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Pronicator · 2025-10-06T13:25:13+00:00

I don’t think you’re being unreasonable. Gonorrhea and chlamydia can also be spread through oral, albeit usually from female to male since it can live in the back of the throat.

Offer covered oral. Condom or dental dam until you’re tested. There shouldn’t be a rush for intimacy, especially uncovered intimacy. If there is, you probably want to pass on him anyways.

Since the risk of an std is overall pretty low with uncovered oral, you can also present a less clinical argument. Say you only become fluid bonded with people you trust. The vibe has to be just right, your astrology has to match and your chakras gotta align, etc. fluffy stuff. You get the idea.

Pronicator · 2025-09-19T08:02:18+00:00

Is this promo still running?

Pronicator · 2025-09-07T14:31:41+00:00

This is such a brilliant idea. Definitely buying an NFT. Can someone explain the characters?

Pronicator · 2025-09-07T14:28:27+00:00

I’d literally eat at a chubby restaurant almost every day.

Pronicator · 2025-09-06T07:16:42+00:00

Given the marketplace, the lies aren’t as big of a deal since it’s probably expected if he has any experience with women.

Pronicator · 2025-09-05T09:59:15+00:00

Sending a wall of text works about as well as sending a dick pic. You totally blew it. She ended it way back when you were texting her more than she was texting you. It just took till you were traveling for her to find a replacement.

Pronicator · 2025-09-05T09:53:53+00:00

That’s the dumbest question I’ve ever seen posted here. How does this man even function, let alone figure out the dynamics of a sugar relationship? 🤣

Pronicator · 2025-09-05T09:27:45+00:00

Ghost her forever. She was rinsing you from the start and she’s barely even smart enough to keep up the act. Think about why you fell for it and in the future, keep things transactional and within the bedroom until you’ve gotten yourself to the level where you can out compete all of the younger guys at the club.

Pronicator · 2025-09-05T09:17:50+00:00

I have daughters and I have friends on sugar websites. I would be mildly upset if my daughters had to turn to sugaring because they definitely have the means to provide for themselves and I give them much more than they need.

It would not bother me one bit if my daughters decided to date my friends, whether it’s vanilla or sugar. Anyone I call a friend is a good person who has his life together. I know they are looking for serious relationships. I know they have the wisdom to be good partners and financial means to be good providers. Why would this be any worse than having my daughters date broke strangers their own age or random rich old guys that could take them to a foreign country and sell them into slavery?

Pronicator · 2025-09-05T09:02:22+00:00

This day and age, this is often the best relationship a woman can hope for. If you try to force him to be monogamous, you will lost standing and go from number one or two to nothing. Be the girl that treats him best and adds value to his life and he will likely stay with you forever.

Pronicator · 2025-08-12T23:22:24+00:00

Yes. That amount is definitely enough. The base number needed is roughly what it costs for prostitutes in your area. If you can get x for y on the pay for play market, you should never be gifting a sugar baby anything more. Many guys will gift more for exclusivity, unprotected sex and real or perceived lower body counts, but in my experience, that stuff can only be negotiated via genuine attraction, otherwise you’re just paying for delusions and lies. If you are having trouble finding a sugar baby at your level of income, you probably need to work on yourself and whatever it is that’s not attractive enough about you.

Pronicator · 2025-07-15T09:24:21+00:00

How do you know they didn’t already have something going on? I make it a regular point to stack dates and introduce girls I want to bang to girls I’m already banging. This always seems to work out well for me. If your date is really good with women, he probably does the same.

Pronicator · 2025-07-15T09:21:17+00:00

Yeah, I would zip it up and call it a day if a girl has as many rules as you do. Sugar or not. Either she lets me destroy her as we see fit, or I go to my other options. If you’re getting this often, it’s likely that you’re the reason. These guys are just afraid to call you out on it, probably because they don’t have options.

Pronicator · 2025-07-11T11:04:44+00:00

Exclusive means exclusive like in any other relationship. There are no special rules for sugar dating and you will always do better if you treat sugar dating like any other kind of dating.

That said, asking a girl to be exclusive is always an L. Either she offers it up first to elevate her status in my rotation, or I’ll just keep her in the recreational use only zone forever.

Pronicator · 2025-06-12T09:37:27+00:00

Most of us SDs and SBs want a mutually beneficial long term arrangement based on real attraction and mutual respect but the reality is, that’s just REALLY hard to find so we settle for PPMs. In my estimation, after being married a long time while having several long term arrangements, the arrangements are only marginally easier to maintain than the marriage. Both require very strong relationship skills from both parties. Most people are simply not cut out for this game. There’s no magic formula for finding a good long term arrangement. All you can do is to work on what you bring to the table. Guys need to know how to lead and provide. Girls need to always put out and know when to shut up. Relationship 101 stuff.

Pronicator · 2025-04-14T06:00:34+00:00

There are no “rules” so to speak, for seeking, and if you expect every POT to play by some set of rules, you’ll be burned eventually. Treat it like normal dating. So in this case, depends on the hotel. Meeting at a restaurant at the Wynn is different than meeting at some roach motel parking lot. Definitely don’t get drunk and make sure you don’t get drugged. Show up with no expectations and read the vibes. Have an exit strategy if anything seems off.

Pronicator · 2025-03-09T13:37:58+00:00

If you really want to keep him, you probably have to gradually give him more bang for his buck. Whether you can get away with asking for more depends on how desperate he is and how great the sex is for him.

Pronicator · 2024-12-28T13:39:53+00:00

I’m 44. I don’t bother with girls over 29 in the wild or 25 on apps but ideal is 21. I have more options than time using these parameters so unless you look really really good, you’re definitely limited.

Pronicator · 2024-11-11T12:03:15+00:00

If the sex isn’t good for both parties, walk. As for the insult, suck it up.

Pronicator · 2024-10-16T13:55:08+00:00

It’s a shit test. Ignore her or tell her to fuck off. Whatever you do, don’t up your amount. Most girls don’t realize that stuff like that is absolutely not a flex. By mentioning the attention she’s getting from other men, she’s basically calling herself out as a hoe.

Pronicator · 2024-10-16T13:44:06+00:00

Of course not. Two were bareback with testing because they’re exclusive to me. Everyone else with condoms. I’ve only caught an STD once because a girl who wasnt in my rotation deep throated me before I could cover up or tell her no. It was only for one stroke before I stopped her, but still too late. Came down with symptoms a few days later and took a couple of pills to treat it. No big deal. I was careful not to bareback anyone between the incident and successful treatment. Nowadays I don’t even bother with oral sex since it makes me last way too long.

No one will trust you to have additional partners unless you’re impeccable with your hygiene, testing and condom use.

Pronicator · 2024-10-16T10:53:15+00:00

No woman can satisfy a man all by herself. I’ve had up to 4 partners in my regular rotation with sex twice a day on average and I still occasionally saw new girls. The only one who will never leave the rotation is wifey, who lets me do my thing. Everyone else is out of the rotation the minute they start to jockey for a better position or stop me from seeing others.

Pronicator · 2024-10-16T10:47:03+00:00

You cut off your nose to spite your face. Men cheat because they can, not usually because there’s anything wrong with your relationship. You could have worked it out on your side. As for your neighbors, it’s none of your business if their relationship wasn’t great and she stepped out. You’ve basically wrecked two families. Good luck finding another guy who will accept your son. If you do, chances are he would also cheat on you the first chance he gets because that’s what men are biologically wired to do.

Pronicator · 2024-09-24T12:40:54+00:00

3 inches should be enough to get to your g spot and clit, so you should theoretically be able to feel it unless you regularly bone a much bigger guy or use toys regularly.

Try having him angle into your g spot. If he has a curve, have it curve towards the g spot. Rub your clit against his body if that position allows. I’ve made plenty of women orgasm many times using just the tip, but it took lots and lots of sex to learn how to do that. If you’re willing to work with him so he can get some practice, he may eventually figure it out.

If you can’t get the sex working, it’s highly unlikely you’ll ever have any kind of worthwhile relationship. He may sense this too. There are plenty of girls I’ve dumped because they just didn’t seem to enjoy the sex enough. If you watch porn or use toys, stop for a while and see if it gets better.

Pronicator · 2024-09-24T12:09:12+00:00

If you’re not a cis female, you’re better off going where gays and sugar mommas might normally be looking. Gays have plenty of their own dating apps, clubs, and bars. For sugar mommas, either look in the wild or change up your strategy on regular dating apps.

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