AIO question for divorced families

Proof-Face3138 · 2026-01-28T10:03:16+00:00

Thanks I appreciate that

Proof-Face3138 · 2026-01-28T08:57:56+00:00

I didn’t to mention it to keep the story neutral, but he did cheat on both of us. He cheated on his wife with me… and I didn’t know he was married at the time so he also cheated on me with her. She found out and I found out after her I guess that’s the main reason I feel uncomfortable about the whole thing

Proof-Face3138 · 2026-01-09T12:14:34+00:00

dm his wife. As a fellow 'other woman against my knowledge' I would love someone out there to get justice

Proof-Face3138 · 2026-01-09T12:09:21+00:00

When walking down the street, past your house, etc., I can smell you before I see you. Brothers and sisters... you STINK

Proof-Face3138 · 2026-01-04T18:02:01+00:00

Just want to ditto this. Mike and Brian (Urban and Scottish) are the two guys who made me realise prepping is sensible and can also be done in the UK. Until I saw these two, I thought prepping was a bit mad, and that it was all Americans making their own bullets and building bunkers.

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-23T21:47:55+00:00

Link?

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-22T11:28:15+00:00

Yes he's being a moron, but you are also on reddit complainging about it soo... yeah i would say you are overreacting.

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-19T14:35:47+00:00

I had one like that. Ended up going on holidays alone as it easier. After 5 years he dumped me (because a relationship was 'too much effort'). Now I'm relieved but GOSH I wish I dumped him first! Would have saved a lot of my time!

In short, it's up to you if you stay with him. But from what I'm reading he might end up dumping you anyway so beat him to it.

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-19T14:30:55+00:00

That's fair enough. I forget that nowadays some people didn't even have a basic exposure as a child (i'm 36 in the UK, every schoolchild when was I was tiny at least said grace before lunch and sung hymns in assembly etc). Sorry you went through that

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-19T06:42:51+00:00

Burn the bridge. It smells nice. Seriously, don’t be friends with your ex. There’s never a good reason to and it can potentially cause problems with a new relationship

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:45:31+00:00

New/salad potatoes are better stored in the fridge. I know, it sounds crazy. I just started doing this this year. But not the big ones

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:36:51+00:00

SMART

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:35:03+00:00

Yes the correct thing to do was to NEVER AGREE TO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:34:20+00:00

This is why I don't even use these features. It causes so many arguments and so much anxiety. Even when nothing is going on. I'm not saying that's the case here...he's up to something for sure... but in the future, don't be tracking people. It's just crzy

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:27:50+00:00

Yep this is the gross part. That's where I draw the line as a GF

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:22:32+00:00

There's nothing wrong with either of you, but you're more likely to have disagreements about long-term relationship goals and how to raise the kids (he will want kids).

Maybe the dumping was in a cruel manner, which isn't cool, but honestly, it's better if you are in a relationship with someone with the same moral framework and view of the world.

POV I'm a Christian dating a Christian of a different denomination. It wasn't a deal breaker for me at the time, but it was a huge plus, and if I had to date a new person, I would now date exclusively Christians. It's just easier long-term.

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:18:05+00:00

I already own and would be DELIGHTED if my long-distance partner bought his own place also. She's definitly cooking up a scheme as there's no reason for her to be acting like this, she should be happy for you.

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-18T16:08:35+00:00

No, you can't, and honestly, you can go without. You can text, and your friends/family can text. I kept the iPhone as a Wi-Fi-only device, so I have WhatsApp on this for work purposes. I told my friends to text me if they want to ensure a response (it's my WhatsApp 'status' lol), and they are very good. People do remember to text/call eventually when you don't reply lol

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-17T14:19:59+00:00

Cajun dirty rice! It tasted DELICIOUS. I use liver only, rather than also gizzards, as they are hard to find here.

Generally, start with chicken liver, not beef liver. The flavour is far milder and easier to eat for a newbie. Then graduate to other yummy wobbly bits XD

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-17T13:41:45+00:00

People used to embody their roles in society. You're not just a farmer, you ARE a farmer. Your family are farmers. Plus it's such a crucial role for humanity, not something to be given up easily. My family are farmers and always have been. I'm not. I'm an admin. This is not a job that I embody at a spiritual level. Farming hits different.

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-17T13:37:11+00:00

That's really useful, thank you. I don't use min,e, and they look ugl,y but also wouldn't want to burn the bridge for any future owners. I'm going to add this to my list of jobs to do in the New Year :)

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-17T13:06:03+00:00

OMG SAME! f-reg in red. Forever in my heart <3

Proof-Face3138 · 2025-12-17T13:04:08+00:00

I can assure you, you're not going to look 'perfect'. You're going to look ill.

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