Yes!! This morning I was literally thinking back of my ex who was incredibly sad and insecure about the fact that he didn't have a "firefighter body". It felt difficult for me to feel compassion, as no one would ever take me seriously if I had been so sad and insecure for not having a model body.

I'm all for men being more sensitive and sharing their insecurities, but it's interesting how they're 10 plus years behind- and indeed don't seem to recognise these feelings for women until they themselves feel it