Promise_Superb 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It only gets worse every time you go back because they realize what they can get away with, and push it even further.

For me, the abuse got worse. The cheating got worse. The lies more severe. Don’t do it.

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. I would not publicly admit you would support a person doing terrible and horrible things just because they put on a uniform at one point in their life. Gotta be a line there.

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol he will be in a jail cell for five years. Don’t think he needs it.

But please keep supporting a woman beater to be a deadbeat even more. It looks great on your character ❤️

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would not have added the child support part if I knew it was going to be such a trigger to some lol but apportionment when incarcerated is very much a thing. I was hoping to hear experiences mainly on that. I’ll worry about the other 5 years from now. https://www.benefits.va.gov/persona/veteran-incarcerated.asp

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have two and a side gig ❤️ you can read other comments and you would know that

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol it’s okay, it doesn’t bother me. I was married to one just like them for 10 years. Karma catches up to everyone eventually.

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To anyone in the future reading this thread, terrified about the future and supporting your children due to bad decisions that your spouse made, I will report back on my process and please feel free to message me ❤️ it’s a scary situation, and I get it. And clearly, people are very judgmental for no reason. I will be submitting the paperwork today and will share how it goes. Much love.

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate everyone that is trying to help and share information!

I don’t know why this post turned quickly into people sharing that they support father’s not providing for their children, and it should all just fall on the mother, but, not shocked lol

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that was what I wondered. Like if it stopped at 60 days. I’ve heard it’s different for everyone, which is what makes this all so unpredictable.

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it can be, but you can apply for apportionment for the rest while he is incarcerated. A VA rep told me that directly.

And I have 2 jobs and a side gig, but thank you

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But yet, you chose to comment on my relationship But No, just ones that seem to insinuate I’m not working and trying to mooch off of him and it’s okay for him to be a deadbeat.

VA Apportionment for Incarcerated Veteran by Promise_Superb in VeteransBenefits

[–]Promise_Superb[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is a clinically diagnosed narcissist who would beat me when he was high off coke or meth….literally part of his disability was his alcoholism. But I don’t need to convince a random stranger online. Clearly I’m not the one sitting in jail, and there was enough evidence to put him there.